r/Mumbai_Relationships

Hey I'm Nishita, I’m a Life & Relationship Coach, and I’m here because I genuinely like helping people figure their shit out.

I’ve been working in this space for the last two years, and something I’ve realised along the way is that most people don’t necessarily need someone to tell them what to do.

Sometimes, you just need someone to sit with you, ask the questions you haven’t been asking yourself, help you see the pattern you’ve been stuck in, and give you a little clarity about what to do next.

That’s what I love about coaching.

Maybe you’re confused about a relationship.

Maybe you keep finding yourself in the same dating patterns.

Maybe you feel stuck in your career or personal life.

Maybe you know you want something to change, but you genuinely have no idea where to start.

Or maybe there’s one question that has been sitting in your head for weeks and you just want an outside perspective.

I work very personally with people. I don’t believe in giving everyone the same 5-step solution because, honestly, people aren’t that simple.

A huge part of how I coach comes from something that has always felt very natural to me: being able to listen, understand what’s underneath what someone is saying, and help them connect the dots for themselves.

I’m really grateful that I get to use that part of me now.

Through one-on-one coaching, workshops, communities and conversations, I’ve had the opportunity to work with people in very different situations, and every time, I’m reminded of why I chose to do this.

I’m also fairly new to Reddit, but I’ve been spending more time here lately, answering relationship and dating questions whenever I can. I’ve really enjoyed the conversations so far, and I’d love to become a more active part of these communities.

So, if you’ve been feeling stuck, confused, overwhelmed, or simply curious about why something in your life isn’t working the way you want it to, I’m opening up a few low-cost clarity sessions right now.

It’s a chance to bring whatever is on your mind, unpack it together, and hopefully leave with a little more clarity and a direction you can actually act on.

You don’t need to have everything figured out before you reach out.

If there’s something you’ve been trying to figure out, my DMs are open. Tell me what’s going on, and let’s see if I can help. ❤️

If you read until the end, I hope you have a beautiful month ahead and lots of love 🥹

I really don't know.

Hello readers, I am well to do Mumbai guy. Searching for a genuine relationship which can turn into marriages as we get along. In my 30 years of life had a couple of relationships & breakups because often girls judge too early or just conclude quick. I might be wrong to look for a marriage on Reddit but I don’t wanna regret that I never tried. I am adventurous kind of philosophy so tried everything but addicted to nothing.
I don’t drink or eat meat. I am happy go easy kind of person. Would prefer Brahmin girls … because I strongly believe that Brahmins got a lot of love to giveaway .. They are the ones who taught the mankind to fall in love with the divine , have a simple but worthy life… Am open to all kind of convo’s … I am also a thinker of what next could happen or can be created so that humans get engaged & lovingly spend their lifespan… There’s no such problem I can’t solve other then finding someone who could love unconditionally like a new born baby …

Thanks for reading out
Happy posting
Would love & hope to see some positive responses.

My mother is widow with 49 age, one person in society is same age with her asking to her for date

So is it good if they go in this age, both are marathi but different caste what's your view?

In this age also date possible!?

They both meet as we live in same apartment, so can they both date?

He is divorce and mom is widow

Hi, I am an average looking guy.
Anyone male who was previously average looking and improved their looks with cosmetic surgery ?
How has life been after that ? Did the dating life, female attention change and become better ?
Was it like a complete identity turnaround with major life enhancements or just a minor difference ?

Hi everyone! I'm an 18F from Mumbai, and I'm thinking about asking a guy (18M) to Rani Baug (Veermata Jijabai Bhosale Udyan/Victoria Gardens) for what would basically be our first proper date.

For some context, we've known each other for several months through classes. We text regularly, have talked on calls, and are comfortable around each other. We've met outside of class a few times, but only for casual things like having snacks like vada pao, shev puri together, visiting a temple, and getting ice cream. We've never actually planned a proper date or spent several hours together.

I like the idea of Rani Baug because we can walk around, look at the animals, talk without feeling awkward, and it seems more relaxed than sitting in a café the whole time. It also isn't too expensive, which is a plus for both of us.

My questions are:

Is a zoo a good choice for a first proper date?

Does it come across as cute and thoughtful, or childish?

Have any of you been on a zoo date? How was your experience?

Are there any downsides I should consider (crowds, weather, too much walking, etc.)?

If you're from Mumbai, would you recommend Rani Baug, or would another place be better?

sometimes she tells me that she feels like I'll eventually leave her and I really want to make her feel secure and show her that I'm not going anywhere 🥲 what do you think I should do??

So I'm 23. In my previous office a teammate of mine showed me a girl, they used to live in the same area but weren't friends or anything just knew that they live near each other.

Anyways, I saw her for the first time and I was done. She was short, had curly hairs, droopy eyes, wore specs. Overall, my type. As I'm not really an extrovert-ey person I couldn't sum up any courage to talk to her. I'd always look at her from a distance whenever we'd be working same shifts.

Few months later I asked for a team switch and went in her team. Few weeks later we started talking. Some time later a few other colleagues planned a little outing to a dam. We went there together.

Everything felt great. Everyday I'd see her for the first time it'd feel like "warm sunshine on a winter morning". We went on a couple outings with our team to Villas and stuff. She'd sleep next to me, we'd cuddle each other, I'd kiss her forehead whenever she went to sleep in my arms.

It felt like she was girlfriend yet she wasn't. Suddenly she resigned, I was heartbroken. A couple weeks later I did too.

A couple weeks before our last working days, my team planned another outing to a villa. We went. We slept together that night. Same thing we'd cuddle each other, I'd put my hand inside her tshirt and grab her waist. It wasn't anything sexual. But I felt like some kind of intimacy was there.

That night as a parting gift I gave her a Mikasa Scarf and a book - Tuesdays with Morrie. Inside that book I hid a little note confessing my feelings. Asking her out. Telling her that her presence felt like "Warm sunshine on a winter morning".

She didn't see that note for weeks. One night we had a fight because I wanted to meet her and she couldn't seem to find time. In that heat I confessed on texts. She said no.

She kept saying to stay friends. She didn't want to let me go but keep me as a friend. It hurts to know that I'm JUST a friend to her. I've been avoiding talking to her but my phone is filled with her pictures and her little vlogs that she'd make. She felt perfect she felt like everything.

Idk if I can stay FRIENDS with her and keep getting my heart broken over and over again. Idk what to do anymore.

Please advise if you have been through something similar. I'd like to know women's perspective in this as well.

Comment only if you are rich and hot..

By rich, I mean your annual family income is around 5 cr or more

And by hot, I mean if the vast majority would consider u hot

24M. I'm very intelligent in general but not in relationships, i think, and i know the below info would be biased, so try to make your opinions accordingly.

Met a person on reddit, shifted to telegram after sometime, then on whatsapp, then long calls. This entire thing lasted for around 3 months.

I traveled from Mumbai to Kerala to see her, and we had clear intentions to marry if things went right after getting committed.

When i reached Kerala, I got to know that a best friend forced kissed this girl, and she didn't stop him and liked it as well. I helped her sexually, but she didn't help me with anything sexually (no kiss or sex was done).

Spent 15k approx, office leaves, lied to the family, and then ended up getting cheated on and then the girl going into guilt trip, i have already spoke with male friends and now thinking about speaking with other people as well on this to get understanding for my life overall, about what how and when things were wrong is something confusing for me and what to learm etc.

There's too much info not mentioned, but I can discuss it in PM if someone is interested in helping a poor fellow.

So i live in bombay from more than 1 year explored everything from house parties to clubss all life have been hectic for me week by week no friendships here still that i can share anything and trust give some tips

Fyi am not an introvert