u/Disastrous_Badger371

just curious how this is viewed.

Kta sanga vet vayo, we become enemies to friends. Tespaxi feelings grow. boom both confess but red flags aauna thalyo. Apology ko satta explanation, no consideration of my emotions, will disappear for DAYS during sem breaks and will come back with perfect excuses, raati ko 8-9 baje dekhi disappears and says he had work. Mero side bata feelings reciprocate vayepaxi, i feel like ive been taken for granted... distance rakhiraxu aile and ma detach vaisake puraii...but everytime he comes back tyo soft corner and care hatauna sakeko xuina...If he asks me out, ik the relationship will turn bitter in no time. Tara ma puraii tadha vayepaxi or puraii drianed vayepaxi matra he acts like he cares SO SO MUCH... but it'd already be too late.

jaile chatpate ra chauchau ani baira ko khayera wakka vaisake. Recommend me some good khaja choice.

 i have been in a talking stage with this guy for three months now. Before that, we had been friends for awhile. When we hung out before, he randomly mentioned to me about this "sister" who he said was a family friend. Nothing seemed crazyy but after a while she had sent me a follow request on ig. I thought it would be right to ask him since it's his "sister". OH BOI did i know she would completely crash out. She dmed me completely losing it. I found it very strange.
Few days later, he explained to me that she had feelings for him but he only saw her as his sister. Things only escalated after this event. I came to know he was taking care of her college fees, her personal expenses like skincare and shit. She got admitted to the same clg we are studying in and he had paid for her laptop and semester fees(2lakhs plus). They went to search for hostel for her but she didnt like any and ended up at his rented place... I had came close him at this point in time, and we were talking almost daily. But one random day i got to know all of this bs and that she had tried to harm herself when she found out he was talking to me. Imp thing to know here is she is like a family member at his house and I've seen that closely. But he cant talk to girls or have female friends...which was SOSOSO crazy to me.
I told him as long as you maintain a boundary, im okay with them since he was taking care of her financially because of her parents and his parents things which is a long story. BUT BUT BUT no boundary was maintained.
He had assured me multiple times and gave me a reason to understand him but i found myself in a very weird spot. He wouldnt text me when he was with her and even if he did, he would delete all our texts, He proudly admitted our bond infront of everyone, but her. He hid things and told her we were nothing.
He had promised her that he wont see anyone until she becomes financially independent and is able to take care of her own self. Few days back when i was talking to him and asked him if we should end our thing here, he mentioned that girl wanted to have a chat with me. I was like okayy I haven't done anything wrong and this is the third time she had asked to have a chat with me. She asked me what was there to end. I told her that I wouldnt be answering her because who tf is she to ask me...
Then i questioned their relationship and she told me that he was committed to her and even tho they are not in a relationship rn, they have plan to future to "try" with eachother.. EVERYONEE has been telling me that this is false and she just said this to take me away from him but IM DONE. .. He didnt text me afterwards.. My feelings were hurt not by her words but by his silence till date. His friends told me he has been going through some personal things but im not taking any explanation now.
He has asked me to meet him and talk one on one. After I met him to end things, he had an explanation for everything. We talked it out but i still felt heavy inside as if nothing was sorted out. When I got home, he texted me from his "another" phone because she had his phones for some reason. I became understanding of that too Then, he started disappearing after 8pm and texted me directly the next day with some excuse. The thing is he has explanation for everything and perfect excuse of things. I cant help but believe that they're lies. Im confused, exhausted and completely drained by this whole situation.

It all started out at a party where he was crazy drunk at our friends brother's wedding party and my friend took care of this guy. At that time, he had already broken up with his gf of 2 years. And since we have the same circle, we started hanging out with bunch of our friends quite often. These two people caught feelings for each other which was quite obvious. He even told her he loved her. I think after two months passed, things between them escalated from kissing to hooking up with each other. She lost her V card to him.
The problem is he was in a LDR all along and had patched things up with his gf of 2 years.... I lashed out at him because ofc it's my best friend and he said he didn't owe me an explanation and would explain things to only my bestie.... His relationship with his gf is on and off. But he is telling my friend he loves her and cant let her go. He clearly mentioned he has a gf to her and that he only wants to be friends withe benefits but my friend is not letting go either. This is cheating clearly. I have confronted them multiple times but neither of them are doing anything. How do I break her delusions and clock both of their bs?

It all started out at a party where he was crazy drunk at our friends brother's wedding party and my friend took care of this guy. At that time, he had already broken up with his gf of 2 years. And since we have the same circle, we started hanging out with bunch of our friends quite often. These two people caught feelings for each other which was quite obvious. He even told her he loved her. I think after two months passed, things between them escalated from kissing to hooking up with each other. She lost her V card to him.
The problem is he was in a LDR all along and had patched things up with his gf of 2 years.... I lashed out at him because ofc it's my best friend and he said he didn't owe me an explanation and would explain things to only my bestie.... His relationship with his gf is on and off. But he is telling my friend he loves her and cant let her go. He clearly mentioned he has a gf to her and that he only wants to be friends withe benefits but my friend is not letting go either. This is cheating clearly. I have confronted them multiple times but neither of them are doing anything. How do I break her delusions and clock both of their bs?

first year sakkisakyo and coding ko c pani aaudaina..esto cooked state bata comeback kasari garne.. ?

So, i have been in a talking stage with this guy for three months now. Before that, we had been friends for awhile. When we hung out before, he randomly mentioned to me about this "sister" who he said was a family friend. Nothing seemed crazyy but after a while she had sent me a follow request on ig. I thought it would be right to ask him since it's his "sister". OH BOI did i know she would completely crash out. She dmed me completely losing it. I found it very strange. Few days later, he explained to me that she had feelings for him but he only saw her as his sister. Things only escalated after this event. I came to know he was taking care of her college fees, her personal expenses like skincare and shit. She got admitted to the same clg we are studying in and he had paid for her laptop and semester fees(2lakhs plus). They went to search for hostel for her but she didnt like any and ended up at his rented place... I had came close him at this point in time, and we were talking almost daily. But one random day i got to know all of this bs and that she had tried to harm herself when she found out he was talking to me. Imp thing to know here is she is like a family member at his house and I've seen that closely. But he cant talk to girls or have female friends...which was SOSOSO crazy to me. I told him as long as you maintain a boundary, im okay with them since he was taking care of her financially because of her parents and his parents things which is a long story. BUT BUT BUT no boundary was maintained. He had asssured me multiple times and gave me a reason to understand him but i found myself in a very weird spot. He wouldnt text me when he was with her and even if he did, he would delete all our texts, He proudly admitted our bond infront of everyone, but her. He hid things and told her we were nothing. He had promised her that he wont see anyone until she becomes financially independent and is able to take care of her own self. Few days back when i was talking to him and asked him if we should end our thing here, he mentioned that girl wanted to have a chat with me. I was like okayy I haven't done anything wrong and this is the third time she had asked to have a chat with me. She asked me what was there to end💀💀. I told her that I wouldnt be answering her because who tf is she to ask me... Then i questioned their relationship and she told me that he was committed to her and even tho they are not in a relationship rn, they have plan to future to "try" with eachother.. EVERYONEE has been telling me that this is false and she just said this to take me away from him but IM DONE. .. He didnt text me afterwards.. My feelings were hurt not by her words but by his silence till date. His friends told me he has been going through some personal things but im not taking any explanation now. He has asked me to meet him and talk one on one but it hurts my pride just thinking about it. I feel like I have to compromise my self respect if I go to meet him after all this months of drama. Am I being selfish or immature by not ending things properly? Was it okay that I was put into a spot like that?