I'm torn between my best friend of 10years (F16) and my friend of 1 year(F17)
Okay sorry in advance for any english mistake I'm not a native
To make it short, last night my friend of 1 year (Lola) called me telling me she got into a fight with my best friend (Emily). Lola told me that they were planning a trip with Lola's best friend (Katie) and an other friend I'm close to (Stella). At first Lola told me that I should come into the trip since I'm close to everyone except Katie. But when she proposed it in the gc (I'm not in the gc) Emily and Katie said no because it would not be practical for the bedrooms. And then Emily said that she wouldn't take place in the trip because it was at Malta and she is in a relationship. AT this moment Katie became rude like saying "I'll pray he'll dump you right before the summer holidays so you'll regret not taking the plane tickets with us", "Are you really going to stay with "that" (referring to Emily's boyfriend) for the rest of your life ?" stuff like that... After that the fight started, Stella defended Emily and Lola was with Katie. Lola told me that everything Katie said was a "joke" but I'm not so sure anymore. At the time of the fight I only had Lola's point of view.
AFter that Stella added Ethan (Emily's boyfriend) into the gc and he began slurring Lola and Katie but mostly Katie and Emily didn't tell him to stop. Things escalated and Emily began to insult Katie and Lola after Lola said "your bf got too much ego just because (his ex) don't stop licking his b...." (masculine attribute). Emily got mad and I didnt have all the point of view. ANd Lola was not explaining everything so I was like "omg why is she insulting you ? im chocked" and I thought Emily was in the wrong.
AFter that Katie got really mad about Ethan insulting her so she called dudes to scare him off. I told her that I didn't think it was a great idea but she did it anyway. Emily got even madder when Ethan told her that some random dudes were threatening him.
This morning Lola said to Emily that I was on Katie and Lola's side and Emily came to me to explain her pov but before that Lola asked me to not change my mind on my opinion. Like I told her that I was on their side she asked me to not let Emily change my mind. So I said yes ofc. BUt then Emily explain and I actually get it... I kind of changed my opinion but anyway I'm not in their stories ?? I did not do anything and Emily is kind of disappointed in me for staying with Lola even after what she did to her and her bf.
Now Katie did a story on snapchat, telling her friends the story, but it's so strange to do that. There's like a lot of people on her story. And Emily want me to tell to Lola that its strange to do that. But I don't wanna get in this fight... I love both of them and next week Lola is coming to my beach appartement.
Please help me I beg you