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I (27F) am still affected by my mom’s affairs and forever will be.

My mom was forced married to my step dad her one night stand who she ended up pregnant from. She went on to have another child by him my oldest sister. Then came my sister and I, both born out of two different affairs .

I wish it could’ve ended there but my mom stayed pushing us into these men who we were told is also our dads lives as she continued being married.
My sister met her dad once and guess what he was involved in the cartel and was found burned at a tree after.
My dad also involved in a gang, drug dealing, alcoholism, and if that wasn’t enough of a good man for her almost all his friends are convicted pdfs! One actually molesting my male born friend who since transitioned due to the trauma inflicted on them at 8!

I feel like I could’ve gone farther in life done so much more if I didn’t have to heal from all the trauma she put me through. I’m 27 stilllll healing and having to still secretly care for my dying father who is 75 btw! He has no other family that will while living in a house given to us temporarily by my step dad who’s been more of a father than mine ever has but has also admitted at one point in anger he only talks to me because he is forced to.

My mother to this day will call out others for their wrongs whilst completely ignoring she cheated but also got pregnant and forced my step dad to care for us and take us in.

I have a daughter and my fiance is her step dad her real dad is non existent and also started a relationship with me when I was 16 him being 6 years older. My mom hates anytime my fiance tries to parent or set rules for the household, hates him missing work to care for me if I’m severely sick, hates that he calls himself my daughters dad it’s so obnoxiously annoying. I wish my mom never had an affair so I didn’t have to spend the years following for the rest of my life healing from it.

My (27F) partner (24M) will not stop cornering me, degrading me, badgering me, belittling me and the only things that stops him is when I physically hit him.

I should mention I am also currently 35 weeks pregnant.

My fiancé since I’ve gained weight and become pregnant started having these like fits of I don’t want to say rage but random moments where he just does not shut up about comparison. Comparing all these ugly things I don’t like about myself. My weight, my gap, my teeth in general, my private swelling or getting fatter, how ugly I am now, how dry my hair is. He never was like this before pregnancy AT ALL.

Constantly telling me they’re jokes or being like “oh you’re maaaaddd now” and when he does it I’m immobile. My hip is popped out or just under a lot of pressure due to the weight of the baby so it’s hard and painful for me to move. I can hardly get around I have to take pain meds just to use the restroom. He comes to me and starts the conversation off playful and then like starts going off and I feel he wants me to cry over it but instead I get upset and I keep trying to ignore him and like change the subject something I obviously can’t move so I have to sit here and listen and then he starts getting closer or touching me and I punch him in the face or slam my fist on him.

I’m not this angry person and I’ve never ever laid my hands on anyone who wasn’t a sibling that I did as a child. I’m not like this and I hate feeling like I’m being pushed to this point but then he gets butt hurt and makes me feel like I’m crazy and I’m too emotional and I can’t control myself!!! I tell him to leave as we’re living in one of my parents home given to me but he states he has nowhere to go as he is 2 hrs away from his hometown and family all his own doing I didn’t force him to move here he wanted to get away.

I feel like a monster and I can’t break up with him constantly and he comes crying how I easily make him feel like he’s replaceable, how I make him feel like everything he does for me isn’t worth it. That I’m all he has I feel so crazy!! This all just started when I got pregnant, joke or not!

I’m (27F) currently 33wks 3days went in for an ultrasound yesterday and was told my baby is weighing 5lbs 12oz.

I have a MFM appointment scheduled next Wednesday to get a full scan of his anatomy, I was told by my doctor if it shows he’s gained more weight I will be needing to go in for an emergency c section.

My doctor believes due to baby’s weight I now have gestational diabetes because my urine showed that I had a 1+ glucose but before the appointment I had a big breakfast and I went to the ER Monday and my urine was fine as well as my blood work. I also passed my glucose test in the beginning.

My doctor worries that if I hold him in and try delivering natural my baby will have shoulder dystocia and that the earliest I can be induced to have him natural would be 36wks.

I’m now per doctors orders on a high protein no/low carb diet to try and slow babies weight gain. My first baby was 6 years ago and I delivered natural and I wanted to deliver natural again but has anyone gone through this? Any tips? Advice? Anything?

I came across this post on Facebook and wanted to see the opinions from Redditors.

I will admit I am not a father. I’m just intrested in different and opposing views and why.

Sorry just need to rant!
I come from a small town and moved away but recently got into FB again. I saw a post of a mom defending her 15-17 year old son about a stolen gun he took from his friends. Then continued to say he was taken advantage of at that friends house by a 21 year old and posted a video of her dancing on him. Then a picture of her having her other younger son who’s 14 there as well. Same mom has posted in the past of her oldest daughter being taken advantage of when she was 15-16 by her own father who was in and out of prison. This mom has 7-8 kids and 3-4 baby dads.
Another of a woman who is unemployed, alcoholic, maybe slightly disabled and having a child as well.
Then moms on fb mom groups constantly needing assistance every month for basic necessities because they have multiple children and nothing to support themselves or children and then they’re pregnant again.

How can they afford this, why when CPS gets involved they keep giving women like this their children back!?