

My ectopic pregnancy story and the man who stayed
A few days ago I posted on this sub that my gf got a positive pregnancy test... well, that's me, 27F 😂 (to avoid DMs I posted it like my gf got it). We were overwhelmed about it and we visited a gynac. We aren't settled yet... please don't judge us on this, but we want our kids to have a beautiful life, and we are not there yet. This was a pure contraceptive failure since we always use protection.
We went to the gynac and she told us that we can do the procedure of abortion. It's legal even though you are unmarried. We need to do a few tests before that. And after many sonographies and a week full of chaos, we found out that it was an ectopic pregnancy. Those who don't know, it's life-threatening for women. So now normal medicine would not work in my case and we need to do surgery.
We got so scared and we both were not able to sleep for nights because all the tests were pointing towards ectopic. The gynac told us I need to inform a family member. We both held each other and just went to my mom, and we told her everything, and she also got scared but she chose to stay calm and support us.
Before the operation, we decided that we would plant trees as a way to seek forgiveness for going against nature. And 2 days ago, the surgery happened. I am all well now. Throughout this journey, MY man stood by my side like a pillar. I have anxiety issues. I broke down, he cried, but still he cared. He loved and did everything he could do to make me feel better. He stood by my side financially, emotionally, in every way.
When I came out of the Operation Theatre, my anesthesia was wearing off. I was in immense pain and the first thing I told him is we will plant at least 11 trees. My mom liked him very much and she saw how much he loved me and cared for me. Eventually, tragedy brought us closer. We are blessed that everything is fine and under control. We are getting married next year 😊. "pata hai aaj kya hua"
Girls, look for somebody who will stick by your side and doesn't care who is around. He just loves and cares for you unconditionally.