u/Clomaster

So recently I closed my main bank account because I wanted a fresh start (and I am moving around a lot and they only have three locations). I decided to try Chime for the time being as it is rather convenient.

Anyways, I go to deposit my check, write for Chime only and what not, and it declines it a few minutes later. Great, now I have it signed in pen and can't deposit it anywhere else.

It didn't give me a reason as to why, so I need some advice here. I didn't think it would be that hard. I tried other mobile deposit thinks like Ingo and same thing. Nobody will accept it.

I need the money on an actual account so I can pay bills and loans online, as I live in the middle of nowhere and going to a physical bank is a pain.

So I got a 99 9-3 with 250k miles. I have replaced front control arms, ball joint and bushings included, tie rods (everything there), axles, tires, etc.

The shake is around 60 and gets worse the faster you go. It’s pretty violent, and almost has like a metal on metal feeling (if that makes sense).

Being that I’ve gone over everything, I cannot figure out what it could be. Tires are brand new, I balanced them myself. The rims were bent so I replaced them and it helped for about a year before it started getting worse. The axles were shot so they are new and I also replaced the diff bushing when I got the car as it was leaking.

The only thing I have left is the struts, which are both blown, but I’ve never known those to cause a wobble like that.

So I’m 24 and have recently been diagnosed with bipolar 2 and adhd. I had a nasty alcohol problem and got a single dui and just got out of an inpatient rehab. Thankfully now my meds have stabilized my mood, and I’m doing SO much better.

However, now that I’m thinking clear, I’m wanting to get my life back on track. I went to college but ended up in a depressive episode and flunked out. I was going for neuroscience and doing genuinely good until that got me.

I live right by a base. It really interests me and always have but I was scared to join when I was younger. I was just curious if it would be worth trying, or how any of this stuff works. I’ve known far worse people that have been enlisted but that was all 20 years or so ago from what I’ve heard.

So I’m currently in rehab for AUD. Turns out I have Bipolar 2 and ADHD. I was put on Lamotrogine which is as infective due to constant drinking.

Anyways in rehab I mentioned all that, and was put on 100mg of Seroquel nightly and it vastly improved my sleep. It also stabilized my insane mood swings. However, now I’m stuck in a depressive episode that is rather brutal.

My Psych decided to put me on Wellbutrin XR in conjunction with the Seroquel to attempt to improve my mood and motivation while monitoring to make sure I don’t have an affective switch.

My first day, I didn’t notice much except I got extremely tired, and then my head started to spin like a dizziness and I got nauseous. Also I got incredibly jittery and shaky. I felt even worse the next day and I just couldn’t think at all and I was wired while feeling like my mind was asleep. It was AWEFUL.

Today they cut it and of course I feel normal again. Is this a normal side effect that would have gone away or is this more on the severe end? I kinda wanted to push through it but I just couldn’t function in the state my head was in.

I’m 24 and currently going to AA in Custer but everybody is much much older and I feel out of place.

I was curious if there were any groups that are younger (like 20-35) so I can feel more recognized.

The older group is great and all, but they’re literally twice my age and half have been sober for longer than I’ve been alive. A younger crowd would be much preferred just to know that I’m not the only one left struggling.

So a few weeks ago leaving work I parked in a tight space. I was backing out and in my blind spot I barely tapped a car.

There was absolutely no damage to my car, you can’t even see a scuff, but the other car was lower and it left a small ding and scratch. This happening in a courthouse parking lot and so the police guy saw it and took some pictures and called the guy. Happened to be a coworker who said he gave no crap because it was a rental.

Anyways now the rental wants my insurance info, which is my parents. I am freaking out on what to do and what’s gonna happen.

Apparently he called the police and they never made a report because it was private property or something. So he got no info from them (even tho he took pictures and what not). Neither of us did though.

Are they gonna call my parents and ask for a statement? Because I never told them because I freaked out and then I honestly forgot about it because it was so minor.

So I have had an alcohol problem forever. I was in a stressful spot and drank in the morning to curb my withdrawals. I was moving across the state (South Dakota) and got pulled over for going 6 over.

Anyways, officer didn’t expect anything and pulled me into his car to explain why when he mentioned he smelt alcohol and proceeded to make me take the tests. I took them, and felt relatively good but he had me do a breathalyzer which I did. I’m not sure what it was but by the time I got to jail it was .23.

This is my last time getting in a car with booze.

I know in this state a first dwi is usually more minor for punishments but I’m still worried.

The one I’m really worried about tho is he searched my car and found my thc a pen. I explained where I bought it (from a legal store because that stuff is still legal for now) but it of course tested as thc regardless and now I have a controlled substance charge. And then the speeding ticket

I’m freaking out. I’m 24. I know how stupid and reckless I was and idk what to do. I don’t have court until August

Edit: should add that while I was certainly tipsy I wasn’t “drunk” by my standards. For reference I was just treated for withdrawal and my labs showed a .27 and I was shaking. So it’s high but for me that’s almost base.