u/Crazy-Can-4856

Image 1 — My ectopic pregnancy story and the man who stayed
Image 2 — My ectopic pregnancy story and the man who stayed

My ectopic pregnancy story and the man who stayed

A few days ago I posted on this sub that my gf got a positive pregnancy test... well, that's me, 27F 😂 (to avoid DMs I posted it like my gf got it). We were overwhelmed about it and we visited a gynac. We aren't settled yet... please don't judge us on this, but we want our kids to have a beautiful life, and we are not there yet. This was a pure contraceptive failure since we always use protection.

We went to the gynac and she told us that we can do the procedure of abortion. It's legal even though you are unmarried. We need to do a few tests before that. And after many sonographies and a week full of chaos, we found out that it was an ectopic pregnancy. Those who don't know, it's life-threatening for women. So now normal medicine would not work in my case and we need to do surgery.

We got so scared and we both were not able to sleep for nights because all the tests were pointing towards ectopic. The gynac told us I need to inform a family member. We both held each other and just went to my mom, and we told her everything, and she also got scared but she chose to stay calm and support us.

Before the operation, we decided that we would plant trees as a way to seek forgiveness for going against nature. And 2 days ago, the surgery happened. I am all well now. Throughout this journey, MY man stood by my side like a pillar. I have anxiety issues. I broke down, he cried, but still he cared. He loved and did everything he could do to make me feel better. He stood by my side financially, emotionally, in every way.

When I came out of the Operation Theatre, my anesthesia was wearing off. I was in immense pain and the first thing I told him is we will plant at least 11 trees. My mom liked him very much and she saw how much he loved me and cared for me. Eventually, tragedy brought us closer. We are blessed that everything is fine and under control. We are getting married next year 😊. "pata hai aaj kya hua"

Girls, look for somebody who will stick by your side and doesn't care who is around. He just loves and cares for you unconditionally.

u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 9 hours ago

Looking for girls hostel/ PG near Kharghar sector 35G

Need to attend training for 5 days in kharghar sec 35G,

if you know any affordable place to stay let me know..

kindly upvote this post to help.

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 1 day ago

Dr. Said to do surgery for my ectopic pregnancy(unmarried F) afraid that anyone will know it. People from work place are little too close as I am working with them for many years and have close relationship.Wanna hide this but at the same time need sick leaves for rest,what to do ?

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 6 days ago

Anyone else go from content to envious? How’d you deal with it?

Used to be super content with my life. Lately everything feels hard and I’ve started envying people I know. Didn’t like who I was becoming, so I deleted Insta. Trying to find my peace again. Anyone been there?

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 9 days ago

pata hai aaj kya hua

My gfs periods are 3-4 days late and she was in a stress. we decided to take a urine test at home, and this kit is showing the second faint line. Two lines means positive but the second line is faint. She's 27F and I am 30M. We are still settling down and have decided we will marry next year. Now this situation... we really don't know how to handle it, She's still preparing for her PhD and I am trying to build my Start-up we are almost there but still we need time to process. Our family is chill so we are not worried about approvals. But we both are not ready for pregnancy.

u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 20 days ago
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My gf's period is 3-5 days late and we need to consult a non judgemental gynaecologist.

if you know any , let me know the name and location of dr.

(we took the home test but it shows a faint test line )

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 20 days ago

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I was coming home after work and saw my little sister (15F) walking with a boy. The moment she saw me, she turned around and went home without saying a word. She had a few books in her hand. The guy stayed there, looking around suspiciously.

When I got home, I asked her where she’d been. She said, “I went to my friend’s house.” But I know her friend doesn’t live on that road. I asked her again, “Please don’t lie to me. Just tell me the truth.” But she kept lying. I felt betrayed and told her, “Don’t talk to me from now on.”

We have a 10-year age gap, but we’ve always been close. I’m friendly with her and always tell her, “If you like someone, tell me. You’re young, choose your people wisely.” I’ve taken her side in front of my mom and other sisters too. I say, “She’s young, she gets angry sometimes in her teens.” I’ve tried to understand her, but she’s not being humble at all. She talks back, yells, picks fights, and never says sorry.

I keep wondering where this is coming from. Our father was an alcoholic and died 7 years ago. After that, it was just me and my mom taking care of my sisters. I never got love from my father or mother. So I decided I’d be the person who gives love and care.

She used to study in a municipal school because we couldn’t afford a private one. Over time, I finished my education while doing part-time jobs and finally got a good job. The first thing I did was enroll her in a private school. I told her, “There will be competition there. Other kids might have more than you. But I’ll do my best to give you everything. You just focus on your dreams.” She studies well, and I always praise and motivate her.

I’m crying while writing this because she’s not talking to me. I’m really hurt. She doesn’t understand how much I love her and how much I care.

I feel like I failed. I don’t know what I did wrong. What made her like this.. I gave her everything I never had. I protected her, supported her, stood by her. And now she lies to my face and walks away.

I don't understand How do I make her see that I’m not her enemy...I’m not trying to control her. I’m just scared for her. The world is harsh, especially for girls. I just want her to be safe and make smart choices.

I don’t want to lose her. She’s my little sister. I raised her. I feel like my heart is breaking.

How do I fix this...How do I get her to trust me again...

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 21 days ago

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I was coming back home after finishing some work, and I saw my little sister (15F) with some boy. dono chal k aa rahe they samne se and usne muje dekh liya and vo ulta ghum k chali gyi. she had few books in her hand. and muje dekhne k baad vo bina ruke ghum k ghar chali gyi.That guy was looking susss . because vo vahi pai ruk gya and yaha vaha dekhne laga. I came home and I asked her where were you, she's like I went to my friends home. muje pata hai uski vo friend vaha pai vo road pai to nhi reheti hai. I asked her again and again juth mat bol jo hai vo bol de fir bhi vo juth hi bolti rahi. I felt betrayed and I said mujse bat mat Karo tum abse.

we have 10years of age gap , but we stay together and share things. I am very friendly with her I keep on telling her that u tell me if u like someone, you are young and choose people around you wisely. I take her side even in front of my mom or other sisters, choti hai usko samj k lete hai ... teenage mai gussa aata hai kabhi kabhi ... I tried to understand her but she isn't becoming a humble person in any way. hamesa ulta jawab dena , chilana , Jhgda karna , sorry nhi bolna. I tried to understand her from where this is coming.. My father was an alcoholic and he died 7 years ago... me and my mother took care of my sisters, I never got any love from my father or mother and I always wanted to be that person who loves and cares. I feel betrayed today , I don't know where I went wrong ... what made her like this... she was studying in Municipal school because we never had money to put her in private school. but over the time I completed my education while doing part time jobs and then got a good job.First thing I did is enrolled her in private school. I told her before enrolling there will be competition maybe people around you will have more than you but I will do my best to give you everything I just need you to fulfill your dreams. she studies well and I always praise her and motivate her. I am crying while writing this because she isn't talking to me , I am really hurt ... she's not able to understand how much I love her and how much I care for her. If any teenager is reading this please give me some tips to connect with her again.

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u/Crazy-Can-4856 — 21 days ago