u/Common_Media4316

I really want to get some shape in my hair but would it completely fry my hair and make it fall out? Would starting minoxidil help my hair growth if I get a k-perm?

I work for a small company where I have two bosses who are founders and one manager. One of my bosses is in his 60’s and he’s a sweetheart. He never crosses any boundaries with me and doesn’t ask any personal questions, which I like.

However, the other founder is much younger. He’s in his late 40’s or early 50’s and he tries flirting with me, a lot. Or I get a weird vibe from him. I don’t like being alone with him. He has a wife and kids that he talks about but he constantly tries to bait me into inappropriate talks or asks me weird questions. I really don’t like it and I don’t like him too much but I put up with him. He recently noticed I had tattoos on my wrist (I usually cover with a watch) and mentioned how he never noticed it. He started asking me if I deliberately hid them. I told him that I try not to show them at work. Yesterday he asked me if I had any “hidden” tattoos and then goes so far to ask if he’d be able to see them if I had a bikini on.

I said no and changed the subject. I try to keep the conversation at a 20% when I’m around him and try to look busy. He just gives me very weird vibes. He tells me that he thinks I’m a very good person but then says weird things and acts mean to me in front of others. I’ve been ignoring it because I don’t want to be retaliated against and then get fired. I’m not sure if the other boss will stay on for too long so I’m trying to suck it up and ignore it.

There’s no HR, there’s no anything here. Just myself, my two bosses and my manager.

Does anyone have suggestions when it comes to retaining the information when reading a book? After I’ve read the book I completely forget the details and names in the story months after.

I feel like I am at the end of my rope with my marriage. My husband is a good person but there are things like his dirtiness, his lack of consideration towards me, his jealousy and his stubbornness that is tiring me out. I’m not easy to handle. I have since had mental health issues that I’m sure would have come up no matter if I ended up with him or not. I worked all day while he left to a convention. At this convention he ended up following another woman that posts bikini photos and has the same interests as he does. He is currently trying to build followers for his business and she has literal tons. On the outside he seems like a great guy but I am miserable. I feel so miserable. I’m stuck in between not knowing if I should leave and break up my family or stay because deep down I feel like I’m the problem. But I support him and do everything I can to be good and to pay for things. I’m just always unhappy. I feel like it’s coming to the end.

I have no one to vent to because I don’t trust people around me and I hate sharing private issues to “friends” and family.

Does anyone know why we don’t have a Zara in the Broward/Palm Beach area and do you know if we will be getting a store soon?

Is it bad not to invite your child’s entire class to their birthday? We’re trying to keep costs minimal because his surprise is a cruise trip he’s been asking us to go on for a while now, so we decided to invite just a few boys, but now I’m feeling really guilty about not inviting the whole class. We invited four of his closest friends from his class, plus one more boy I didn’t want to leave out because he’s a bit more introverted and his mom is really sweet. That means we’re leaving out three other boys and all of the girls in his class. There are 18 kids total.

One of the boys we’re not inviting has bullied my son and even gave him a black eye (forced his head against a sink in the bathroom), so my son really doesn’t want to invite him. I told my son we wouldn’t be able to invite everyone due to cost, and we also wouldn’t want to hand out invitations in a way that leaves this child out. It’s not likely his parents would come anyway, but my son doesn’t want to take that chance.

My question is, is this wrong? Is it okay to invite only a few boys from his class? I’m a first-time mom, and we’ve only been invited to two birthdays from his classmates this year, so I’m not sure what’s typical. We already have more guests than we were expecting to come and we were really hoping to keep costs under and we are at $500 without the cake, food and beverages.

Edit: birthday party is not on a cruise ship/trip. It’s a regular bday party at the park and we are keeping costs low because his surprise gift from us is a cruise. Sorry. Just wanted to make that clear.