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Not rated?

I've always excluded not-rated from my search criteria, as I'm a little fiend out here for M and E content. Recently a friend recommend an unrated fic and it was right up my alley!

Can anyone tell me, what kind of rating is "not rated"? Why do people use it?

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u/Demiaria — 6 days ago
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Dealing with massive libido change

I've recently had a huge change from having low libido for a few years to high libido, and at this point it's genuinely causing issues in my life. I get distracted constantly, prefer to 'stay home' than go out and do activities, and my poor partner is totally drained. Is this something I can expect to calm down? Will it get better if I ignore it, or if I indulge it? At this point should I seek medical help!?

Also, has anyone else on here gone through this kind of sudden change before? It's really confusing!

It was recommended I to try posting here for advice, apologies if it's the wrong sub!

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u/Demiaria — 8 days ago

Are American's really so confused by the phrase "to fall pregnant"?

I recently saw a post of a British woman talking about her journey over the last few years, and she said something along the lines of “and then I fell pregnant!” The comments were absolutely dominated by Americans who seemed confused by, or even hostile to, the phrase. I'm Australian, and it's a common expression here. Is it really such an odd phrase to so many Americans?!

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago

Child having a different surname from parents - likely to create legal issues?

My partner and I each kept our surnames after marriage (wasn't worth the paperwork in our mind, and ahven't had any problems). We're expecting now, and intended to give our child a hyphenated surname which both our names. For example, if I'm Jane Doe and my husband is John Smith, our child would be Jack Doe-Smith.

Is it likely to present any legal issues going forward that we would have different names from our child?

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago

Issues around children having a different surname from their parents?

Hello,

My partner and I each kept our surnames after marriage (wasn't worth the paperwork in our mind, and ahven't had any problems). We're expecting now, and intended to give our child a hyphenated surname which both our names. For example, if I'm Jane Doe and my husband is John Smith, our child would be Jack Doe-Smith.

Is it likely to present any legal issues going forward that we would have different names from our child?

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago

Help name us!

My partner and I are getting married in eight months(yay!). We're leaning towards hyphenating, but can't work out the order. Neither of us particularly care which name goes first, but we also can't work out which one sounds more natural.

Option one: McQueen-Curtain

Option two: Curtain-McQueen

Rogue third option: Neither of us change our last name, but instead hyphenate our kid's name. Thoughts on this one?

Thank you all!

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago
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Help name us!

My partner and I are getting married in eight months (yay!). We're leaning towards hyphenating, but can't work out the order. Neither of us particularly care which name goes first, but we also can't work out which one sounds more natural.

Option one: McQueen-Curtain

Option two: Curtain-McQueen

Rogue third option: Neither of us change our last name, but instead hyphenate our kid's name. Thoughts on this one?

Thank you all!

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago

Help us pick a last name!

Hi all, apologies if this is the wrong subreddit.

My partner and I are getting married (yay!). We're leaning towards hyphenating, but can't work out the order. Neither of us particularly care which name goes first, but we also can't work out which one sounds more natural.

Option one: McQueen-Curtain

Option two: Curtain-McQueen

Rogue third option: Neither of us change our last name, but instead hyphenate our kid's name. Thoughts on this one?

Thank you all!

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u/Demiaria — 12 days ago

My husband (consenually) urinated inside me during sex - is it dangerous?

Probably should've checked before, but we got carried away. Is it ill-advised to urinate inside the vagina and proceed to have sex?

EDIT: Thanks all for the feedback! Take away points:

Urine is NOT sterile (I already knew this, hence my concern, but glad so many of you could learn this today!).

Many men were able to learn that you absolutely CAN urinate with an erection.

Flush after your watersports and keep an eye out for UTIs/BV.

Safer with anal!

People kink-shame a LOT on this sub!

Also, for the many people asking, no, the body-temp of urine is not warmer than that of semen, or that of my body for that matter! It doesn't feel hot.

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u/Demiaria — 2 months ago