I might have caught HIV

So I'm 18 years old and I met this guy and he was the sweetest man I've ever met, we talked for a while, we played some games and well, as always (not really proud of that) everything ended up in sex.

He topped, and I did it too, but when I did it the condon broke, three fucking times.

A few minutes later I asked him if he was healthy he said "I'm on treatment for HIV, I've been taking it for over a year" OK I got really scared and nervous when he told me that, I managed to calm myself down because if he is undetectable then he cannot spread it, right?

But now I'm thinking what if he isn't undetectable? I don't know what I'm supposed to do, I'm afraid I might have ruined my whole life. Update: it's sunday, a day after the incident. I texted him and I asked if he please could show me his blood tests and he said "I haven't been tested since that is too expensive, but I promise I've been taking my medicine" oh ok buddy Update: It's been 24 hours, I went to the hospital and as I expected they told me they didn't do that kinda thing today, I have today 'till tomorrow. Also there's something I forgot to mentioned, he put his condon backwards and after that he took it off to put it the right side, there was not semen but there were fluids. Update: I'm freaking out, tomorrow is public holiday and I do know they should keep working, but since I live in Venezuela... Thanks for all your advice and support!

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 5 days ago

Am I overthinking this, or is my friend avoiding hanging out with me?

Hey guys so I met this guys on a camp a year ago, we hung out once after that and it was nice, and that would have been the end of the story, but a few months ago we started chatting very often, so here we are.

We currently have a very long streak on tiktok and he is always worried about keeping it going, also we talk about stuff like our families, friends, studies .He also said he is not really a people person since he gets bored of people, and he only chats with his girlfriend, me, and some friends.

In addition, he also said his girlfriend wanted to meet me, and to be honest I felt special he talks about me to such an special person.

Besides, he has been encouraging me to move to choose a University in his town so we could hang out together. And I want to be clear, he's been doing this A LOT even when our conversation was not even about that, and since that town is already on my option's list it felt only natural to me to say yes.

Btw, a few days ago I sent him a really cute video about how much I appreciate him and he said he was really touched and he really appreciated that kinda of stuff and a few hours later at 2am he asked me "How many people did you send that video to? I want to know how exclusive I have to feel" that little chat felt special, it felt right.

However, this thing is about hanging out, you see I thought something like "He wants to live closer to each other so we could hang out often, but he doesn't even live that far. I don't mind taking a bus sometimes or whatever"

So I texted something stupid like "I'm bored and what I mean by that is that you should invite me over to go to a abandoned building" (That's what we did on our last and only meeting) So he answered saying "Do you wanna take over the world?" And I was like ok so... What was that?

Is he avoiding the question or something? I'm a really insecure person so I was trying my best not to think the worst and I answered "That sounds cool but I'm serious, it's been a year" and he said "F*k, literally" At this point, I was ready for a rejection, something didn't feel quite right. So I said "It's summer, you know" and he texted back "Hmmm" literally just that, I'm probably overthinking but wtf with that answer dude.

That was last night, he answered one of my messages on TikTok (nothing related) but we haven't actually talked since that.

So I really don't know what to do, would it be better when I move? Does he even seem to care? Does he just want me to be his WhatsApp friend or something? Why suggesting me moving to his town and talking about me to his girlfriend?

Also, I'm not quite sure if this matters but he is a straight dude and I'm gay, he has always known I am, a long time ago he told me he didn't mind but at this point I don't know if he thinks I like him or something and that's why things got awkard.

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 3 months ago

Am I overthinking this, or is my friend avoiding hanging out with me?

Hey guys so I met this guys on a camp a year ago, we hung out once after that and it was nice, and that would have been the end of the story, but a few months ago we started chatting very often, so here we are.

We currently have a very long streak on tiktok and he is always worried about keeping it going, also we talk about stuff like our families, friends, studies .He also said he is not really a people person since he gets bored of people, and he only chats with his girlfriend, me, and some friends.

In addition, he also said his girlfriend wanted to meet me, and to be honest I felt special he talks about me to such an special person.

Besides, he has been encouraging me to move to choose a University in his town so we could hang out together. And I want to be clear, he's been doing this A LOT even when our conversation was not even about that, and since that town is already on my option's list it felt only natural to me to say yes.

Btw, a few days ago I sent him a really cute video about how much I appreciate him and he said he was really touched and he really appreciated that kinda of stuff and a few hours later at 2am he asked me "How many people did you send that video to? I want to know how exclusive I have to feel" that little chat felt special, it felt right.

However, this thing is about hanging out, you see I thought something like "He wants to live closer to each other so we could hang out often, but he doesn't even live that far. I don't mind taking a bus sometimes or whatever"

So I texted something stupid like "I'm bored and what I mean by that is that you should invite me over to go to a abandoned building" (That's what we did on our last and only meeting) So he answered saying "Do you wanna take over the world?" And I was like ok so... What was that?

Is he avoiding the question or something? I'm a really insecure person so I was trying my best not to think the worst and I answered "That sounds cool but I'm serious, it's been a year" and he said "F*k, literally" At this point, I was ready for a rejection, something didn't feel quite right. So I said "It's summer, you know" and he texted back "Hmmm" literally just that, I'm probably overthinking but wtf with that answer dude.

That was last night, he answered one of my messages on TikTok (nothing related) but we haven't actually talked since that.

So I really don't know what to do, would it be better when I move? Does he even seem to care? Does he just want me to be his WhatsApp friend or something? Why suggesting me moving to his town and talking about me to his girlfriend?

Also, I'm not quite sure if this matters but he is a straight dude and I'm gay, he has always known I am, a long time ago he told me he didn't mind but at this point I don't know if he thinks I like him or something and that's why things got awkard.

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 3 months ago

Am I overthinking this, or is my friend avoiding hanging out with me?

Hey guys so I met this guys on a camp a year ago, we hung out once after that and it was nice, and that would have been the end of the story, but a few months ago we started chatting very often, so here we are.

We currently have a very long streak on tiktok and he is always worried about keeping it going, also we talk about stuff like our families, friends, studies .He also said he is not really a people person since he gets bored of people, and he only chats with his girlfriend, me, and some friends.

In addition, he also said his girlfriend wanted to meet me, and to be honest I felt special he talks about me to such an special person.

Besides, he has been encouraging me to move to choose a University in his town so we could hang out together. And I want to be clear, he's been doing this A LOT even when our conversation was not even about that, and since that town is already on my option's list it felt only natural to me to say yes.

Btw, a few days ago I sent him a really cute video about how much I appreciate him and he said he was really touched and he really appreciated that kinda of stuff and a few hours later at 2am he asked me "How many people did you send that video to? I want to know how exclusive I have to feel" that little chat felt special, it felt right.

However, this thing is about hanging out, you see I thought something like "He wants to live closer to each other so we could hang out often, but he doesn't even live that far. I don't mind taking a bus sometimes or whatever"

So I texted something stupid like "I'm bored and what I mean by that is that you should invite me over to go to a abandoned building" (That's what we did on our last and only meeting) So he answered saying "Do you wanna take over the world?" And I was like ok so... What was that?

Is he avoiding the question or something? I'm a really insecure person so I was trying my best not to think the worst and I answered "That sounds cool but I'm serious, it's been a year" and he said "F*k, literally" At this point, I was ready for a rejection, something didn't feel quite right. So I said "It's summer, you know" and he texted back "Hmmm" literally just that, I'm probably overthinking but wtf with that answer dude.

That was last night, he answered one of my messages on TikTok (nothing related) but we haven't actually talked since that.

So I really don't know what to do, would it be better when I move? Does he even seem to care? Does he just want me to be his WhatsApp friend or something? Why suggesting me moving to his town and talking about me to his girlfriend?

Also, I'm not quite sure if this matters but he is a straight dude and I'm gay, he has always known I am, a long time ago he told me he didn't mind but at this point I don't know if he thinks I like him or something and that's why things got awkard.

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 3 months ago

Am I overthinking this, or is my friend avoiding hanging out with me?

Hey guys so I met this guys on a camp a year ago, we hung out once after that and it was nice, and that would have been the end of the story, but a few months ago we started chatting very often, so here we are.

We currently have a very long streak on tiktok and he is always worried about keeping it going, also we talk about stuff like our families, friends, studies .He also said he is not really a people person since he gets bored of people, and he only chats with his girlfriend, me, and some friends.

In addition, he also said his girlfriend wanted to meet me, and to be honest I felt special he talks about me to such an special person.

Besides, he has been encouraging me to move to choose a University in his town so we could hang out together. And I want to be clear, he's been doing this A LOT even when our conversation was not even about that, and since that town is already on my option's list it felt only natural to me to say yes.

Btw, a few days ago I sent him a really cute video about how much I appreciate him and he said he was really touched and he really appreciated that kinda of stuff and a few hours later at 2am he asked me "How many people did you send that video to? I want to know how exclusive I have to feel" that little chat felt special, it felt right.

However, this thing is about hanging out, you see I thought something like "He wants to live closer to each other so we could hang out often, but he doesn't even live that far. I don't mind taking a bus sometimes or whatever"

So I texted something stupid like "I'm bored and what I mean by that is that you should invite me over to go to a abandoned building" (That's what we did on our last and only meeting) So he answered saying "Do you wanna take over the world?" And I was like ok so... What was that?

Is he avoiding the question or something? I'm a really insecure person so I was trying my best not to think the worst and I answered "That sounds cool but I'm serious, it's been a year" and he said "F*k, literally" At this point, I was ready for a rejection, something didn't feel quite right. So I said "It's summer, you know" and he texted back "Hmmm" literally just that, I'm probably overthinking but wtf with that answer dude.

That was last night, he answered one of my messages on TikTok (nothing related) but we haven't actually talked since that.

So I really don't know what to do, would it be better when I move? Does he even seem to care? Does he just want me to be his WhatsApp friend or something? Why suggesting me moving to his town and talking about me to his girlfriend?

Also, I'm not quite sure if this matters but he is a straight dude and I'm gay, he has always known I am, a long time ago he told me he didn't mind but at this point I don't know if he thinks I like him or something and that's why things got awkard.

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 3 months ago

Traslado de expediente

Hola chicos, tengo la duda si es viable entrar a Educación Social o Pedagogía y luego pedir traslado de expediente a Psicología. Alguno ha hecho algo similar?

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 4 months ago

I was cleaning my room and now I'm worried

I swept up dried mouse droppings; I know I was supposed to spray them with bleach first, but I forgot. Now I’m afraid that my life and my family’s lives are at risk because of me.

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 4 months ago

Creo que voy a morir

Barrí heces de ratón en seco en mi habitación, luego recordé que se suponía que le pusiese lejia primero pero en ese momento no lo pensé y ahora bueno, me gustaría saber que tan probable es que ahora haya adquirido algún tipo de bacteria o virus que potencialmente podría transmitir a toda mi familia

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 4 months ago

No sé que estudiar

Siempre he querido estudiar psicología, pero hice el bachillerato de humanidades y acabé con un 7,5 de media y nada que me pondere. Realmente no estoy seguro de que hacer, si hacer un grado superior e intentar acceder luego, si intentar hacerla online y cambiarme o si hacer otra carrera (Literatura comparada) e intentar acceder con las notas de titulados.

Pdta: Selectividad me da mucho miedo

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u/Due-Paramedic-9247 — 5 months ago