I'm not trying to put anyone down or body shame,
I just have this thought lingering in my mind.
The reason i'm asking is, i wanna know if you liked those guys because you were attracted by some other feature like his character or whatever or you simply don't have a high expectation when it comes to looks in guys.
Again, i'm not trying to put my fellow men down(I'm mid too), i was just curious.
I'm a 27 year old male living in sainikpuri, hyderabad.
My social life hasn't been great for 2-3 years, i lost touch with most of my friends, and i kind of pushed myself into corner, with minimal social interaction.
I don't know how to phrase this properly, but i feel like i need a female companion/friend to talk to or mutually share things. To be honest, I was not a believer in relationships, i hated them. But i do feel that a man needs a female companion, even if it's platonic.
In my entire life, i've had only one female friend, but we stopped talking 3 years ago.
The world has turned into chaos, men and women have been hating each other by overly generalising each other by looking at the wrong doings of a few people in that gender. We are filled with hate, i was too, i'm guilty.
But i realised, men and women need each other, it is not a battle to be fought against each other, it needs to be fought together.
I can be a good friend you could talk to, or maybe get a load off your mind. I'm not expecting too much from you, I just need a good friend🙂.
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I've been living near Sainikpuri, Hyderabad, in a rented gated community since November 2025. The owner's behaviour has been very odd since the beginning.
They insisted on cash payment only and are strictly refusing online payments. It's been 6 months, and they haven't provided us with a receipt yet, even for a single payment.
They live in Abids, so our only option is to travel there and pay in cash. We can't travel every month for that sake, and why should we when there is no proof of payment?
They are saying that the rent should be paid for the current month, i.e., prepaid. We've been paying in a postpaid format ever since we moved to Hyderabad, i.e., this month's rent on the first of the next month. Please let me know which format is more commonly followed.
They argued with us in March because we delayed the February month's payment (partly due to a financial issue and partly because of the fear of not having received any payment proof yet).
They are not even responding when we talk about a rental agreement.
They are breaking rules here (for example, if the rent is above ₹5,000, online payment is mandatory).
I don't know what to do now, and i can't keep letting them get away with this, please suggest what I can do.