u/DevelopmentFit232

Requested transfer from Competency Based Education system to Online System Management major to re-enroll, waited about 20 days, advisor put me in Business Administration, 50 or so credits don't apply!

Email was:

"I would like to schedule an appointment or be connected with an academic advisor to discuss my options before re-enrolling.

Specifically, I would like to review:

Whether I should remain in my current BA in Management program or switch to another concentration.

A comparison between my current concentration, Organizational Leadership, and Military History, to determine which option would make the best use for my career.

My remaining transfer credit options through providers such as Study.com. I'm trying to fully rely on these for the rest of the courses and take no courses at SNHU. I want to know if that's possible. "

I emailed my advisor and expressed how this is crazy because I don't want to lose 2 years' worth of study. She didn't have my best interest in mind when she did this. She basically said they don't have Management. I'm not sure how that makes her eligible to make the choice on my behalf. I called and requested a change of advisor and inquired about the"What if" function which was useless in my case. Does this happen often? What should I do to make sure I get the best result?

I recently got back to Syria from Lebanon like a year ago. I have a house here and people love my family, but I lost all of my friends. The country is in ruins. Work is slow. I was briefly engaged (Nikkah) to a girl abroad (2nd wife) and things didn't work. After that I started eating a lot and buying unnecessary things. Now that I don't have rent I feel like spending all the money I make because I never had enough to save before so I'm not used to saving. I'm buying BBQ and Shawarma all the time. snacks and what not. I've been always skinny but I gained about 10 kg recently (still not fat but yk how much I'm eating). I feel like I'm doing this to talk to the shop keepers and make some fake interactions. My job being online mostly and me being an introvert isn't helping me much in making real connections.

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Things didn't work out previously because I didn't want her to travel without Mahram but that's how she came here this time. We never met irl and now she gave me the "let's meet" vibe etc. We called for about half an hour then said she's speaking to someone that's actually a good person etc and she's probably getting married to him but not engaged. Now I feel it's 1 of 2 things. 1 she wants to have Haram relationship or 2 she wants to meet so if it doesn't work with the other guy she got a side piece.

How I feel abour this? I literally feel raped. I don't know how to feel. I really loved this girl so much and tried to make it Halal and decided to cut contact until we can find some way to make it Halal and marry instead of taking long in talking. Temptation is %1000 to just see her because that was on the top of my head for so long now I can't do it because I fear we'd do stupid stuff or I'd be messing with another man's potential.

I have been through tests in my life but I feel like this one is really hard. Pray for me.