trigger warning: VENTING out frustrated with MIL
Yesterday I had a D&C to rule out possibly for PUL/ ectopic pregnancy Dr cant locate my gestational sac at 5 weeks and 5 days my HCG was 2577 at 21 dpt and not doubling high likelihood that it was a non viable pregnancy vs ectopic. This was my second transfer after lupron suppression using Donor eggs because i had DOR.
We shared the news to my in laws and my mother in law texted me that I should not worry since I still have 1 ovary and with the blessing of God I will conceive naturally. That I still have a chance as long as I pray and believe in God. I was so mad!!! We told her that we are using IVF with Donor eggs because I had DOR at 35 tried 4 retrievals with no normal embryos and have to resort to Donor eggs. She knew that we told her 2 years ago!!! I told her that I was at risk with ectopic because of endo. And then she told me its okay all will be good with a f**king thumbsup emoji.
I feel so disgusted all they want is just a damn baby they dont really care how i feel.