So I find myself in an incredibly impossible situation.

I left college in November last year, I was having a hard time after my best friend who was like my sister cut me off. I couldn’t cope without her and felt purely miserable in my course. Since then I became a bit of a layabout but I was still getting up to business. Hanging out with friends 2 or 3 times a week. Relatively okay all things considered. But then it all went down hill, everybody’s left me yadda yadda. Felt like I had no purpose. My mental health has been on a downward spiral since and I’m at the bottom.

Anyways, you may be wondering “why don’t u just get a job” well… I’ve applied for just about everything. I have yet to be hired and have hardly managed an interview.

I have lost the remainder of my friends over the last few months or so. I wouldn’t say I miss them too dearly, they weren’t great but it was nice having someone there. But prior to that I lost my proper friends consecutively. First one abandoned me cos her church said I was making her gay. Second time it was simply because I didn’t talk to her for a week. Then third of the bunch, I chose to get rid of her myself due to her becoming a spiteful unkind person. Oh and then last of all I got romantically entwined with a friend and he didn’t take it well when I said he was being too full on. He was also using ChatGPT to talk to me irl and that was harrowing. So he’s left me too. Couldn’t make this up.

I’m incredibly isolated with literally no support network. Only family member I have is my mother and she’s tired of my bullshit. I’m stuck living in the most boring area ever. There aren’t any groups here for me to join, no solo activities to do. So I spend my days indoors crying and doing nothing. I’m also not from here and feel such a fish out of water. I’m desiring to move but that seems relatively impossible.

Essentially what I’m asking is

HOW do I stop the isolation?

How do I move as far away to save my soul?

How do I get employed?

How do I just get back on my feet overall? I’m having a really difficult time and I would take any help.

I’m British by the way!!! And a queer if that’s relevant.

So I was wondering with all the talk of the council boundaries changing, how it’s actually going to work.

ive been online and had a look but can’t get a conclusive answer. All I know is we’re being merged into three councils. Does anyone have any idea what those three councils consist of

forgive me for my ignorance. Any help is appreciated. Thank u

How do I escape isolation and move house? So essentially to summarise I currently live in an area just outside Birmingham in the uk, which is my home town. I am not from this place I currently reside and have only been here for around 4 years. I have no connections to the area and am incredibly isolated, I also do not desire to live here.

I have no family aside from my mother and I lost all my friends over the span of the last 6 months. My ex best friend was a bisexual Christian and I’m pretty sure her family forced her to stop talking to me cos I was turning her queer. I spend every day indoors now and it’s getting horrible. I’m an incredibly sociable extroverted person.

Basically how do I make connections with other lgbt people? This area is so isolating as there is no scene whatsoever unless u already know them from college or ur family. I believe it would be useful for me to be around other members of my community. As a trans person it can already be a bit isolating by being ”weird” I suppose to the public eye. I just really don’t know what to do. I’ve even tried the apps and it’s all just men trying it on with me💔 🥀

Im 19 and have not had much of anything going on since I left college. My mental health is awful. How would I go about moving to a brand new area far away and making human connection again? Oh yes I’m also unemployed for the cherry on top. Yes I’ve tried to get jobs.

any help appreciated.

Thank you in advance.

How do I escape isolation and move house? So essentially to summarise I currently live in an area just outside Birmingham in the uk, which is my home town. I am not from this place I currently reside and have only been here for around 4 years. I have no connections to the area and am incredibly isolated, I also do not desire to live here.

I have no family aside from my mother and I lost all my friends over the span of the last 6 months. I spend every day indoors now and it’s getting horrible. I’m an incredibly sociable extroverted person.

im also a member of the lgbt community so this area is especially isolating as there is no scene at all, it’s not bigoted here they’re all quite accepting there just isn’t many of us here.

Im 19 and have not had much of anything going on since I left college. My mental health is awful. How would I go about moving and making human connection again? Oh yes I’m also unemployed for the cherry on top. Yes I’ve tried to get jobs.

any help appreciated.

Thank you in advance.

I feel as though I’m being gaslit. Here in Lichfield i dont feel as though I’m in reform land. Burntwood is quite mixed depending on the road.

yet they have the council? And at the same time all of our singular councils are ran by labour so whats the logic? I’m actually confused and wondering if anyone has any insight.

Just wanted to vent my frustrations on the fact that clearly all of us who are voting differently clearly live in seperate universes. The echo chambers are obviously leading to group think with no backlash.

Also to mention they’ve ran through 3 leaders and everyone’s leaving all the time, constant issues, but still took all the seats in Cannock at the by election? Baffled.

So does anyone else ever think about Anthony’s mysterious phone call from October or whenever it was? I imagine that will never go anywhere. Still baffled.

On phone Calls, Julie. She was also having mysterious phone calls for about a week around autumn last year. Who with? God knows.

and bonus round: Billy nicking the post, Whatever the thing was with rockys wife and Dotty and all of that mess, also did they ever find out cindy basically made Kojo fall off that balcony and then started threatening to send him back to Africa when they made her go mental for them few months?

basically my YouTube recommendations have genuinely went in the bin recently and it’s giving me anxiety just trying to find stuff 😭😭😭

I love stuff like don’t hug me I’m scared, amazing digital circus, for alien eyes only. all the creative stuff on the platform basically!!! but all I’m getting recommended is boring video essays about stuff that doesnt matter and I don’t care about. full on waste ur time final boss!!!

For like normal YouTubers I love tommyinnit, james Marriott, tubbo. basically all them lot but none of them post really anymore so it’s a sad one for me😭😭😭 I also love Dan and Phil but again all they really do now is there podcast 💔 which I do like actually.

anyone have any recommendations?

interests:

right now I love playing Roblox. I also love Nintendo and won’t really play on any other console lol.

I’m a massive music nerd, fave artist is Charli xcx!!!!

I love chatting, I’m quite a sociable hyper person if that gives u an idea of me. I also need to be around ppl who have a sense of humour.

my fave tv show of all time is doctor who but my favourite currently airing show is euphoria.

more about me: I accidentally ended up in a maths competition once and won. I have a YouTube channel that I’ve been doing for 2 weeks now where I do Roblox videos (cringe alert I know but I’m having fun, they’re well edited so might be famous soon). I also want to be on tv and more specifically in a soap like eastenders or hollyoaks cos that would be slay.

>!&#x200B;!<maybe we can call, play Roblox together, play modded 3ds online together. the possibilities are endless babes. overall though I would just love a good chat. I like to think I’m a good friend that won’t leave u on delivered for a day like a w4nk3r. If we really vibe we can be besties who knows!!!!

if ur lonely too let me know we can add each other on disc/snap/whatever.

will have to be lgbtq friendly as im one of them. Apart from that anything goes.

idk if i wrote too much 🫪🫶

anyone else cut ppl off when they having an episode then u gotta deal with the consequences? like what’s that? I only have one friend I give a damn about? u know what I should be vile to her cos she secretly hates me/ she’s gonna hate me eventually/ she deserves better friends/ i deserve better friends.

its all mental really. so now I have no one 🥰🫶 slay