▲ 98 r/4tran4

Half the people in the word get to be born your gender and you dont

And most of them are cissoids too. 99% chance you get to not have to think about this shit at all.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 2 days ago
▲ 150 r/4tran4

Why tf is 4t becoming so mainstream lately

I see a posts every day on my feed and all the comments are just about le evil 4tranners. I dont really spend a ton of time online other than here ig is there any actual reason for this.

Got off 4t4 and immediately started getting reccomended post after post by ftms complaining about 4tran women. My fellow doods need to lock tf in.

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u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 6 days ago
▲ 6 r/transmantips+1 crossposts

Body passing in swimsuit?

Still cant make ny hips look narrow but ill keep working on it. This shirt makes my hips look weird but its the only one i have rn.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 10 days ago
▲ 28 r/4tran4

Im in da heckin trenches dood (ww1 poon)

Please let me into artttt ive been waiting for a month. I have st4t to share.

Ik the style is fembrained i dont usually draw like this. Do i handwriting pass do 👀👀

Open to suggestions for other military poons/hons i can draw it better as well. & this was all from memory so it may not be 💯 accurate.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 13 days ago
▲ 16 r/transmantips+1 crossposts

Is my chest flat enough. I dont have a proper binder or tape.

It is still about an inch coming out from my ribcage when i bind. I use folded sports chest compression and a thick undershirt i dont know how well it works.

It would look fine if you couldnt see that i was having bad posture, it looks like a male chest with good posture from the front.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 13 days ago
▲ 1 r/MilSim

How to start and what are some cool militaries to research

Ik theres probably already a ton of posts like this, if so lmk and ill take this down.

Ive never done too much research into milsim but ive been wanting to and i dont really know where to start.

I dont have a great memory so i dont know that much about the different gear you need, or different militaries (I know some military history from around ww1-vietnam, but i dont know much about modern military gear and weapons).

So id like to know basics such as rules, necessary gear or gear recommendations, any militaries i should start researching, or something i can look at like a video that explains these things 👍

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u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 15 days ago
▲ 134 r/4tran4

Maybe in another life

I just want to be a normal man. I would kill to be even close. But ill be stuck as some imitation for the rest of my life, an unlovable stunted hideous imitation that no sane woman could ever truly love. Ill never have close to what other men were born with and ill never be truly happy. Ill never be anyones son or brother even though i couldve been such a great one if i wasnt born like this.

I feel like a pussy whining about it but its just so unfair. Why did i have to be cursed like this. It makes me sick.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 19 days ago
▲ 23 r/4tran4

Time to sleep and have beautiful dreams about my future st4t wife and then wake up alone in the doodcave

Where are all the trans ladies near me i'll treat you right if you can look past my gigaultrapoon shell and see into my soulpassoid heart.

In my area catgirl gamer transbians are still the dominant subtype it seems. I only ever see them.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 22 days ago
▲ 107 r/4tran4

Trans f relative telling me about how a "transmasc" at an event made everyone do a pronoun circle

Sees you and winces

She was saying how cool it was btw. Fighting for my life in this fucking gc bro. No offense to her shes chill.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 22 days ago

(Trans male) Is there any way to stop hip growth without hrt

I wont go into it too much for privacy, but i cant be on t for the time being. Im saving up to get out of the situation, but its out of reach for now.

I am very worried about hip growth, my hips are wide enough as is, and if they got any wider it would greatly reduce my chances of ever passing as cis.

I dont think you can diy puberty blockers, but is there any other way to at least slow hip growth for a while?

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u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 23 days ago

Messed up my hair cutting it, any tips on how to fix it/style it to be more masculine

It kind of looks like one of those shag hairstyles which is not what i was going for. I cant change the overall length rn for reasons i wont go into but any tips on how to style it or where to trim would be appreciated.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 25 days ago
▲ 90 r/4tran4

Never ever ever tell anyone youre a 🚄🦵 ever

Made a stupid reference to that "i finna be in the pit" thing and she hit me with the "do you IDENTIFY as black now..??" (Intense stare) "are you going to make everyone respect y..." (trailed off) and hit me with the dry rich lady laugh

TCDTCDTCDTCD

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 26 days ago
▲ 126 r/4tran4

Seeing cismoid relatives is the ultimate ropefuel

Cant even hang out with my own family without wanting to blow my shit smooth off

Doesnt help they all try to be hyper masculine and talk about boobs beer and chicks all the time and dont even invite me fmspl

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 26 days ago
▲ 76 r/4tran4

Doods remember.

Bigger than you = ROIDS

Richer than you = LUCKSHIT

smarter than you = LUCKSHIT AGAIN

Look better = GIGAPASSOID

Never stop the cope. Everyone better than you is a luckshit gigapassoid. all this applies with cissoids as well.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 28 days ago
▲ 45 r/4tran4

Just had the poonfidence beaten out of me

Thought i passed and even thought i looked good, went to the store and got brutally ultra giga mogged by every man there and a few women. I looked like a fucking 12 year old at best if it had giant hips. None of the men there had to worry about their hips or if their chest looked flat or if their facial expression was too feminine or

The cashier was 6 foot and had perfect male genetics fmstl iwnbam.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 28 days ago

Are my clothes too big, and does my body pass in these.

I dont want my clothes to make me look even smaller. The jeans do a good job of making my hips look decent, but they are way too big everywhere but my waist so i need to figure out how to hem them.

Im slightly worried the longer shirt makes my arms look too short.

my chest is small enough i can probably afford to wear smaller shirts but it still makes me pretty dysphoric.

Should i roll up the sleeves or leave them as they are.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 28 days ago

Name opinions (picture is image search of my face)

I didnt want to post an actual picture of my face but these look close enough, although my face is slightly more round/square. At least the image search got that im male right lol.

The names im trying to decide between are Ethan, Nathan, and Andrew. I dont think any are stereotypical or anything, but which one fits best.

Open to suggestions as well but im pretty set on one of these 3.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 28 days ago

How bad are my hips (NO HUGBOXING)

Feels like im getting giga ultra hugboxed rn. My hips are above average even for females, my whr is 0.7, my shr is 1.13 and even measuring just the bone is still 1.21, so significantly above average for cis men and not enough to get an ideal body shape. And thats more my pelvis than my hips. Plus I have a tiny ribcage, so ill probably always have a small waist.

For scale my shoulders are average width for men without working out (~17 inch bidelt) and my hips still make them look incredibly narrow. And im very short, so any feminine characteristic makes me look 10x more female than it would on a average height man.

My hips are about 1 inch narrower than my shoulders on either side, which i guess i should be grateful for considering a lot of guys have it worse, but its hard to believe ill ever be able to look even close to a normal male without a lot of working out, which is hard for me.

most of this is bone, not fat.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 29 days ago

What injuries could I fake to explain buying kt tape

I really need to get tape, ive been feeling extremely dysphoric and i have breathing issues from over binding so i cant bind often. My chest is small ish so it would work well i think. Ive tried with duct tape which i know you shouldnt do but it worked very well on me.

I still live with my family, so i cant buy trans tape or a binder for safety, but i was thinking maybe i could fake some injury to explain having kt tape if anyone saw. Im not very active rn but i plan to start working out, so whats a common injury from that you can use kt tape for

Or even any reccomendations for hobbies i could pick up where something like that would be likely (im broke though so nothing expensive)

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u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 30 days ago

Does my body have cis passing potential with gym

Pre everything, but i plan to get on t as soon as possible. I cant get a binder for now either, but thankfully my chest isnt too large, and i plan to get tape soon.

u/Difficult-Tomato930 — 1 month ago