u/Dr_scalpels

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28M | 🩺 Autopsy Surgeon in Andhra Pradesh ,looking for the Sherlock to my Watson . 🔪

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About me

The Profession: Yes, my day job looks like an episode of CSI. As a forensic doctor, my work is intense, clinical, and completely fascinating. Bonus: If you are a fan of crime, mystery, or horror stories, I have an endless supply of real-life-inspired tales to share that will easily outdo any Netflix thriller.

The Vibe: Because my professional life deals with the serious stuff, I make sure my personal life is the exact opposite: entirely chill, drama-free, and laid-back. When I'm not unraveling medical mysteries, you’ll find me unwinding with a massive anime marathon or binge-watching a new series.

Appearance & Lifestyle: I’m 5'8" and fair-complexioned. While I spend my days in scrubs, I clean up exceptionally well—I look and dress decent enough for a doctor when I'm off the clock.

Background & Finances: I’m a Telugu guy earning a stable living (~1L/pm) based out of Andhra.

Family Values: I’m a strong believer in family and want to live with either one set of parents post-marriage to keep that warmth and connection alive. ✨

Partner Requirements & Preferences

Age: Looking for someone aged 25–30.

Caste: Absolutely no barriers. I don't bother about caste at all; compatibility and mindset matter way more.

Personality: I’m looking for an open-minded, partner who is ready to build a grounded, happy life together.

Location:- Andhra Pradesh or Telangana

Let's Connect: If you want a guy who can give you the best TV recommendations, share late-night spooky stories, and balances a unique career with a totally easygoing lifestyle, drop a DM!

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u/Dr_scalpels — 3 days ago

Are there any crypto usdt seller in Vijayawada

As the title says if anyone knows usdt sellers in Vijayawada please let me know or in guntur ..

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u/Dr_scalpels — 12 days ago

Doctor with a 9-4 Life – Seeking a Non-Medical child free Partner 27M4F

I’m a 27-year-old doctor based in South India. While my day job involves "cutting people up" , I’ve managed to secure a lifestyle that bucks the doctor stereotype—I work a fixed 9 AM to 4 PM shift with weekends and public holidays off.

I’m 5'8", fit, a non-smoker, and an occasional social drinker. I value stability, dry humor, and a life that isn't centered around a hospital ward. I’m financially independent (earning 1L approximately) and ready to build something serious and long-term.

What I’m Looking For

I am specifically looking for a CHILS FREE partner outside the medical profession. I’d love to come home to a different perspective on the world—whether you’re in tech, design, law, or any other field.

Age: 26 – 30 years.

Vibe: Genuine, low-drama, and intentional about marriage.

Caste/Community: caste is not a bar for me. I value the person over the label.

Location: southern india

If you’re looking for someone who has the dedication of a doctor but the schedule of a normal human being, let’s talk.

EDIT:-

Open to living with either one set of parents after marriage.

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u/Dr_scalpels — 13 days ago

I’m a 28-year-old doctor based in South India. While my day job involves "cutting people up" , I’ve managed to secure a lifestyle that bucks the doctor stereotype—I work a fixed 9 AM to 4 PM shift with weekends and public holidays off.

I’m 5'8", fit, a non-smoker, and an occasional social drinker. I value stability, dry humor, and a life that isn't centered around a hospital ward. I’m financially independent (earning 1L approximately) and ready to build something serious and long-term.

What I’m Looking For

I am specifically looking for a partner outside the medical profession. I’d love to come home to a different perspective on the world—whether you’re in tech, design, law, or any other field.

Age: 26 – 31 years.

Vibe: Genuine, low-drama, and intentional about marriage.

Caste/Community: caste is not a bar for me. I value the person over the label.

Location: India

If you’re looking for someone who has the dedication of a doctor but the schedule of a normal human being, let’s talk.

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u/Dr_scalpels — 22 days ago

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it's honestly exhausting Is anyone else’s family obsessed with the "Doctor x Doctor" pairing?

I’m 28M, currently a doctor (obviously, or I wouldn't be in this mess), and the pressure from my mother right now is insane. We just had a "discussion"—if you can even call it that—where she basically laid out the blueprint for my entire life.

According to her, the goal is:

I marry a doctor.

We make our kids doctors.

They marry doctors.

The grandkids become doctors.

It’s like she’s trying to play The Sims: Medical Edition. When I told her I have zero interest in marrying another doctor, she looked at me like I’d just renounced my citizenship. Their whole argument is that "only another doctor will understand the lifestyle."

Like... I spend 6-8 hours a day in the hospital. The last thing I want to do is come home and talk about rounds, patient outcomes, or NMC guidelines over dinner. I want a sanctuary, not a second shift. I want to talk about literally anything else.

But then there’s the flip side: dating outside medicine is a ghost town. Every time I match with someone non-medical, as soon as the "what do you do" question comes up, I feel the vibe shift. People assume I’ll never have time for them or that I’m married to the job.

So I’m stuck between parents who want a medical dynasty and a dating pool that thinks I’m a workaholic .

Is society just screwed up or am I the problem here? Anyone else managed to break the cycle without being disowned? 😐lol 😂

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u/Dr_scalpels — 24 days ago

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Hi everyone! I’m a 27-year-old guy currently navigating the intense but rewarding world of a postgrad medical degree at a top-tier college here in South India. I’m at a stage in life where I’m looking for a meaningful friendship that has the potential to grow into a lifelong partnership (marriage).

A Little Bit About Me

The Vibe: I’m naturally a very calm person. Whether the hospital ward is chaotic or life is throwing curveballs, I tend to keep my cool.

The "Yapper": While I’m calm, I’m definitely not quiet! I can talk about almost any topic under the sun. If we hit a subject we both love, I can "yap" non-stop—I’m a big believer in deep, engaging communication.

Height: 5'7" ,

I have a good BMI under 25 i maintain a good diet.

Interests & Habits

The Binge-Watcher & Bibliophile: I’m a huge fan of stories in any medium. I love reading novels and watching movies, series, or anime. I don't care about the genre or the language—if the storytelling is good, I’m in.

Lifestyle: I’m a former chronic smoker who successfully quit (proud of that journey!), and I enjoy an occasional drink.

The Journey: Currently focusing on my MD, so I value growth, discipline, and a good sense of humor to balance out the long hours.

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone who is ready to start as friends. I want to know your stories, your favorite anime tropes, or your takes on the world. I value honesty and a shared interest in building a future together.

This is a throw away account please don't judge me based on my karma thank you.

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u/Dr_scalpels — 25 days ago