u/ColdImpossible1310

looking for a genuine connection for a relationship

I am 21 M, an introvert, and recently had a breakup. Actually, I got cheated by my ex. I trusted people easily and got my reward. Still, I don't hate her. It's her choice of life. Being empathetic is my way of life.

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 16 hours ago

Title: My [20M] birthday is tomorrow and my ex [18F] just asked to meet up. Should I go?

I’m turning 21 tomorrow. Out of the blue, my ex-girlfriend (18F) reached out and asked if we could meet up on my birthday.

I’m feeling pretty conflicted. On one hand, it's my birthday and I want to enjoy it; on the other hand, the curiosity is there :

Has anyone else met an ex on their birthday? How did it go?

Does this sound like a play for reconciliation, or just a "polite" gesture that might backfire?

Should I suggest meeting a different day to keep my birthday stress-free, or just decline entirely?

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 7 days ago

Hey everyone. I went through a breakup recently, and honestly, navigating things lately has been tough. I'm 20M, and it feels like the current dating and social scene is completely exhausting. I'm really struggling to find a meaningful, authentic connection with anyone where things actually click. Has anyone else in their early twenties experienced this isolating post-breakup phase? How do you deal with loneliness without rushing into the wrong thing just to feel connected?

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 17 days ago

Hi! I’m a 20-year-old guy from Bangalore seeking a real, genuine friendship with girls. I’m quite introverted, so I enjoy quiet hobbies like reading books and watching good movies. I also work out and maintain a fit body. If you’d like a chill, genuine friend, send me a DM!

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 20 days ago

Hi! I’m a 20-year-old guy from Bangalore seeking a real, genuine friendship with girls. I’m quite introverted, so I enjoy quiet hobbies like reading books and watching good movies. I also work out and maintain a fit body. If you’d like a chill, genuine friend, send me a DM!

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 20 days ago

Hey! 20M here, just looking for genuine female friends to chat, share life experiences, and grow together. I’m into deep, meaningful conversations. If you’re down to vibe, support one another, and build a real, wholesome connection, hit me up. Let’s talk!

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u/ColdImpossible1310 — 21 days ago