Text after being ghosted
okay so i got kind of set up with this guy. we didn’t really know each other, we just have a lot of mutuals, like a lot. so i knew of him, thought he was cute, asked to get set up, and we started texting. we were only talking fr for maybe a couple days, not even. genuinely mid conversation he randomly decides to ghost me out of nowhere and it’s been 2 days now.
to be honest, i don’t really care, like you do you boo, but i’m honestly just really lost because the conversation was good and he was so engaged, so i don’t understand why he just ghosted me mid convo.
it’s not like i need closure because we were barely talking, but part of me wants to text him and say something along the lines of “if you didn’t want to talk, you could’ve just said that… ghosting me is kinda a dick move.”
but at the same time i don’t even know if i want to text him because what would that ever give me? i don’t know.
also my friends are disagreeing with each other. 2 say text him, the other 2 say don’t. also keep in mind i’m 18 and i don’t really talk to guys that much, so i genuinely don’t know what to do here. help 😭