I might have caught HIV
So I'm 18 years old and I met this guy and he was the sweetest man I've ever met, we talked for a while, we played some games and well, as always (not really proud of that) everything ended up in sex.
He topped, and I did it too, but when I did it the condon broke, three fucking times.
A few minutes later I asked him if he was healthy he said "I'm on treatment for HIV, I've been taking it for over a year" OK I got really scared and nervous when he told me that, I managed to calm myself down because if he is undetectable then he cannot spread it, right?
But now I'm thinking what if he isn't undetectable? I don't know what I'm supposed to do, I'm afraid I might have ruined my whole life. Update: it's sunday, a day after the incident. I texted him and I asked if he please could show me his blood tests and he said "I haven't been tested since that is too expensive, but I promise I've been taking my medicine" oh ok buddy Update: It's been 24 hours, I went to the hospital and as I expected they told me they didn't do that kinda thing today, I have today 'till tomorrow. Also there's something I forgot to mentioned, he put his condon backwards and after that he took it off to put it the right side, there was not semen but there were fluids. Update: I'm freaking out, tomorrow is public holiday and I do know they should keep working, but since I live in Venezuela... Thanks for all your advice and support!