u/Curious-Pace-6329

Love doesn't come with ownership, but nowadays the so-called kink community makes it look like that , dark romance is also a reason for this kind of madness, and women fall for it the number increases way too high now , making me worry about the future generations.

Love is never meant to be tamed on leash ,but now they make chains look like romance , gag as a passion and collars as commitment.

This is not love ,this is ownership in a disguise of being spicy in a relationship, it rot our brain when we are sitting in silence. What kind of society call noose a necklace???? Why do we clap on misery and call it "Empowerment?"

How did we come here ? Why is nobody talking about it ? Wrose ! Why are women defending their own chains ?

This isn't liberation, this is fu*king ownership with better marketing .

We need to do better , we have to . Give me your opinion too .

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Okay so , i noticed a change in the world, and I am really very much concerned about it , make it clear and let's talk about it !

\*\*Love doesn't come with ownership, but nowadays the so-called kink community makes it look like that , dark romance is also a reason for this kind of madness, and women fall for it the number increases way too high now , making me worry about the future generations.\*\*

\*\*Love is never meant to be tamed on leash ,but now they make chains look like romance , gag as a passion and collars as commitment.\*\*

\*\*This is not love ,this is ownership in a disguise of being spicy in a relationship, it rot our brain when we are sitting in silence. What kind of society call noose a necklace???? Why do we clap on misery and call it "Empowerment?"\*\*

Okay so , i noticed a change in the world, and I am really very much concerned about it , make it clear and let's talk about it !

Love doesn't come with ownership, but nowadays the so-called kink community makes it look like that , dark romance is also a reason for this kind of madness, and women fall for it the number increases way too high now , making me worry about the future generations.

Love is never meant to be tamed on leash ,but now they make chains look like romance , gag as a passion and collars as commitment.

This is not love ,this is ownership in a disguise of being spicy in a relationship, it rot our brain when we are sitting in silence. What kind of society call noose a necklace???? Why do we clap on misery and call it "Empowerment?"

The audacity.

Umm so I speak openly about anti kink and anti BDSM. Oh one point my English is not "elite", I use simple language but I think deeply and study about these topics, and I say what I mean.

Now come to the main story. It's short but I wanna share anyways.

So one day I talk against this kink community in a sub and that very night a creep slide into my DM, arrogant and confident too.

His exact line was:

>"YOU ARE NOT ANTI KINK YOU JUST DONT KNOW YET, IF YOU GET SLAP IN YOUR FACE BY A PROFESSIONAL DOM, YOU WILL START TO LOVE IT. MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT AND YOU WILL TOO IF YOU GIVE IT A TRY."

I AM really very angry and hurt that moment that I don't think clearly at all. Otherwise I would take a ss first, however without giving him any ans I report his account and block him.

Now the calculation about this situation and my conclusion.

If you notice this sentence, you will understand here how he tried to gaslight me with those few lines, like my "no" doesn't matter, and his violation reframed as my "awakening", right?

Like "MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT" it is a simple way to show the seed of doubt in your mind and that's why I said this kink community people are great manipulators. Those who don't think deeply, they fall for them and become a easy target, because this "self doubt" start from here.

Some important line from me:

1. consensual kink is not valid too it is twisted by the line "kink is universal" they try to promote this.

2. as I said "NO" IN PUBLIC, HE RUN INTO MY DM TO CHAGE ME PRIVATELY, BECAUSE SOMEHOW I HIT HIS NERVE, HIS SO CALLED SCRIPT NOT WORK ON ME AND MAYBE THAT GIVE HIM NIGHTMARE.

3. remember ladies, a DM like this is not about sex at all, it about test your boundaries. They want to check how far they can push you before you give in like others. And we are here to break them not us.

4. "YOU JUST DON'T KNOW YET" IF ANYONE SAID YOU THIS MAKE IT CLEAR FOR THEM THAT "MY NO IS EXACTLY WHAT I STAND FOR, MY BOUNDARIES ARE CLEAR AND NOT FOR DISCUSSIONS."

In the end I want to say be safe and sound. Never let them win.

Share this post everywhere as much as you can.

Remember, knowledge is power and they fear that.

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Umm so i speak openly about anti kink and anti bdsm . Oh one point my English is not "elite " , I use simple language but I think deeply and study about these topics, and I say what i mean .

​

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Now come to the main story it's short but I wanna share anyways, so one day I talk against this kink community in a sub and that very night a creep slide into my dm , arrogant and confident too , his exact line was :- " YOU ARE NOT ANTI KINK YOU JUST DONT KNOW YET , IF YOU GET SLAP IN Your FACE BY A PROFESSIONAL DOM , you will START TO LOVE IT . MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT AND you WILL TOO IF YOU GIVE IT A TRY "

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I AM really very angry and hurt that moment that I don't think clearly at all. Otherwise i would take a ss first, however without giving him any ans i report his account and block him .

​

Now the calculation about this situation and my conclusion .

​

If you notice this sentence, you will understand here how he tried to gaslight me with those few lines , like my "no " doesn't matter, and his violation reframed as my "awakening " right? Like "\*\*MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT " it is a simple way to show the seed of doubt in your mind and that's why I said this kink community people are Great manipulators, those who don't think deeply they fall for them and become a easy target, because this "Self doubt" start from here .

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******Some important line from me : -

​

1. consensual kink is valid , it is twisted by the line "kink is universal" they try to promote this .

​

​

2. as I said "NO " IN PUBLIC, HE RUN INTO MY DM TO CHAGE ME PRIVATELY, BECAUSE SOMEHOW I HIT HIS NERVE , HIS SO CALLED SCRIPT NOT WORK ON ME AND MAYBE THAT GIVE HIM NIGHTMARE

​

3. remember ladies, a Dm like this is not about sex at all , it about test your boundaries they want to check how far they can push you before you give in like others . And we are here to break them not us .

​

4. "YOU JUST DON'T KNOW YET " IF ANYONE SAID YOU THIS MAKE IT CLEAR FOR THEM THAT "MY NO IS EXACTLY WHAT I STAND FOR , MY BOUNDARIES ARE CLEAR and not for discussion"

​

In the end I want to say be safe and sound never let them win . Share this post everywhere as much as you can , remember knowledge is power and they fear that .

Umm so i speak openly about anti kink and anti bdsm . Oh one point my English is not "elite " , I use simple language but I think deeply and study about these topics, and I say what i mean .

​

Now come to the main story it's short but I wanna share anyways, so one day I talk against this kink community in a sub and that very night a creep slide into my dm , arrogant and confident too , his exact line was :- " YOU ARE NOT ANTI KINK YOU JUST DONT KNOW YET , IF YOU GET SLAP IN Your FACE BY A PROFESSIONAL DOM , you will START TO LOVE IT . MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT AND you WILL TOO IF YOU GIVE IT A TRY "

​

​

I AM really very angry and hurt that moment that I don't think clearly at all. Otherwise i would take a ss first, however without giving him any ans i report his account and block him .

​

Now the calculation about this situation and my conclusion.

​

If you notice this sentence, you will understand here how he tried to gaslight me with those few lines , like my "no " doesn't matter, and his violation reframed as my "awakening " right? Like "MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT " it is a simple way to show the seed of doubt in your mind and that's why I said this kink community people are Great manipulators, those who don't think deeply they fall for them and become a easy target, because this "Self doubt" start from here .

​

\*\*Some important message from me :-

​

1. consensual kink is valid , it is twisted by the line "kink is universal" they try to promote this .\*\*

​

​

2. as I said "NO " IN PUBLIC, HE RUN INTO MY DM TO CHAGE ME PRIVATELY, BECAUSE SOMEHOW I HIT HIS NERVE , HIS SO CALLED SCRIPT NOT WORK ON ME AND MAYBE THAT GIVE HIM NIGHTMARE.

​

​

3. remember ladies, a Dm like this is not about sex at all , it about test your boundaries they want to check how far they can push you before you give in like others . And we are here to break them not us .

​

​

​

4. "YOU JUST DON'T KNOW YET " IF ANYONE SAID YOU THIS MAKE IT CLEAR FOR THEM THAT "MY NO IS EXACTLY WHAT I STAND FOR , MY BOUNDARIES ARE CLEAR and not for discussion"

​

​

In the end I want to say be safe and sound never let them win . Share this post everywhere as much as you can , remember knowledge is power and they fear that .

Umm so i speak openly about anti kink and anti bdsm . Oh one point my English is not "elite " , I use simple language but I think deeply and study about these topics, and I say what i mean .

​

Now come to the main story it's short but I wanna share anyways, so one day I talk against this link community in a sub and that very night a creep slide into my dm , arrogant and confident too , his exact line was :- " YOU ARE NOT ANTI KINK YOU JUST DONT KNOW YET , IF YOU GET SLAP IN Your FACE BY A PROFESSIONAL DOM , you will START TO LOVE IT . MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT AND you WILL TOO IF YOU GIVE IT A TRY "

I AM really very angry and hurt that moment that I don't think clearly at all. Otherwise i would take a ss first, however without giving him any ans i report his account and block him .

​

Now the calculation about this situation and my conclusion.

​

If you notice this sentence, you will understand here how he tried to gaslight me with those few lines , like my "no " doesn't matter, and his violation reframed as my "awakening " right? Like "MOST OF THEM FALL FOR IT " it is a simple way to show the seed of doubt in your mind and that's why I said this kink community people are Great manipulators, those who don't think deeply they fall for them and become a easy target, because this "Self doubt" start from here .

Some important line from me : -

​

1) consensual kink is valid , it is twisted by the line "kink is universal" they try to promote this .

​

2) as I said "NO " IN PUBLIC, HE RUN INTO MY DM TO CHAGE ME PRIVATELY, BECAUSE SOMEHOW I HIT HIS NERVE , HIS SO CALLED SCRIPT NOT WORK ON ME AND MAYBE THAT GIVE HIM NIGHTMARE.

​

3) remember ladies, a Dm like this is not about sex at all , it about test your boundaries they want to check how far they can push you before you give in like others . And we are here to break them not us .

​

4) "YOU JUST DON'T KNOW YET " IF ANYONE SAID YOU THIS MAKE IT CLEAR FOR THEM THAT "MY NO IS EXACTLY WHAT I STAND FOR , MY BOUNDARIES ARE CLEAR and not for discussion"

​

In the end I want to say be safe and sound never let them win . Share this post everywhere as much as you can , remember knowledge is power and they fear that .

​

**So I don't know how to explain it but i noticed for a long time and I see the pattern now , let's face it :-**

**"A GOOD MAN ACTUALLY A ORDINARY WOMAN" yes i said what i said. Now think carefully will you ? A good man a real gentleman, who ? A man who doesn't smoke , a man who doesn't drink or cheat , a man who doesn't hurt their "girl " , who took care of children and the wife and who knows how to cook and clean , maybe only for one day even , who provides for family and who have a job , isn't it funny a average women do this all still they never treat as something so precious 💞. But whenever a man does this all they become the headline and somehow everyone starts to praise him as if he does something unimaginable.**

**Funny ? Isn't it ? That the bar for men is too low and for women too high that cross the sky , now think about it let it sink in your mind and bone .**

So I don't know how to explain it but i noticed for a long time and I see the pattern now , let's face it :-

"A GOOD MAN ACTUALLY A ORDINARY WOMAN" yes i said what i said. Now think carefully will you ? A good man a real gentleman, who ? A man who doesn't smoke , a man who doesn't drink or cheat , a man who doesn't hurt their "girl " , who took care of children and the wife and who knows how to cook and clean , maybe only for one day even , who provides for family and who have a job , isn't it funny a average women do this all still they never treat as something so precious 💞. But whenever a man does this all they become the headline and somehow everyone starts to praise him as if he does something unimaginable.

Funny ? Isn't it ? That the bar for men is too low and for women too high that cross the sky , now think about it let it sink in your mind and bone .