u/Bright_Arm3000

Hi everyone,

I’m going through a very painful breakup and would be grateful for your prayers.

I had hoped this relationship might lead toward marriage and a stable Catholic future, but he pulled away and ended things. I’m trying to stay no contact, keep my dignity, and seek God’s will rather than act out of hurt or fear.

This has brought up deep wounds around abandonment, betrayal, and not feeling chosen, so I’m asking for prayers for healing, peace, discernment, and strength.

Please pray that if reconciliation is God’s will, it would come with clarity, repentance, commitment, and real peace. And if it is not God’s will, please pray that I can release him and be led toward the safe, faithful love God wants for me.

Thank you, and God bless.

Hi everyone,

I hope this is okay to post here. I’m asking if even one or two people could please pray with me, as Jesus says that where two agree in prayer, our Father hears us.

I’ve been going through a really painful breakup with someone I deeply loved and thought I might build a future with. There had been talk of marriage, children, meeting family, and making real plans together, but then he pulled away and ended things. I’ve stayed no contact and tried to keep my dignity, but my heart is honestly broken.

This has brought up a lot of older wounds for me too — abandonment, betrayal, feeling used, and feeling like I’m never fully chosen by the men I love. I’ve had relationships in the past where I was cheated on, left suddenly, or made to feel like I wasn’t enough, and this situation has reopened a lot of that pain.

I’m praying for God’s will above all. If this man is meant to come back with love, repentance, clarity, and real commitment, I pray God makes a way. If he is not for me, I pray God gives me the strength to release him, heal properly, and be led toward a safe, stable, faithful love.

Please pray for my heart, my nervous system, my peace, and my faith. Please pray that I do not lose hope, but also that I don’t cling to anything God is asking me to let go of.

Thank you so much to anyone who prays for me. It means more than I can explain.

I feel bad admitting it but I really feel such resentment for the best relationship I ever had ending and I just know it is because he couldn't manage the spoilt 15 year old SD.

He is a wealthy man.

I was the first after over a year of her mom and him living separately.

He wanted me to meet her after 2 dates and I protected her.

I booked days off work to go on a trip he invited me on for him to suddenly realize, (despite my various attempts) that due to the heavy social media presence on this trip it would upset her.

He made it up to me with a much bigger trip.

She called me a whore and a prostitute despite the fact that I haven't been with any man physically for years before her dad - who I absolutely adored.

She is in trouble in school constantly and seems to be awful to her own mother.

I am in my mid 30s and I have had some horrible relationships and I really believed this was the one.

My own parents are split so I totally get how weird it is see them move on and date someone else and I was respectful of that and never forced myself on her.

The connection between us was rare and unique but it just feels when it came to it I was the easier person to disappoint.

Has anyone else been through this feeling of being expected to understand everything, accept everything, be endlessly patient — while the dad never actually protects the relationship?