Can we not be weird for 5 min?
A few hours ago, a woman (she said she’s 40) suddenly slid into my DMs out of nowhere. I’m 24, I usually don’t respond to people who are much older or younger than me.
But this time, she told me how interested she was in me, and it honestly made me feel good, so I replied. Soon after, we realised we live nearby, and she told me I should visit her. Also, if the pictures she sent weren’t fake, she was very attractive.
But then she suddenly started sexting me, and my reaction went from “whoa” to “um😐.” Even though she’s smoking hot, I didn’t feel anything. In fact, it made me uncomfortable. She said she’s looking for a wife, but to me, it seemed like she was only looking for a fwb.
So I respectfully told her I was going to step back and left the chat.
I just want to have a wholesome chat. Every time I try to open up to someone, it never goes the way I want. *BIG SIGHS*