24M Mumbai, looking for CF(F)

Currently working in the IT field. I’m financially stable and genuinely interested in understanding technology beyond just using it. I enjoy critical thinking, questioning ideas, and looking at things logically rather than blindly accepting them.

Physically, I’m 5'11", slim-built, with a fair brown complexion, and come from a middle-class background.

Religion is an important part of my life. I’m Muslim by birth and belief, though I don’t associate myself with any particular sect and respect all of them equally. I currently pray 4 times a day and am actively trying to become more consistent with Fajr as well.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as an ambivert. I enjoy meaningful conversations and debates, especially around controversial or thought-provoking topics. I also like learning new concepts, ideas, and even words that expand my perspective.

I enjoy traveling whenever there’s a plan, but otherwise you’ll mostly find me either working or relaxing at home. I’ve visited a couple of countries, but India still feels like home to me. That said, I’m open to exploring the possibility of settling abroad if it feels right practically and personally.

What I Value & Expect

I appreciate people who think critically and evaluate things rationally instead of simply following what they’re told. I believe in balanced feminism, not pseudo-feminism, where both partners support each other’s growth and independence. I’m completely supportive of women working, especially if it gives them purpose, fulfillment, and allows both partners to build experiences and travel together through shared effort.

For me, a person’s actions, intentions, and beliefs matter more than labels. If someone genuinely carries Islamic values in their character and conduct, that’s meaningful to me.

I also believe that while religion provides guidance, worldly matters require wisdom, reasoning, and thoughtful decision-making using the intellect gifted to us by the Almighty.

Financially, I’m more of a saver than a spender, but I don’t mind spending on things that truly matter, such as meaningful experiences, travel, health, personal growth, investments, and creating a good quality of life.

On family planning, I currently lean towards a Child-Free (CF) lifestyle by choice (not due to health reasons). My primary stance is child-free, but I remain open to revisiting this in the future if my partner and I both arrive at a mutual, organic desire to have a child through birth or adoption.

Preferably looking someone from Mumbai and open to discussion from elsewhere.

TL;DR: 24M from Mumbai working in IT, financially stable, practicing Muslim, and someone who values critical thinking, meaningful conversations, modesty, and personal growth. Ambivert who enjoys travel, tech, debates, and learning new perspectives. I am looking for a balanced, practical, and emotionally mature partner who values both deen and dunya.

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u/heyvampire — 3 days ago

24M Done with this life

Hi guys,

I'm done with this life, I'm trying to turn my life around, and i would like to socialize from this weekend to xoming 30-40 weekends. I'll just socialize as much as possible, hang out with strangers, watch movies, play games, roam around, trek and everything but the thing is I'm not a person who has done much things.

I would like to know if there's a group of people who's like minded and are not constrained to specifics and would like to explore Mumbai, & Life without anything illegal or harmful or substances.

I'm not from a very rich family and would like to experience things in moderation. I would not spent 10k in a day unless the experience is something extraordinary.

I'm not looking for girls here because once i do this consistently, I know things will turn out much better then looking for a girl intentionally (I already tried and things were like not that great, but yeah)

About me: I'm a feminist and believe in equality, believe that there's one god and humans have made their own versions, but i respect every faith but follow my own faith (Muslim). I'm a very kindhearted person.

Friendship Resume banadia maine. Anyways, I'm not only open directly to DM but you can comment if you seem interested. We can do Table tennis, Badminton, Trekking, Games, like I'm open for new things.

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u/heyvampire — 8 days ago

Got cheated

24M. I'm very intelligent in general but not in relationships, i think, and i know the below info would be biased, so try to make your opinions accordingly.

Met a person on reddit, shifted to telegram after sometime, then on whatsapp, then long calls. This entire thing lasted for around 3 months.

I traveled from Mumbai to Kerala to see her, and we had clear intentions to marry if things went right after getting committed.

When i reached Kerala, I got to know that a best friend forced kissed this girl, and she didn't stop him and liked it as well. I helped her sexually, but she didn't help me with anything sexually (no kiss or sex was done).

Spent 15k approx, office leaves, lied to the family, and then ended up getting cheated on and then the girl going into guilt trip, i have already spoke with male friends and now thinking about speaking with other people as well on this to get understanding for my life overall, about what how and when things were wrong is something confusing for me and what to learm etc.

There's too much info not mentioned, but I can discuss it in PM if someone is interested in helping a poor fellow.

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u/heyvampire — 12 days ago

Legacy biased to Unbiased

  1. I was a very big Khushi fan before today, and i was totally okay with the 1st round because i actually liked that song.

  2. I saw her perform live once and it was also good.

  3. Yesterday, both Khushi & Prathamesh messed up very badly. Including Saniya MQ (I really like Saniya different style)

  4. I saw Afaik video saying that Khushi told her not to cover her, which i think is wrong because he's covering the show and not you specifically, and i respect afaik for still agreeing but khushi telling someone to not cover them is very dumb because she lost respect from me. I may be wrong, but that's my opinion.

  5. I feel that although the show belongs to KK, they still need their audience and shouldn't act like Hustle arrogant because i saw their posts mocking the audience "Pratham aish.. khush".

  6. Legacy could've retake those shots and selected both, but obviously, there'd be consequences from other artists so i think legacy is atleast raw but biased.

  7. Although i respect and like prathamesh and khushi both, I honestly feel like after that, Prathamesh forgets the lyrics and then tries to pull that stupid freestyle, and ppl saying it was good is stupid. Khushi & MQ fumbling is still okay, but obviously, it's as per me and not necessarily okay for judges or general audience.

I'm open to discussion on this, to have a much better understanding.

I dont hate any artists or show but I'll have this thing in my mind that this is not about talent and just entertainment like bigg boss or IPL.

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u/heyvampire — 21 days ago

Rohitzone shoutout

Feeling soo overwhelmed knowing that people would actually got to know what happened on the shoot because when i posted this no one interacted much but now even artists would see it. I can understand how dinkar felt.

Lots of love to Rohit.

u/heyvampire — 25 days ago

Legacy Battle Rap

Thanks to the legacy team for to witness some battles live (i left early otherwise pura milta). The production quality is just Insane. The audience was mostly paid audience because DHH doesn't exactly have that many fans.

I'll prefer to not give any spoilers but the day was just too good.

Highlights with no spoilers

  1. Khushi was sooo Khush

  2. Witnessed someone use Jantar Mantar and Wangchuk topic properly but unfortunately didn't got selected (I know you're seeing this, all love to you)

  3. Witnessed Gaush vs Uday from different artists. Iske lie judges bhi confuse hogaye the on who to win.

  4. Saw performance of both Raa and SK live

  5. Krsna irl is also very shy personality who dosent talk much

  6. Acapella performance

  7. Jalaluddin perform nahi ho paaya

2 ppl from mgmt kept clapping and hooting for no reason, judge says something they start clapping cue for the paid audience. Even judge once said that during acapella people started clapping in a flow which dosent make sense.

1 person name was Krishna he was hyperactive and just did sht for no reason (opposite of krsna).

Overall, it's a good show, but there's always these fishes spoiling the fun.

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u/heyvampire — 1 month ago

Legacy Show - Opinion/Review

I watched both the episodes and before i only listened to some specific artists like emiway, krsna, jtrix, etc. I never had the time to give my mind some experimental time but this show is giving me the experimental thing but i know it wont be very bad because this is probably the artist's these people have selected.

I felt that there are biases and sometimes i feel the contestant shouldn't be eliminated but I'm more focused on enjoying the song, understanding and if someone deserving is eliminated atleast now people know of him and its not necessary that the winner will be the one who'll rule the scene.

Abt khushi, i felt she was easily competing with Prathamesh, Big smoke. Like these 3 are the big 3 of legacy until now, I'm not talking about skills and other bs. They have name in the game before, and they have proved themselves before coming to this show. All 3 of them have their own forte. So it'll not be that these 3 are competing with each other. Khushi song was fire like every line was a quotable, i liked many other songs, but Prathamesh and Khusi song stuck with me.

About judges, I feel it would've been better if both artist chose a contestant for his team instead of taking a collective decision, cause then they have to make each other artists compete like a freakin pokemon. Sounds dumb ig but it'd be more responsible. Additionally, this show is theirs, which they are trying to build for the community they never said they are perfect or won't make mistakes they're trying their best. Let's try to enjoy the show and constructively criticize it.

Abt me, I like listening to emiway more than other artists, but i still like this show a lot (I have never completely followed hustle but will probably follow this.) I also think that hithuman and shedy is getting hate for no reason, more than reaction they're also entertaining, and they already know these artists more personally than us, so if they're making jokes on an artist, it's not hate. They are just joking around.

I think the show is very good, like i skip some songs in other languages that i dont understand, but I'm getting entertained or enjoying the show very much in general. I'm not seeing the fumbles, mistakes etc. I know these are new rappers, lets give them some space.

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u/heyvampire — 1 month ago
▲ 103 r/mumbaisocial+2 crossposts

Hind Rajab Movie- 23rd June

Hi guys,

I'm planning to go solo or with someone for the movie.

Venue: Malad Inorbit Mall

Timing: 6:30pm as per District

Price: 449+ district charges

Dm me if anyone wants to join, I'm also planning to check with my friends. Would really like to go with someone to understand the movie's essence, who actually know and understand the context like me.

u/heyvampire — 2 months ago

Ultrasound - Honest Review

Deshbhakto aap please kahi aur jaao, musicbhakts se baat karni hai.

Jani ka 2nd half had decent rebuttals, and sounds decent, but again Jani wasn't musically that good.

Idk what else to add. There was not much in that diss.

I'm not interested in the beef anymore.

I dont think i need to write that who won who lost, as Raftaar once said, Faisla music ke hitt mei hoga.

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u/heyvampire — 2 months ago

24 [M4F] Mumbai/Anywhere - Looking for something genuine

I'm 24M from Mumbai, working in IT and independent financially, and looking for dependence emotionally. I've an interest in politics, personal finance, health, etc. I dont want to go into a direction where there's no essence.

What I'd like: I want a simple, intellectual, independent, emotional, attached, interested person. I saw some F4M posts that correctly describe who can actually reply back within 30 mins to an hour and not be required to converse, but at least update.

A girl/woman who has the mental capacity who thinks she's confident and is actually looking for something, which can go towards a long term or maybe even marriage is what i have in mind. I'm not saying reach out to me for marriage proposals. For that, we have different pages. I want to first know the person and understand the mutual interest and understanding we have before even committing.

Another post that can get into the reddit database is that i can see so many posts for M4F.

I've already tried traditional methods like dating apps, and those apps sucks.

I'm sapiosexual and demisexual. I recently learned these words, but you could also google in case you're not aware. Hmu if you think you'd like to.

Also, to girls or angel priya reaching out to me just for the interest of money, I'd like to inform you that I'm not interested in a transactional and financial relationship. I'd not write an independent person as a requirement otherwise.

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u/heyvampire — 2 months ago

Panther Won, Period.

Panther won the 2nd round. As I'm biased towards Panther , I'll say this again that women's didn't need to be involved. And he even took back his palestine bar which was personally for me a huge W.

Panther made a big mistake similar to King by actually bringing his wife at the end, literally.

You abused, he abused, you abused, now that's okay, but why let it become personal and actually involve your wife in the song, if he replies he'll say something like biwi ke pallu mei or somethg.

We all know both are doing it for hype. Neither Panther replied to the flag bar from Jani, or Jani replied for the essence of the beef. I'll support Panther, not just because I'm Indian but i liked his song more.

We can stop the BS of India vs Pak and call it what it is. Artist vs. Artist, whoever can control the skills, optics, flows, etc, would be the winner. Deshbhakts can actually try to build oir country instead of cheering for a rapper because he made the beef abt Ind vs Pak.

It made sense but was stupid even from emiway, and he controlled the optics better by dissing him because Laz mocked India. Jani didn't do it yet, and still Panther technically took the lead.

Also, I'M BIASED TOWARDS PANTHER again.

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u/heyvampire — 2 months ago

Why is Emiway Silent?

Its time that Emiway shows both Panther and Jani that you dont take his name and get away. Emiway hhai ek diss hojaye jisme dono ko diss kardo. Ek bol raha hai bkp gand marti hai aur dusra bolraha hai em F**ks jaani sister.

Jokes aside, the dis was not as good as Panther (Probably because I'm biased) but it was a decent diss and I was calling panther dumb for calling out women, and i wont call out Jani for the same because you dont start with involving women then expect everyone to be Muhfaad. But i still dont like women's being involved from both end

Agar koi deshbhakt ko choda yaha bajne aaya, toh bhai tu phle desh ke lie kuch karle, music baadme sunna.

(Indian sailors, Neet suicide, paper leak, etc so many stuff work on that instead) dont give reach to a beef which involves pak similar to us discussing not to have a cricket match.

I believe terrorism is wrong and whoever in the WORLD not just country, justifies or promotes it needs to have a horrible deskt.

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u/heyvampire — 2 months ago
▲ 55 r/SarthakGoswami+1 crossposts

Am i wrong?

Downvote me all you want, but please help me understand whether I'm right for both scenarios or wrong for both. We can stop calling Osama a bad person and trump a good person for unaliving innocent kids and people. In case someone starts calling out all muslim names who did something wrong. If the reply is constructive, I'll try to learn and discuss my pointers as well

u/heyvampire — 3 months ago

24M Mumbai, looking for CF(F)

24M from Mumbai, India. Working in IT with BFSI clients, financially stable, and someone who enjoys understanding how things work rather than just accepting them at face value. I’m naturally curious, analytical, and enjoy discussions around technology, psychology, society, religion, geopolitics, and controversial topics as long as the conversation is respectful and intellectually honest.

I’d describe myself as an ambivert. I enjoy socializing and traveling when there’s a plan, but I’m equally comfortable spending time at home, working, reading, researching random topics, or just relaxing. I’ve traveled to a couple of countries, but India still feels like home to me. At the same time, I’m open to exploring life abroad if it makes practical and personal sense.

Physically, I’m 5'11", slim-built, fair brown complexion, and from a middle-class background. I value stability, self-improvement, and living a balanced life instead of chasing superficial validation.

Religion is an important part of my identity. I’m Muslim and try to practice my faith sincerely without getting caught up in sectarianism. I don’t associate with any specific sect and believe character, intentions, and actions matter more than labels. I also strongly believe that for worldly matters, humans are meant to think critically and use the intellect given to us rather than blindly following anything.

My views are generally moderate and practical. I believe in balanced feminism where both partners support each other’s ambitions and independence. I fully support women pursuing careers if it gives them fulfillment, purpose, and financial freedom. I think relationships work best when both people grow together emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and financially.

I appreciate people who can think independently, communicate honestly, and are emotionally mature. Someone who can question things respectfully, hold nuanced opinions, and have meaningful conversations instantly stands out to me. I value modesty, self-awareness, kindness, accountability, and people who are grounded in reality rather than performative online personalities.

Financially, I’m more of a saver than an impulsive spender, but I don’t mind spending on meaningful experiences, travel, health, investments, learning, and creating a comfortable life.

Outside work, I enjoy traveling, discovering new perspectives, learning new concepts or words, long conversations, internet rabbit holes, tech discussions, and occasionally debating ideas just for the fun of understanding different viewpoints.

Not here for games, validation farming, or superficial connections. I'm just looking to meet genuine people and see where conversations go naturally.

Childfree, Free, Free (I hope this is sufficient now mod)

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago

24M, Advice needed from men and women.

I've browsed the page and have identified that there are many people like me who are stuck somewhere in the limbo when it comes to finding a life partner.

I've tried using Muzz and other similar apps, but most of them sucks like they dont complete the process that they should. Mostly stuck on trying to sell their premium.

I'm 24M literally turned 24 yesterday and am planning to find a partner and see where it goes without anything haram for a year. Now i dont want someone saying dating is haram, cause i dont want to date per se, but getting to know the other person without involving parents until we both agree sounds decent imo.

Ppl can say I'm bad or something, but I'll not be considering divorce after marriage and its not liked in our religion, culture and tradition as well.

I just want to have a partner who's like minded, and other details can be discussed later onwards.

Do let me know if someone can guide me or help me with this dilemma.

Assalamualaikum

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago

Need advice from all Muslims

Basically, I'm 24M from india, turning 24 on 29th May, and i have a specific niche in my mind to look for in my partner. Confident, logical reasoning, street smart, who can fight me when I'm wrong and also accept when she's wrong type of person, who can use their mind. And i prefer that they dont rely on any muslim scholar blindly if there's no substance behind.

I know that I'm asking for a lot, but that's the reason I'm hopefully starting looking early, but where am i supposed to look or start, dont tell me mosques, dating and marriage apps, cause they dont seem to be a viable option as my requirement is not someone who prays 5 times a day but someone who understands why she prays 5 times a day.

I'm sorry if I'm sounding prudent it's not my intention, but I'm very confused about how to proceed further with my life. Not in the right mental state due to loneliness.

Eid Mubarak, everyone. Thanks for listening to me out.

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago

24M Mumbai, Indian.

About me

24M from Mumbai, currently working in the IT field with BFSI clients. I’m financially stable and genuinely interested in understanding technology beyond just using it. I enjoy critical thinking, questioning ideas, and looking at things logically rather than blindly accepting them.

Physically, I’m 5'11", slim-built, with a fair brown complexion, and come from a middle-class background.

Religion is an important part of my life. I’m Muslim by birth and belief, though I don’t associate myself with any particular sect and respect all of them equally. I currently pray 4 times a day and am actively trying to become more consistent with Fajr as well.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as an ambivert. I enjoy meaningful conversations and debates, especially around controversial or thought-provoking topics. I also like learning new concepts, ideas, and even words that expand my perspective.

I enjoy traveling whenever there’s a plan, but otherwise you’ll mostly find me either working or relaxing at home. I’ve visited a couple of countries, but India still feels like home to me. That said, I’m open to exploring the possibility of settling abroad if it feels right practically and personally.

What I Value & Expect

I appreciate people who think critically and evaluate things rationally instead of simply following what they’re told. I believe in balanced feminism, not pseudo-feminism, where both partners support each other’s growth and independence. I’m completely supportive of women working, especially if it gives them purpose, fulfillment, and allows both partners to build experiences and travel together through shared effort.

I value modesty and believe both men and women should dress appropriately in front of others. For me, a person’s actions, intentions, and beliefs matter more than labels. If someone genuinely carries Islamic values in their character and conduct, that’s meaningful to me.

I also believe that while religion provides guidance, worldly matters require wisdom, reasoning, and thoughtful decision-making using the intellect gifted to us by the Almighty.

Financially, I’m more of a saver than a spender, but I don’t mind spending on things that truly matter, such as meaningful experiences, health, personal growth, investments, and creating a good quality of life.

TL;DR: 24M from Mumbai working in IT, financially stable, practicing Muslim, and someone who values critical thinking, meaningful conversations, modesty, and personal growth. Ambivert who enjoys travel, tech, debates, and learning new perspectives. Looking for a balanced, practical, and emotionally mature partner who values both deen and dunya.

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/HAILBANTAI+1 crossposts

Let’s do it and show that arrogant man his place

We are listeners of music and devote hours just to support our artist and we are the actual power of so called influential people
Imagine everybody boycotted MJ he would have been a nobody

So it’s our time to boycott this arrogant a- hole Bunty who made his whole career on sympathy and now treats his fans badly
This guy does only what he wants and when his fans who made him a star criticise him he calls them nakli
This is some cheap behaviour
Seriously since 2023 he is just making a fool
Of himself , overanalysing other rappers statements

Remember how badly he abused kings parents and when someone does it to him he acts as if the world is falling apart

He deserves no respect from us
Let’s show him his place
Let’s start to avoid him and give that monkey no clout and see what’s left in him
He was blackballed by other and at that time his fans were with him and now when he started to get respect he showed his true colours

Let’s start this asap
Not about music but also we should see what kind of people we bring to the main stage

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u/Mysterious_You6598 — 3 months ago

Unnecessary Emiway Hate

I already know the unnecessary hate on Rohitzone comments or sometimes on IHH sub, but even on Hailbantai. The term "follower" means you like the person, and if you're a fan who doesn't like him, then how are you a fan?

Although, i dont care about raju, but i can see the narrative that's here. Nakli views, mods, and all that sht. Just accept that your fav artist wants to take a different path, and if he fails, then you guys will feel bad, but it's his choice like Divine. And if you want to criticize him keep it unhateeful, otherwise it just feels like crowd hating.

Also, im no one's fan. I just like his music as he's the first one i started rap with.

I just admire intricacies of words being rhymed on music.

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago

Hello, everyone.

Story:

Booked a cab with advance paid 1120 for 2pm the night before.

Travel Day: Driver canceled, next driver will reach by 3pm as per the CB team. Cab arrived, and everything was onboarded. The luggage tucked on the carrier (which i paid extra for) they also put plastic for rain. And we all sat inside when suddenly the cab driver felt something and said we couldn't load all the luggage on the carrier (which i specifically paid extra for) and needed to adjust some inside. I denied it initially because why would i budge.

Next, there are a lot of talks between the CB team, who literally spoke like for 30 mins with both of us keeping on hold. Meanwhile we decided to adjust cause we are traveling but the driver and his friend suddenly didn't want to continue the trip, so he unloaded the luggage and then gave a good story to CB team and they said we might be fools and came back that we can't fulfill our service hence we'll award you with a voucher.

I've emailed the cab bazaar support. But i have no hope of any help. This is my attempt to educate people and ask for help from any lawyer or legal person, if any. (I already have AI, so i dont need an AI help. That's already what I'm doing) A professional if they can guide would be really helpful.

Tldr: Booked cab, Driver/Cab Bazaar team canceled, no refund just voucher promised, stranded with no booking, educating travelers and asking for help from a professional.

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u/heyvampire — 3 months ago