r/Mumbai_Relationships

I have been in a relationship for more than 3 years now. Sex was good and we were both equally horny. Slowly over the last few months my girlfriend has turned cold towards sex. My libido is generally very high. The problem is she never initiates now and whenever I bring it up its always about me not doing anything she is not already anticipating. I've tried doing multiple new things like staycations, longer foreplays, different ways to turn her on (maybe I am missing a few things because I can't put it in words). the problem is its always one sided and most of the time I get shot down even before it begins. So my question is for long term couples how do you keep it alive? how do you keep yourself desirable? I have been feeling very unattractive recently due to being turned down almost every time. Suggestions welcome.

For people who are going to say that she is cheating on me or whatever. I am 100% sure that is not the case.

Conventionally attractive women as per Indian society still never had any romantic experience

Hi , I am a 20 yo women who has never been in a relationship, I am conventionally attractive as per the Indian society I had to tell this before saying that I am single , I have al the features that are considered cute or feminine just not my personality, I was a tomboy , I am the one making nasty jokes all the time , I am not considered fragile or soft , I had financial difficulties growing up ,my first job was at 16 Now im doing my bachelors with a night shift job , I never experienced a guy liking me and I liking him back the reason i think is prosperity, I mu personality and life miserable I think men usually wanna date a happy women not the one struggling deprived of love , I have never experienced love, not from parents or grandparents or anyone , I don't trust anyone, I have been completely self independent or survival since a year , and everyone at some point had someon who liked them or been in a relationship, I think to get love you need to be loved as well . What do you think lmk , i used dating apps for a year Never had a guy put efforts in me who was sane

I dont feel like talking to someone after they invalidate my panic attack story.

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Hello,
I recently will start a job and location would be either Mumbai or Bangalore (I can choose). I have never lived in both cities and I am very confused which city to choose.

I have tried to reach to couple of people and got mixed suggestions. At this point in life I want to make good friends and potentially a partner.

Any advice on which city to choose in terms of community lifestyle?

I am a bisexual man getting pressured from my family to marry. While seeing any girl meeting any girl for marriage, I get a pass in terms of looks, finance, etc but cannot get through my sexual orientation. I don't want to hide anything before proceeding to marriage but in India, how do I approach openly? Any similar experience? Should I look for asexual person and have an open relationship? I am okay with that too 😬😓😓😓

I am a bisexual man getting pressured from my family to marry. While seeing any girl, meeting any girl for marriage, I get a pass in terms of looks, finance, etc., but cannot get through my sexual orientation. I don't want to hide anything before proceeding to marriage but in India, how do I approach openly? Any similar experience? Should I look for an asexual person and have an open relationship? I am okay with that too. 😬😥😓😞

My wife is very close to her sister. They exchange secrets and worries and also share good news. Her sister is also married, so I didn’t mind her talking to her often until recently, when I read their chat. Her sister is cheating on her husband. The cheating has gone on for a while, and through it all, my wife has known about it.

My wife was uneasy about it at first and advised her sister against it, but along the line, the advice changed from, “Stop it,” to, “Be careful you’re not caught.”

From the recent messages I read between them, my wife had let go of the caution and was enjoying the stories her sister was telling about her escapades with the man she’s been cheating with.

I’m scared for my own marriage now. The way things are going, it would be very easy for my wife to also decide to cheat because if you look at the reasons her sister gave for cheating, they are everyday problems couples face, which I believe shouldn’t lead her to cheat on her husband. We could also go through such problems at some point because life is like that.

My problem is how to bring this to my wife’s attention, considering how delicate the issue is. If I let her know that I’m reading her messages, it will change everything between us. That aside, this is a secret that should be between the two of them. Letting her know I know about it also makes the situation very dicey.

I want my wife to stop listening to her sister. I want to pull her away from the temptation to safeguard my own marriage. How do I go about it without jeopardizing my own marriage and the trust we’ve built over all these years?

Hey i am F23 new in navi Mumbai
Don’t know much here
Looking partner M for good quality time here in mumbai

I broke up with my girlfriend almost 3 years back and since then have been a good boy. But now, i wanna explore and have some fun. Can someone help me design my hinge profile, I’ve no idea of what to do, how to start, etc etc