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Conventionally attractive women as per Indian society still never had any romantic experience

Hi , I am a 20 yo women who has never been in a relationship, I am conventionally attractive as per the Indian society I had to tell this before saying that I am single , I have al the features that are considered cute or feminine just not my personality, I was a tomboy , I am the one making nasty jokes all the time , I am not considered fragile or soft , I had financial difficulties growing up ,my first job was at 16 Now im doing my bachelors with a night shift job , I never experienced a guy liking me and I liking him back the reason i think is prosperity, I mu personality and life miserable I think men usually wanna date a happy women not the one struggling deprived of love , I have never experienced love, not from parents or grandparents or anyone , I don't trust anyone, I have been completely self independent or survival since a year , and everyone at some point had someon who liked them or been in a relationship, I think to get love you need to be loved as well . What do you think lmk , i used dating apps for a year Never had a guy put efforts in me who was sane

Hi , I am a 20 yo women who has never been in a relationship, I am conventionally attractive as per the Indian society I had to tell this before saying that I am single , I have al the features that are considered cute or feminine just not my personality, I was a tomboy , I am the one making nasty jokes all the time , I am not considered fragile or soft , I had financial difficulties growing up ,my first job was at 16 Now im doing my bachelors with a night shift job , I never experienced a guy liking me and I liking him back the reason i think is prosperity, I mu personality and life miserable I think men usually wanna date a happy women not the one struggling deprived of love , I have never experienced love, not from parents or grandparents or anyone , I don't trust anyone, I have been completely self independent or survival since a year , and everyone at some point had someon who liked them or been in a relationship, I think to get love you need to be loved as well . What do you think lmk , i used dating apps for a year Never had a guy put efforts in me who was sane

Why do so many privileged people insist they aren't privileged?

This is something I've genuinely never understood.

I often see people who are able to go on solo trips at 18, regularly go café hopping, have their rent, bills, education, clothes, and other expenses covered by their family, yet they still describe themselves as "middle class" or say they "built everything through hard work."

Even people like Elon Musk have described themselves as having a middle-class upbringing, despite having opportunities and resources that most people simply don't have.

What confuses me is that acknowledging privilege doesn't erase hard work. You can work incredibly hard and still have advantages that other people don't.

To me, if your basic living expenses are taken care of, if you have financial security, if you can travel, eat out frequently, or pursue hobbies without constantly worrying about money, those are privileges. They may not make someone "rich," but they do provide opportunities that many others don't have.

So why is it so difficult for people to acknowledge that? Why do so many people seem uncomfortable admitting they had advantages?

I'm genuinely curious to hear different perspectives. Is it because "privilege" has become associated with guilt? Do people have a different definition of privilege? Or is there something I'm missing?

So I'm going to be 20 currently ( in the coming month) i have been working in wipro as an associate ( calling agent) for 8 months now with incentive i get 30 k , pretty good as i have a night shift and go to college in the morning. I have 3.2 CTC now.Can I get a hike of at least 30% in some fields like finance( IM IN TYBAF) , marketing? Because I cannot imagine making less than this????