u/Comfortable-Crew4963

dont read if you don't like people complaining about their lives.

It cannot be understated on the amount of impact looks has on your life. It determines your relationships, your career, hell even your friends. I don't subscribe to incel ideology but I cannot deny the importance of aesthetics to the human race. I wish it wasn't this way. My quality of life has been greatly impacted by something I cannot directly control.

Simply put, it’s soul destroying. It is not an exaggeration to say that my shit looks has ruined my life. Take everything that is attractive about a man, and remove that. That is me. I’m short, and ugly due to genetic reasons, I have the ‘excuse’ But it doesn’t make things any better. The result is the same. People treat me as subhuman due to my appearance.

Things that people take for granted as normal life experiences such as girlfriends, romance, being dumped, sex, etc are mere dreams for me because I know my appearance writes me off from that. Equally as bad are the people who are trying to ‘help’. These are people who do not know your problems and try to give advice, but it’s advice that would only work for people in their situation who look ok or even look good. Totally useless and even infuriatingly condescending to someone like me. I hear it all the time ‘Looks are not important’ The hell it’s not… My personality has been praised a lot, yet I see these same people stay in an abusive relationship because their partner is hot.

I hate everything about myself, my bone structure, my hair (or lack there of), the shape of my eyes or the asymmetries between them. I could draw myself from memory.

I have been rejected 100% of the time, Due to my looks, Can’t even get passed ‘Hello’. So how does it feel? Like a fucking curse. Like it’s a prison in your own body, Unable to enjoy the basics of life that makes it worth living while you see everyone else able to do so. You just exist, waiting for the clock to say your time on this planet is up.

My peers around me are either getting married, engaged, or on their 5th long term relationship. Honestly its hard to even feel human. It feels like I am on the outside looking in.. Not like anybody else would want to be friends with me anyway. I am a background character in every environment I am in. Nobody talks to me first, nobody acknowledges my existence. I am never invited to anything, never been to a proper "party".

It’s not just the constant rejection, the subhuman treatment. But also the bullshit one endures during this whole experience, with people who think they are being kind. What’s more, Is knowing that there is no one to blame, No one to target as responsible for your woes. The same powers that made people attractive has made me ugly. I simply crapped out with the genetic lottery. It’s impersonal, Simple bad luck. And nothing can be done about it.

the knowledge that whether it was deserved or not didn’t matter. It just happend anyway and there was no reason for it. So after all that, the simplest answer I can give the question. "How does it feel to be an ugly man? " Soul Destroying.

TLDR: No TLDR; this is a pity party, dont read it if you have dont have time. Its not important.

Hi, i don't know the politics surrounding tasmac in our state, but as far as i know
people are happy its getting privatized because the liquor quality will be better but
what about state revenue? will the tax offset that?
Im not saying DMK didn't loot with tasmac but doesn't privitisation means more looting? especially now that Aadhav arjuna is in power?

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