u/Complete-Rock-9613

Like this is happening with a mod in a subreddit right now and it’s something that happens so much.

I will talk in detail and say exactly what I think and mean and the other person is just like

”What do you want?”

”What are you trying to say?”

”What’s your problem?”

And like… I just explained it to you as clear as humanly possible, what else am I supposed to say?!

This happened with some teachers when I had to work by myself on a group project that in the groups had determined tasks. But they wanted me to just come up with something out of the blue even though they were the ones who said I should work alone on this project where everyone else had predetermined tasks. Obviously I took issue with this and explained it very clearly to them. But they made me sit there for 30 fucking minutes just repeating the exact same thing over and over again before they finally got it through their dumb heads

Same thing with this moderator. I made a post heavily criticising a fictional character. I used harsh words yeah but it’s fiction, I’m not harming anyone. The comments jump on me like hyenas, calling me stupid, saying I don’t get the story, I’m an attention seeker who don’t mean what I say etc. I try to in good faith have them actually explain why they think this which leads to more bullshit from their side, which yeah I matched at that point because I was sick of their attitude.

I contacted the moderator to report this. They decided I had apparently started the fights even though the comments are the ones who open by calling me low intelligence

Yeah great logic

Like I’m not calling it bad by any means.

It was a decently intriguing drama/mystery and the characters are interesting enough (although I cringed and wanted to do violence whenever Marty opened his mouth)

I guess I’m just a little confused over it’s extremely high reputation

To me it was just a good, above average character study but not this deep introspective masterpiece I see it so often hailed as

So is there something I’m missing?

I got a new Xbox account two years ago. The old one was under parental control There are some games I bought from the Microsoft store when using that account that I really want to play again without paying a second time? How do I do this? It’s the same email for both accounts

I don’t know how to explain this really

But my mom is white Swedish and my dad Black from Ghana.

He left very early

My mom is a very ”socially aware” white woman. Don’t know what word to use really

But she puts up all kinds of pictures of black people we have no relation to in the apartment and African art.
And she’s constantly watching movies about racism or some kind of social injustice.

It’s like she’s constantly trying to prove to herself how non bigoted she is.
And it feels like she may have had me in order to further tell herself how much she approves of black people

I don’t know if what I said makes sense,
But it’s a very uncomfortable and dehumanising feeling

Like I’m a tool for her ego or something

Would love to talk to others with similar experiences