u/Dizzy_Quiet

My friend went to Tijuana - and she had a good experience. I'm just worried because Tijuana has a bad/dangerous reputation! Has anyone been brave enough to get plastic surgery in Tijuana Mexico? Any feedback or advice?

Getting married in October in Las Vegas - Nelson Ghost town. Chapel has a dusty floor. I'm 5'4" 130# - 48 year old female, 2nd marriage. 20 guests.

I just want a simple white dress - nothing crazy! Would it be weird if I just get a white bridesmaid dress from Azazie?

I've been away from my old job and away from my old boss (the Chief Nitpick Officer) over a year now.

Here is what I'm learning.

I believe that I paid tuition for a skillset that many people never develop.

It is a skillset I am still working on - but I am finding my internal anchor. My anchor that realizes that I set the pace. That I decide how fast and in what direction a conversation moves. That I can use strategic questioning for tempo control.

Best questions to use to control tempo with a bully:

- Can you clarify what you mean by that?

- What specifically are you referring to?

- Can you help me understand where that feedback is coming from?

- Can you walk me through how you came to that conclusion?

The goal is to slow the tempo, create clarity, regain control.

And my final takeaway?

She can still go f* herself.