Looking to see if anyone has any resources about bdsm/sex and neurodivergence. Both me and my partner are AuDHD and I’m curious if there’s ways we can elevate sexual experiences by working with our disabilities.
I’m looking for articles or research preferably.
Idk if there’s anything out there for this issue but I figured if it’s anywhere it’s here haha. I’m (21nb) getting top surgery in the future (I’m on the list but no date set yet), chest dysphoria is one of my biggest issues and constant struggles. I used to be a binder-only person but I have a long standing chest cold turned smokers cough and the tightness is not something I want right now. (Im working on it). I’m also a trans tape vet but my skin reacts to the adhesive and I get rashes so I save it for special occasions only.
My big problem rn is that I’m having consistent sensory discomfort whenever something is thick and around my chest; I.e. sports bra. Thank you autism! The summer heat and sweatiness makes it way way worse too. Whenever I’m home or able I wear baggy clothes so I can go bra-less and it’s not noticeable. However I still have to wear a bra or smth when I’m out and about bc while my boobs aren’t huge they’re definitely large enough to be noticeable.
I’m wondering if anyone knows of any solutions to this type of thing? I’m considering wearing a unpadded bikini top lol
New baby! She is so extremely tiny. She doesn’t have a name yet (if anyone has any ideas feel free) we’re thinking something cheese related but time will tell.
Her markings are like nothing I’ve ever seen before!
Hi I’m nonbinary (21) and getting top surgery!! I haven’t gotten a date yet but I’m signed up with a local clinic and all my paperwork has been sent though. I’m just waiting for an appointment :) I live in Canada as well so the fee isn’t insane.
I was wondering if there are any kinds of resources or hacks that anyone can give me!! I’m looking for anything and everything that I can do to make the experience more accessible and euphoric! I’m lucky enough to have a partner who’s going to help take care of me and we’re planning on ways to make the healing process smoother. We’re going to meal prep and buy a bidet before hand but that’s kind of as far as we’ve gotten!
I dont know anyone irl who’s gotten top surgery that I can reach out to for advice or what to expect, so hopefully you all can help me out!
My little man!!! He is no longer w us but he’s too cute not to share
My knifefish has been with me now for a few months and I’m looking for name ideas!! Pretty sure he’s a male but idc. I love the little crescent shape on his head.
My darling Dangerous Beans! She is no longer with us but her cuteness is worth sharing
This is Brimstone!!
She has an evil spirit and menacing disposition. I love her very much.
She’s around 8 years old, we’ve had her for most of her life and she’s been perfectly healthy the whole time. (Unlike her bunwife*). She is blind, which we believe contributes to her defensiveness. She loves apples, mint and being left alone. She’s a lion head mix, and requires semi frequent haircuts.
* Bunwife Penny was her wonderful companion and very good bunny. She was the smartest animal I’ve ever had the pleasure of owning and that’s a long list. Carrying Brimstone through the grief of loosing her wife was very sad but I’m happy to say with time she has bounced back.
She and Penny raised my car Ollie, giving her(cat) a strange complex. Brimstone has never been very tolerant of Ollie, but they’ve grown closer since Penny died.
This is Brimstone!!
She has an evil spirit and menacing disposition. I love her very much.
She’s around 8 years old, we’ve had her for most of her life and she’s been perfectly healthy the whole time. (Unlike her bunwife*). She is blind, which we believe contributes to her defensiveness. She loves apples, mint and being left alone. She’s a lion head mix, and requires semi frequent haircuts.
* Bunwife Penny was her wonderful companion and very good bunny. She was the smartest animal I’ve ever had the pleasure of owning and that’s a long list. Carrying Brimstone through the grief of loosing her wife was very sad but I’m happy to say with time she has bounced back.
She and Penny raised my car Ollie, giving her(cat) a strange complex. Brimstone has never been very tolerant of Ollie, but they’ve grown closer since Penny died.