u/CautionTape_Cal

If homosexuality was a sin and if god created humans, why did god put the g spot in the male rectum? It’s always a fun one to ask

Also Happy Pride to All my people in the community from a fellow ExChristian Trans/Nonbinary person🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈🫶🏻

For context i am 26 and AMAB, recently i have been struggling heavily with my sexuality. For the most part i identify as a woman and before discovering that i was genderfluid, I solely identified as a trans woman and was in a lesbian relationship with someone that I’m still very close with today, just as friends. During our relationship i came to realization that i was also nonbinary to which my ex happily welcomed with open arms. This is not about the relationship though. Much like solely identifying as a trans woman and nonbinary, I identified as lesbian for quite sometime. Then i’d say after our relationship ended, I became curious about guys again while still identifying as a trans woman/nonbinary. For a while before realizing i was trans, I identified as bisexual from the time i was 15 in high school when i had a crush on a guy for the first time and became curious and explored my sexuality the next few years on and off. Anyways, i have rediscovered my boy identity when realizing i was genderfluid within this past year. I present as a boy in a way that’s comfortable for me and defined what being a boy means to me when i feel more like one. When i present as a boy nowadays, i tend to desire guys more therefore pretty much bringing back my bisexuality. When i shift towards being a woman, i feel more lesbian and i’m not always comfortable with the bi label. Nonbinary is either way really. Within the past weeks, i have been really struggling with seeing if I’m bi or lesbian and it’s eating me😞. To put it a better way, i guess I’m just gay either way (hey that rhymed). I just don’t have a firm sexuality label and i know abrosexual is a thing too but like, i’m more comfortable with one or the other at times and it bothers me. Being Lesbian is very personal to me, for a future partner and in general i only see myself dating and spending my life with a woman whether that woman is cis or trans. With my attraction to guys, i feel more sexual with it than romantic. Maybe i’m just heavily lesbian romantic and bisexual? I dont even know guys :(