Best way to support a friend inside

She’s a young woman if that makes a difference. First time I’ve had a friend in prison, not sure if there’s anything I could bring / send her that would be any help. She’s an old friend and I’m not sure if she’s got many people in her life still.

Thanks

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 4 days ago
▲ 498 r/brighton

You lose the moral high ground when you resort to classism

I see SO many posts describing racist/sexist/homophobic people as ‘uneducated chavs’. This is meant to dismiss their views as silly, but it reads as totally classist!

You don’t need a ‘good’ job or university degree to be a kind or respectful person. I’ve known plenty wealthy & well educated people hold shockingly bigoted views, and many of the working class people I grew up with are the first to call out someone who isn’t acting right.

If you genuinely believe someone only has these views because they’re ‘uneducated’ - maybe hold off on calling them a chav and consider if you’re actually angry at them or the fact that state schools are so neglected and underfunded. If you actually think they’re a bigot or being wilfully ignorant, describe them as such.

TLDR: You sound like a knob describing anyone bigoted as ‘Dave from the pub’. Dave is actually a really nice bloke, it’s John down the road you want to look out for.

Edit: spelling

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 15 days ago

Any local temp agencies?

In real need of a job … I have a contract starting in September so it’s more of a stop-gap between now and then. Does anyone know of local agencies that I could get some 0 hours or temp work with? I’d be up for doing basically that isn’t KP-ing! I‘ve done bar work, receptionist, waiting, housekeeping, and shop work

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 1 month ago

Local tattoo artist recommendations? (inspo pics attached)

Looking for someone who does work with a similar vibe as the pics attached - quite feminine, nature themes, all black

None of my local mates have tattoos in this style so need to go elsewhere for recs!

u/Due_Laugh9820 — 1 month ago

UK eyeshadow singles?

Finally hit pan on my (probably expired) eyeshadow pallet & looking to transition to buying singles - any recommendations for UK available singles is highly appreciated!

I’ve heard mixed reviews about MAC eyeshadows, are they worth the splurge?

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 2 months ago

Supporting someone coming out of psychosis

Could do with some help/guidance someone who is coming out of their first episode (UK).

I know recovery is going to be long & not linear, but I don’t know anyone personally who has gone through anything like this who I can ask for advice.

We don’t live in the same city any more (approx 5hrs away) but I’ve been making an effort to go see him at least once a month since he went in to hospital. Even I don’t feel quite ready to process how bad things were before he went in to hospital, so I don’t even know how this is going to be for him if/when he remembers what happened.

Is there anything practically helpful I can offer? Any words of wisdom that really helped you? I just don’t want him to feel alone in this ….

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 2 months ago
▲ 14 r/uklaw

Do certain specialties typically attract similar people?

Current trainee thinking about what to qualify in.

I was told to pick based on the work rather than the team, which makes sense, but I find the people I work with make a much bigger difference to how enjoyable work-life is compared to the work itself.

So my question is - if I get on with (for example) the real estate or dispute team at my firm the best, am I likely to prefer those teams at other firms?

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u/Due_Laugh9820 — 2 months ago