The right shifting mindset
What really ticks me off is the fact that people on shiftok, shiftblr and even this subreddit provide misinformation. Some say "just pretend you're a master shifter already!!" And then some people say "don't, let the universe decide if you're gonna shift or not", then some people say "fake it till you make it!!" etc.
What's truly the right mindset? It's really confusing.