CMV: Advice like “the internet is not real life” and sayings similar to it are increasingly becoming outdated if not already are.

Obviously it was true in the past, and people should spend manage their time online, but with how interconnected everyone has been with mobile devices, and the streamlining and centralization of the modern internet due to social media, it’s not as effective to say things like that anymore to try and comfort or help others.

Look at how terms like “chud” and “-maxxing” suffixes are used everywhere online now by people who dont even know where said words came from.

Im in college and I’ve straight up heard people in my life, strangers and friends use this type of terminology casually, and these arent shut-ins, theyre regular people who have social lives.

This isn’t the 2000s anymore where the internet was left in the computer lab or home office. We have a computer in our pocket that we interact with daily, and you’re telling me that it doesn’t impact the outside world and how people act in it now? Especially after the pandemic?

Saying this advice is not helpful, it’s an empty platitude that’s boils down to “go away, i dont care about your argument or worries.” We need to accept that people are massively online now and that bleeds heavily into the real world, and work from there instead of denying it.

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u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 11 days ago
▲ 278 r/EnergonUniverse+1 crossposts

Tribute Art

I wanted to make some tribute art for Peter Cullen using skybound optimus, as that incarnation made me fully fall in love with the character as a whole. I read his lines with Peter‘s voice to this day.

Thank you for inspiring and impacting so many people positively, we’ll miss you.

u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 2 months ago

Finished Season 2 and wow

This show feels so different now, not only was this more focused than the first season but the ending has me wondering how the hell things can go back to “normal” if even possible, cannot wait to start season 3

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u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 2 months ago

Anyone able to attend the EU panel at SDCC today?

If you’re there, please tell us what is going on when it starts since i see no live streams and tweets will probably take a while to be posted

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u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 3 months ago

Started Smallville today

I know the ending but I still want to see this whole thing through. i was born 4 years after it debuted but damn if i was around to see this start I know I would have loved it, i already feel the vibes

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u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 4 months ago
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being a virgin at 21 is annoying

this isnt some life shattering, existential nightmare to me realistically but it is annoying. I focus on work, taking care of myself both in terms of the gym and hygiene, i attend clubs, and i have friendships with women who i didnt approach to gain any sort of relationship/sex out of. I just want to feel desirable, and make a woman feel the same as well.

Im not some religious man who is waiting to lose it in marriage, I’m not a guy who parties too hard or is a total bore (hopefully), but I feel like theres either something missing in me that makes me a non option for being seen as a good choice or im just doing something wrong that im too clueless or stupid to recognize.

Maybe im too skinny or too short, i dont know. I dont hate anyone because Ive never been in a relationship/had sex but it does make me look at myself harshly.

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u/DeerAccomplished5114 — 5 months ago