Desperate for help right now, I edited ONE image on my website and somehow the entire formatting got wonky. On every page publicly, every single text is bolded now. however in editing mode, none of that is the case. I can't even fix it because it isn't ACTUALLY bold - it's just showing up that way, it looks horrendous. help. lol
about a year ago, I began TTC. almost immediately I also began spotting 2-3 days before my period, which I found odd because that never happened before. i told my gyno who said it was normal. I explained it wasn’t MY normal but she wasn’t concerne. it progressed and I ended up having a really wierd period where I felt very sick and had foul smelling blood. I started to develop severe exhaustion and excess sweating. I was going through depression so I just ignored it. fast forward it got to the point where I sometimes can’t function cause I’m so tired. night sweats and hot flashes too during the day, severe cramping when not on my period (calendar lined up with me ovulating, so could have been ovulation cramps - but they were AWFUL worse than my period) and i began to think I gained 5 pounds because I felt huge. I didn’t weigh myself but I swore I was gaining weight. finally weighed myself and realized I was just extremely bloated because my weight was the same but my stomach was huge to the point where clothes just didn’t fit right. I’m 128 for reference, wear size s/xs, and I was starting to look pregnant but I’m not. Finally my period came a week early and I felt like I was gonna pass out at church, I laid on the floor of the bathroom. I got an appointment with my gyno - they did an ultrasound and said they saw a polyp. Sent me for bloodwork, everything normal besides blood sugar was low. Scheduled hysteroscopy - they said there was no polyp to be found but they biopsied and measured something else? On my notes it says “thickened endometrium.” Sent me for more bloodwork. I’m supposed to do it on Monday.
is it possible they missed the polyp the second time? I’m highly concerned it’s cancer and they missed it. Would the biopsy they took of what I’m assuming was just a piece of my uterus show cancer if there is? Should I ask for additional imaging? Also, my mother and sister both have PALB2 gene. I haven’t tested for it yet, but it’s highly possible I also have it.
for context, my husband always makes innapropriate jokes. honestly his whole family does. his grandpa literally makes innapropriate jokes to me and we joke that he “flirts” with me. (in reality he’s just not all there anymore) I recently discovered my husband grandpa was insanely handsome when he was young, like movie star handsome. I joked to my husband in front of his brother in laws “I love you and all, but I might have been born in the wrong generation” and “next time grandpa flirts with me I might just flirt back.” my husband, who is the king of innapropriate jokes and embarrassing me, said “this is getting wierd” without looking up from his phone, didn’t laugh, and it seemed like everyone took that as him being offended and started defending how handsome my husband is. like tf? yeah, I know he’s hot I married him. I was joking, obviously I don’t want to do grandpa. he’s 90 years old.
in just felt so dumb and embarrased and I’m mad at my husband for making me uncomfortable when he’s the king of saying things he probably shouldn’t. I thought it was funny and now I feel like a piece of shit who put down her husband when it was supposed to be a joke.
I’m experiencing extreme dry hair after a period of hair loss. yes - I had EVERYTHING under the sun tested and I don’t have deficienies or thyroid issues. I took a drug, bupropion, last year which causes hair loss, and it’s likely never stopped due to extreme stress. on top of that, my hair became extremely dry. then, stupidly I started blow drying my hair every day because with all the tiny curly hairs popping up, my hair looked insane. blow drying is the only way I feel presentable. but I know it is making the dryness worse. no conditioner is helping and im scared to try new ones. I tried dove intensive repair and it made my shedding 10x worse, L’Oréal elvive made me break out like crazy and wasn’t even worth is because it didn’t solve my problem. I currently use keratase genesis products and I can’t justify spending $100 because while they have helped retain my hair growth, they do absolutely nothing for my dryness. slapping the conditioner on does literally nothing. I just tried tresseme rich moisture and didn’t feel it helped much. please recommend any products that won’t trigger shedding and can help me restore my hair..and any other tips :(
Photos included but they really don’t show how bad it is. my hair is puffy and fluffy all the time and it feels like straw. lol, last photo is my hair completely natural right now..
location: New York
basically, our offer was accepted. while going through the contract with our lawyer, it came up that’s we’d lose the deposit due upon signing (50k) entirely if we signed the contract and our mortgage is approved and then later denied due to job loss or any other reason.
we don’t really think there’s a huge chance it could happen, but his job has laid off/fired 4 people recently (he doesn’t really have all the details, but he believes there was some misconduct, however they were never replaced so that points to a lay off maybe?)
he‘s one of the most trustworthy/desired workers, and management, but he still thinks there’s a small chance, because there’s talk of closing one of the three warehouses in the company, and he works at the smaller one.
it sucks cause it’s all just a what if. it could all be completely fine and we don’t sign the contract and lose this house because of a what if. but if we do we lose 50k. I guess my question is, how often to sellers ACTUALLY keep the whole deposit if something like this happens? isn’t it a massive problem for them if we have to sue them for it? aren’t they more likely to just cut their losses and put the house back on market and not deal with a lawsuit?
I feel like my lawyer has to just say worst case scenario to protect herself, but idk. just looking for a second opinion.
I can’t even begin to write down everything that’s happened to me in the last year, but I’m at the point where I feel absolutely insane. I think I’ve been manipulated but I think I might just be crazy. This person outwardly appears to be the kindest most admirable person in the WORLD but I have witnessed crazy hurtful behavior privately and I’ve also been told by someone in the close inner circle that they have a “alter ego/multiple personalities” that only comes out when they’re with guys friends. when I tell you no one would even beleive me if I told them and I would look like the crazy person and I start to actually question myself and ask myself if any of this real? Did I make this all up? I’ve only met one person EVER who has criticized their behavior and everyone else in the world worships them and it’s scary.
