I am so crushed I can’t believe it.

I got near perfect marks on papers 1 and 3 but completely missed the mark for paper 2. I’ve got a terrible grade because of it I am so heartbroken. I really thought if I just tried my best and my best would be enough but it wasn’t. I’m so heartbroken I can’t believe I’ve got a C, this is the lowest grade in English I’ve ever gotten. I’m just in so much pain I don’t know how to move forward from this.

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 7 days ago
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FTM guys, how do you meet girls online?

Bit of a weird question, but have you had any talking stages with girls who know about your transition from the beginning? I feel like it would just make it a lot easier. Where can I find girls like this that don’t care that you’re trans?

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 8 days ago

1 week post op today - No compression binder or drains!

It’s been a week today since my surgery. I didn’t need to wear a compression binder or have drains. Which was also great because I could shower the day after my surgery. I’m posting this for awareness because I personally had no idea until I was researching that it was even an option! Bit nervous as it’s the first time posting my chest ever lol.

u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 13 days ago

Need advice about injured bird

Hi all,

Earlier this morning I found an injured pigeon outside my house. I think it’s most likely that he’s been caught by the Neighbourhood cat because their cats are always roaming around. One of his wings is slightly sticking out and he can’t fly properly - only about a foot or two in the air. I caught him in a towel and put him in a ventilated box with a tub of water to drink. He’s not frantically flapping or anything he’s just sitting there calmly but he might be in shock. My local wildlife rescues can’t pick him up and I also tried calling my local vet who said they couldn’t take him either. He seems to have a lot of life left in him and I’m definitely willing to cover any of his medical expenses whether that be antibiotics or anything else. I’m also willing to care for him afterwards for as long as he needs. What can I do? Obviously if his wing is broken he might be in quite a bit of pain but the local rescues are too far away (I can’t get to them as I’ve just had surgery) and my mum also can’t as I can’t be left alone for very long. Advice? Thanks for reading.

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 15 days ago

Any other guys recently post op? My dms are open if anyone wants to share experiences

currently 3 days PO and it can be isolating. It’s not something I’d really talk about with many of my irl friends

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 18 days ago

Just got home from the hospital - 1 day post op.

My chest is basically completely flat already and I have no swelling. It’s hard not being able to move my arms but so worth it just looking at my chest.

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 19 days ago

Top surgery is tomorrow!

I am mainly feeling super anxious, of course I want this surgery more than anything, but I’m terrified about going under anesthesia and worried about the pain I’m gonna be in.

Is that also anything you wish you’ve done pre-surgery? I’m gonna take some photos of myself pre-op but that’s all I can think of to Do is there anything else I should do?

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 21 days ago

Top surgery without compression binder or drains!

I’m getting my top surgery at the end of July, but I never knew that it was an option to not have to wear the compression binder or have drains. My surgeon using surgical glue instead. This also means I can shower as soon as I get home from surgery. I’m really happy because the drains and the compression binder were the parts I was the most nervous about.

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 2 months ago

Just found out my levels are still too low 💔

I’ve been on trt for six months now, just got my labs back and found out I’m still only 216 ng/dl, feeling pretty discouraged, as I was really hoping my levels would be in a normal range by now. But my dose has been increased so hopefully my levels will increase to where they should be by now (aiming for at least 288)

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u/CaterpillarLiving311 — 3 months ago