I’m 40 (m) in April, and I miss my fucking mom

As the title says.
She’s been dead for over 3 years. I’m pretty sure I’m over it but sometimes I think about her and cry.
Obviously at this stage I can’t be upset and say it to people.
You have to be seen to move on.
I do wonder if my 9 year old boy remembers her.
I don’t want to ask him because it’s just sharing my pain. I hope he doesn’t.

EDIT: oh god a bit embarrassed now. I just typed it to feel I was saying it out loud.
You’re all so nice in the comments.
You are all a really nice bunch of people.
You all shouldn’t have commented on a mad man rambling but it is very much appreciated. Sláinte mo chara

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u/Detozi — 2 days ago
▲ 87 r/Cosmere

My boy is into it!

I’ve recently started reading the Mistborn books to my 9 year old boy in the off chance hopes he might get interested (he has dyspraxia, he’ll never be able to write like most of us, the spelling though lol).
He brought home the attached from school and I just seen it.
Seemingly he loves ‘miss born’.
I’m going to have so much fun theorising the Cosmere with him!
Oh god I will have to read every book with him lol.

u/Detozi — 9 days ago
▲ 60 r/ArmeniansGlobal+3 crossposts

Why is ireland/irish people so vocal on palestine, while thier government doesn't even recognize the armenian genocide?

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u/Detozi — 3 days ago

39 (m) Ireland. Ask away for the laugh.

Will probably get no takers but anyway.
I’m 39 and Irish living in Ireland.
Married with 4 kids (3 step kids, 1 my own).
Quantity surveyor by job and I would say I am happy. Ask away.

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u/Detozi — 9 days ago
▲ 97 r/Cosmere

Isles of the Emberdark. Just finished it and finally caught back up. What’s everyone’s feeling on it? Think it might be in my top 3.

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u/Detozi — 17 days ago

Quick one for you all (and hopefully not derisive) but I want to go back and rewatch a season. Which in your opinion was the best?

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u/Detozi — 18 days ago

Advice for what to expect for my son?

Hi.
My 9 year old son has been diagnosed with dyspraxia.
He writes at the level of a 4 year old and has never improved.
He struggles with a lot of things with his hands and balance.
I suppose I am just wondering what it’s like as an adult with dyspraxia and what I should be looking out for etc or advice. Any information you can give me really.
He didn’t lick it from a stone so to speak.
I believe I have it too but I grew up in a time where it was seen as laziness and I was essentially forced to adapt. I can write but my hand is like a weird twisted claw when I hold a pen.
He is due to start being aloud use a computer for writing from September.
Thanks.

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u/Detozi — 20 days ago