The horrendous stuff she did went undetected for years. We thought she was a happy nice nerdy person. I was one of her targets and I want to know if anyone thinks this will escalate lol. I took the normal precautions and cut her off.
Somehow she tricked an entire group of people, but I was her main target for some reason. It became a very scary experience. I’m new to these charts but a friend suggested I post it. Does it say anything about this stalker? She claims she’s straight but she even considered me a past lover. We didn’t do anything!
It’s been a few years now. He looks good and I’m still attracted to him. Unfortunately he has completely withdrawn himself, uses questionable substances, has gone to extreme lengths to lose weight, and I think it’s just destroying him mentally.
He is insanely strong and everyone talks about his muscles. He carries weight around his middle and I think it’s part of his autoimmune problem.
He thinks he looks like a disgusting dad for our kids and he goes through extreme lows. Nothing I’ve done or said to support him has changed anything. What’s the next step because I can understand from an outside perspective. I just don’t know what else we can do. He hasn’t been comfortable in years. He doesn’t see how it affects the entire family
I just went through the most confusing friendship betrayal. My mom’s response to the friendship betrayal was to remind me that my husband cheated during psychosis brought on by a car accident. (Completely unrelated). I don’t know if I’m just depressed or undiagnosed autistic….
I’ve been told they try to hurt me for possibly many reasons,
“bad at trusting people” but it took almost 20 years to see my best friend has secretly hated me since the beginning.
“tall poppy syndrome.” But I don’t feel I have anything greater other than confidence in myself.
“They can sense something is different about you or your relationships.” So they feel they can wedge their way into my business to understand more, help, or destroy
“People just aren’t happy for others.”
A few more reasons. Idk but I’m really tired of it please God I think I’ve learned my lesson
I go to a therapist on Monday because what the actual f*ck.
Our friend group thought this woman was a little mentally challenged but a very nice person, since we were in our teens. This woman was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and we accepted the mirroring. She disregarded major boundaries and caused some issues. It gets so much darker. She also has a masters degree in psychology and used that knowledge to secretly manipulate others. She hasn’t been able to physically hold it together for the last few years. She has been doing everything in her power to calm her body and it’s not working. It gets so dark that I don’t even want to really talk about the scary sh*t she has done. I think she was projecting when she repeatedly claimed *he (a person we know)* is going to kill us. Besides a restraining order, what else should I do? She made all these insane claims about horrific things that have happened to her. Now I’m wondering if those are some things she wanted to do to us. It’s such a mind fuck because of the constant love bombing. What the actual f*ck?
For the first time in our lives, my family and I are afraid for my husband.
My husband has shut down for the last 3 months. He’s not even 1/15 of his former self. He refuses to admit something is wrong but has agreed to go to a psychologist. None of them have been answering my calls and emails! Each day that goes by I feel like the bomb is getting closer to exploding.
On top of all the creepy behavior, his favorite relatives died. Now it’s even scarier because he’s 100% in his own world. He can fake happiness in public which is scary, but comes home and is completely dead inside and mean to us if we try to talk about anything other than his approved topics.
I’m scared he might end it all.