u/Careless-Bird3096

Hi pps

I'm new to this madhapur area. Didnt explored much but

I have decide to take swimming classes.

There are 3options

I have decided 2 out of it.

1. Oyester pool

2. Seasons pool

If you ever come across of it,can you suggest one asap.

I'm looking for good coaches and hygiene maintaining one with privacy.

Hi everyone, idk how many of you take it in right way, idc if it goes in wrong way as well.

So Im an overthinker. I dream alot I mean real sleepy dreams. Day lo jarigina things anni dots connect cheskoni mari dreams ga maripothai.

Anni edo action,fictional genre lo ne untai. Or evaro okal sachipoina dreams. So killer documentary laga.

Its out of my hands ykr.

So recent ga I got very weird dream.

I mean I'm bit in ovulating cycle So was in a calm down feeling lo unde. Then padukune mundu I just saw a reel on actor Trisha, regarding CM affair thing. It was really funny tbh.

The reel says, "once upon a time our Mahesh babu with CMs side chick".

I laughed

Then closed app

Went to sleep.

Now the dream: i was in Makeout session with my eyes closed. Dream lo eyes open chesthe its Mahesh Babu.

Omg I was freaked out in my dream.

That was really odd.

I felt guilty as if I'm cheating to my non existing BF.

What in the world that dream has to come up to me. Especially MB? Ewwww broo...

Dream2: so recently anni rape related movies chushna loke europhia, lockdown etc.

The night i got a dream like. My dad is trying to rape me, wtfffff omg I was in tears even after waking up. I felt really bad to my deep thoughts.

Why am I thinking this way. I felt bad really bad. That was hell I my dreams to just dreams those sort of things.

Terribly terrified to just take dream as a dream.

I woke up its 4am in morning couldn't able to sleep back.

This is my first time I just got this sort of dreams.

Now the issue is I was struggling to get back to my sleep.

I was conscious while sleeping that malli edo chetha dreams ochi sasthadi emo..

.let me wakeup ana thought is running in my head.

Ufhhhhh guys. Now idk what to do. E MB story na bestie ki chepthe she laughed for 10 f ing minutes.

I know it's very silly but i just wish I can overcome this asap.

Also let me know the weirdest dreams you come across with.

Naku konchem arey im bit better than them anna feeling ravali.

My kindly req.

Thanks in advance

I saw a meme where cheerleaders were dancing inside cages because people were throwing things and money at them. It made me think about how normalized this whole setup is.

Male players play the game, female cheerleaders entertain the crowd, and somehow everyone accepts it as “part of sports culture.” But why exactly? Isn’t it also a marketing strategy built around the male gaze and keeping male audiences entertained?

Now women’s sports are growing too — especially women’s cricket in India. Stadiums today are filled with both male and female fans. So why don’t we see male cheerleaders for women’s teams with the same energy and visibility?

If the logic is “players need motivation from attractive dancers,” then why is that expectation gendered only one way?

And honestly, where’s the entertainment targeted toward female audiences in stadiums? Men get dancers and visual attraction marketed to them all the time. Women are single too 😭 where are the six-pack dudes dancing on the sidelines while the match happens?

I’m not even saying remove female cheerleaders completely. I’m asking why sports entertainment is still designed mostly around male-centered viewing culture.

Is this just tradition, marketing, or still a subtle form of patriarchy/stereotyping?

If possible send this to people of sports that may change outdated culture.

Hey guys I'm [25F] and I dated a [24M] few months back,

3 months it was too intense bw us, So much romance,fun, and all.

We both are of different state people different languages. Connected through a dating app.

After 3 months I realised, I was into him both mentally and physically i used to crave for touch and emotional connection and availability too, but he is into me more physically. He's not a person of showing attention and doesn't have words of affirmations. So basically his love language is physical touch.

He is good guy, very kind, very calm mostly. He is feminist too.

But the amount of emotional bond didnt match my level. He used to text me only a GM mesage and ghost whole day its like I should text him more than him texting me.

I felt some missmatch different wavelengths.

We had very good hangouts and night outs.

Tbh the physical attraction and attention is on point.

Then next i went to home town the ghosting went for 2 long days.

Its not even 2 weeks we had LDR but he couldnt able to match my level and I missed him very badly.

I was pissed , irritated and In a very bad mood swings as my periods got delayed. It was extreme.

So I texted him saying some hard words and blocked everywhere without listening to him.

It was really out of my hands.

He tried to reach out to me via snap but it was very basic text which is like 1.what made you angry 2. A snap of his coffe 3. A snap of him smiling randomly.

( the way he textied felt to me like : he don't care / doesn't effect him about me being with him or not , kind of way). Idk if he meant it or not but it felt like that to me.

I didnt mean to hurt him but I wanted him to want me the way I wanted. But seems it's not the case at all.

Before blocking in the 3 month journey i communicated taht I wanted this , that and all. He was like yea I understand I'm not really good at this. I didnt dated any other so its bit strange too, I'm trying to focus on my career, I will learn and try to change bla blaaa things.

I also left him bcz he used to say career every time, I felt like I'm disturbing him from getting success made me feel insecure. I used to hold my self from asking bare minimum.

Idk its whether the moodswings or I wanted more from him. Or maybe we had very good chemistry and romance so I was hard-codedly attached with him.

I was thinking about him n multiple times a day. Can't get over him.

I want to talk to him but I was stoping my self from very long time.

Its been around a 8 months(i stayed at my home town) I didnt talk to him.

I was back to the work. The work location is the area which he used to stay.

The mintue I saw the location and realized its the same area, i can't even control myself thinking about him.

Ik that he is not my type and he can't be the way I wanted (the bare minimum that i was carving. A very good text, whereabouts, concerns, lovey dowey calls, being on random vcs )

So maybe I was still stuck on thoughts about him?. Maybe I need a closure talk ? or a both sided stories to move on?

What do you think guys?

But I'm thinking to text him and talk and be clear so that even if we accidentally bump on each other there will be less awkward thoughts right?

Hey guys I'm [25F] and I dated a [24M] few months back,

3 months it was too intense bw us, So much romance,fun, and all.

We both are of different state people different languages. Connected through a dating app.

After 3 months I realised, I was into him both mentally and physically i used to crave for touch and emotional connection and availability too, but he is into me more physically. He's not a person of showing attention and doesn't have words of affirmations. So basically his love language is physical touch.

He is good guy, very kind, very calm mostly. He is feminist too.

But the amount of emotional bond didnt match my level. He used to text me only a GM mesage and ghost whole day its like I should text him more than him texting me.

I felt some missmatch different wavelengths.

We had very good hangouts and night outs.

Tbh the physical attraction and attention is on point.

Then next i went to home town the ghosting went for 2 long days.

Its not even 2 weeks we had LDR but he couldnt able to match my level and I missed him very badly.

I was pissed , irritated and In a very bad mood swings as my periods got delayed. It was extreme.

So I texted him saying some hard words and blocked everywhere without listening to him.

It was really out of my hands.

He tried to reach out to me via snap but it was very basic text which is like 1.what made you angry 2. A snap of his coffe 3. A snap of him smiling randomly.

( the way he textied felt to me like : he don't care / doesn't effect him about me being with him or not , kind of way). Idk if he meant it or not but it felt like that to me.

I didnt mean to hurt him but I wanted him to want me the way I wanted. But seems it's not the case at all.

Before blocking in the 3 month journey i communicated taht I wanted this , that and all. He was like yea I understand I'm not really good at this. I didnt dated any other so its bit strange too, I'm trying to focus on my career, I will learn and try to change bla blaaa things.

I also left him bcz he used to say career every time, I felt like I'm disturbing him from getting success made me feel insecure. I used to hold my self from asking bare minimum.

Idk its whether the moodswings or I wanted more from him. Or maybe we had very good chemistry and romance so I was hard-codedly attached with him.

I was thinking about him n multiple times a day. Can't get over him.

I want to talk to him but I was stoping my self from very long time.

Its been around a 8 months(i stayed at my home town) I didnt talk to him.

I was back to the work. The work location is the area which he used to stay.

The mintue I saw the location and realized its the same area, i can't even control myself thinking about him.

Ik that he is not my type and he can't be the way I wanted (the bare minimum that i was carving. A very good text, whereabouts, concerns, lovey dowey calls, being on random vcs )

So maybe I was still stuck on thoughts about him?. Maybe I need a closure talk ? or a both sided stories to move on?

What do you think guys?

But I'm thinking to text him and talk and be clear so that even if we accidentally bump on each other there will be less awkward thoughts right?