what in tarnation is this

what in tarnation is this

i dont know if this has been posted here yet, but god this ad pisses me off so much. the worst part is that she says “as a bigger chested girl it’s hard to find cute supportive bikinis” GIRL how is that supportive

yes i have big tits, no i dont want a reduction

whats the obsession around policing women’s bodies? i am a 65K cup and apparently to most people i meet i should want a reduction. i met a friends’s friend yesterday at the beach and she just straight up looked at me and said “do you know la sécu sociale (insurance here) probably would cover getting rid of them?” and it’s not even a one time thing, when you have a big chest people spend their times suggesting you get rid of them. yes sometimes my back hurts. yes sometimes i wish clothes fit me better. but that doesn’t mean i want to go through a very invasive surgery that could deprive me of ever having working nips again. venting about the downsides isn’t an invitation for everyone to start proposing permanent alterations. the social media talk, although way less important, is always in the same vein, women with bigger chest can apparently only take up place if they want to get rid of them, and just talking about liking your boobs is taken as bragging. i like my body!!! is that so hard to believe?

u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 12 days ago

dois-je avoir une recommandation de psy/medecin pour aller chez le psychiatre?

age: 18

sexe: F

bonjour a tous, je cherche des infos avis renseignés sur un premier rdv chez le psychiatre. je souffre depuis des mois d‘anxiété severe, qui m’empêche de fonctionner normalement, et perturbe notamment mon sommeil et provoque des crises de panique, de la nausée constante, des trous de memoire importants, des pensées et images intrusives et me bloque dans des boucles de pensées perturbantes. j‘ai été suivie par 2 psy différentes et ça ne m’a pas vraiment aidé. j’en ai marre d’ être mentalement et physiquement épuisée, et j’aimerais consulter un psychiatre car ma famille a des antécédents de problèmes psychiatriques assez graves et je souhaiterais savoir si un traitement médicamenteux serait pertinent. je voudrais donc savoir comment se passe la prise d’un premier rendez vous? faut il avoir une recommandation par un medecin ou un psychologue? comment se passe une consultation? merci d’avance!

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 19 days ago

i had to run away from my friend’s place

reposting with real food (chocolate cake) because i still need someone to debrief this with lol 🥲

i had one of the most stressful nights in a while. im back in town for some exam retakes and i needed a place to stay for a few nights. i asked my friend if he had a free room for me since one of his roommates is already on summer break. he said that it was no problem so i turn up, excited to spend some time with my friend. what he forgot to mention is that he has a very rowdy, very weird roommate. the dude doesn’t clean at all and makes his sister come clean the apartment when it’s his turn to do chores. when he spills something he just expects people to clean up after him. and he is very misogynistic and he didn’t even look at me when i walked it, much less even said hello. i was a bit weirded out but soon it got late and i decided it was time for bed. i asked my friend to show me to the extra room and when i walked in it was filthy. sticky floors, food containers everywhere, dirty laundry. turns out the rowdy roommate had been bringing his friends over and making them sleep in that room. additionally, they sleep on it with no bed sheets so the mattress was covered in stains. i didnt mind that much because i had brought a camping mini mattress, so i just blew it up and fell asleep. i woke up at like 1 in the morning because the roommate had brought 5 friends over to watch the argentina-algeria match. whatever, i just put my airpods on and fell back asleep. but to my great surprise, i woke up this morning to the uncle of the roommate, laid down on the aforementioned filthy mattress , staring down at me. i packed my shit and told my friend i was feeling unsafe and i was gonna leave. he looked at me with annoyance and started sighing when i got out into the hallway. he said i was breaking his heart and that he was so sad, even when i apologized and said it wasn’t because of him and thanked him for the room. i’m so uncomfortable and i just want to go home to my mom and dad

u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 19 days ago

how do i dress for an internship?

hey fellow big boob people, i’m looking for some advice. i am a 65K (30H in UK sizing) and i have an internship lined up at a really cool museum in july. the problem is i feel like i don’t know what to wear at all, and every inspo pic i see on pinterest is either not compatible with wearing a bra or i’m gonna be way too hot. so i’m wondering how do you guys look professional without overheating, especially with a bigger chest? thank u in advance everybody!

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 23 days ago

Pire bêtise écrite/lue dans une copie?

Je commence, le mois dernier je faisais mon dernier partiel, c’était histoire po et j’ai écrit que la Première Guerre Mondiale est une conséquence que de la crise de 29… Heureusement je m’en suis rendue compte avant de rendre ma copie

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 28 days ago

need something gay asf to happen to me NEOWWWWWWW

girl dinner is sad ass train station snacks

i’m so tired of the isolation that comes with being a lesbian, especially one with a type. im not even 20, i want to enjoy and flirt and get crushes and fall in love but i dont have anyone to try all of that with. i know the usual advice is to join clubs, hang out in queer places, etc, but even at the gay bar in my midsized city there’s mainly only gay men, bi girls (super nice but theyre mostly very fem and im a fem4masc girl unfortunately) and the very very rare lesbian who either is dating someone, is not into me or is just not my type. I JUST WANT TO EXPERIENCE YOUNG LOVE

u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 29 days ago

Quand est-ce ce que les photos en couleur se sont vraiment démocratisées?

Je me suis rendue compte que la photo en couleur c’était beaucoup plus vieux que je le pensais, fin 19e si je me trompe pas. Du coup à partir de quand une personne lambda pouvait-elle se permettre de faire imprimer ses photos de tous les jours en couleur et pas en noir et blanc?

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 29 days ago

big boob friendly swimsuit dupe

hey friends, i was out shopping with my friends the other day and they went into an underwear shop (undiz) and i saw this super cute swimsuit, but unfortunately this shop only carries to about a g cup. ive been looking all over for a big chest friendly alternative, not necessarily the same style, i just love the rose gold slightly metallic glitter look. does anybody have anything similar? thank u in advance everyone ! 🫶🫶

u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 1 month ago

Quelle est la pub qui vous énerve le plus?

Peu importe le format ou le lieu/moyen de diffusion. Perso c’est celle sur HBO Max avec Olivier Giroud où le gars se prend une raquette de padel dans les coucougnettes, je sais pas pourquoi mais elle m’enrage

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 1 month ago

me (18f) and my friend (18f) are about to move in together, how do we keep our friendship intact?

me and my friend have known each other for about 2 years now. we met through her boyfriend, who’s a family friend of mine who i had a crush on in high school. i used to be jealous of her at first, but i got to know both her and me better, and now she is a close friend of mine, and she and the family friend are often my wingmen as i mainly date women now, so that jealousy issue is resolved. we got closer this year as we both started university in the same city, and a few months ago, we decided to become roommates. we are about to move in and im really excited, but the last few days ive read a few stories of terrible roommates and im scared we’ll just end up hating each other. from the sleepovers we have had, we are pretty compatible on things like visits, cleaning up, cooking… but i’m still nervous that at some point we’ll start fighting and the apartment just wont feel good to live in anymore. that’s why i’m looking for tips to keep our friendship intact and not drive each other insane while we live together. thanks in advance everybody!

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 1 month ago

IWTL how to start prepping without sounding like a crazy conspiracy theorist?

I’m a really anxious person and I like to be ready for things. Most of my family lives in Poland near the Ukrainian border and between that, all the other wars in the world, climate change, and social tensions, I want to start preparing to be ready in case stuff goes wrong. I’m not talking about building a bunker under my house or hoarding food in my basement, just maybe put together the essentials and learn a few important skills. Where can I start?

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 2 months ago

hey pretties! im pretty panicked and i need help. so ive gained a consequential amount of weight since i started university in sept (about ten kilos) and as a result my bra size has gone up from a 65I to about a 65J or K (i haven’t gotten fitted since so im not sure). as a result i only have two bras left that are still about my size. one is a blue one with lace so its visible whenever i wear a tighter shirt, and the other is a perfect one, pink and plain. the problem is i can feel the wire of the pink bra about to poke out the side of the cup and tear the bra (and my skin lol), and im so mad because i cant live on one bra for until whenever i will be able to get a new one (which probably won’t be anytime soon). does anybody have any tips to maybe on how to make sure it lasts as long as possible and eventually maybe how to sew it back? thank u all in advance 🩷

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u/Comfortable_Body9363 — 2 months ago