u/Dense_Lawyer_666

Both haven't gotten a single project.. they only do minor brand deals or host parties at clubs.. this won't last long.. and fir bhi 3M and 1M hone ka itna ghamand.. do they not know once they lose the hype, their followers will get stuck.. both have reached their peak and that is the most dangerous thing about social media.. u get popular fast bt it won't last without any substance and yeh dono itne mein hi khudko mahaan samjh rahe hai.. ki sab humse halte hai coz we have so many followers..

So I like this guy in my office.. lets call him S.. so a friend of mine who knows I like him asked him if he likes anyone and he said no.. then my friend asked directly about me and he said yes he does like me.. so my friend pushed him to send me a follow request.. he kept saying I won't accept his request bt my friend pushed and so he sent me a request on insta..

I obv accepted.. my friend asked him to text me next and he said I have no posts or stories so how does he start a conversation.. so my friend asked me to post a story so I posted a story of a movie I watched coz that is an easy bait.. he can literally ask me anything about the movie and it won't be awkward.. bt he did not text me.. he only liked my story..

Now idk.. my friend is saying he'll ask him to text me bt if my friend has to push him everytime, what's the point.. idk office relationships are messy anyway.. I'm afraid of messing things up if he notices.. idk what to do

I made an error in the heading.. it is AITAH for leaving without calling my friend after she was late to our meet up?

So I F23 have a friend F24.. we have been friends since childhood and we are tight.. we text almost everyday and call whenever we have time..

she has been living abroad for a few months and came back this week and she has wanted to meet me since then.. I said I'm free this weekend and so we decided to meet.. now, in the morning, she went out with a friend who is also her ex boyfriend.. I was at the mall watching a movie that ended at 5 and we were supposed to meet at 5.30.. my dad and brother were there too watching another movie that was supposed to end at 5.50.. so I started shopping while waiting for her.. she said her and her ex bf had some work and as soon as she's free, she'll come.. at 5.50, I met my brother and dad and we went to complete some work.. till 6.20, she hadn't called me so I left..

I texted her and said I'm leaving, we'll meet next week and next time, don't call me if u have other commitments.. she called and apologized and said she can drive to my place and asked if we can we meet for sometime.. I said no, we'll meet next week..

Then she texted me and apologized.. she said she understood it was her fault bt I could have called her or compromised a bit and we were going to meet after so long as she had done the same for me so many times which is true even tho I have never made her wait for so long bt I have canceled plans last minute after she drove to my apartment.. idk if I'm overreacting or if what she did was fucked up.. am I the asshole for what I did?

So I'm 23F and I've never had sex before.. I want to wait until I find someone I want to get that close with.. all this while, I always imagined my first time to be perfect.. not in the sense that we would be able to do it perfectly bt that it would be full of love and ill feel loved and sure at the end of it.. bt after to a lot of my girlfriends and reading this book called 11 minutes, I have sort of realized that for most people, sex is boring and they don't experience pleasure.. also most women are not able to orgasm and that made me so sad..😭😭

Is it true and if so, what is a realistic expectation to have.?