Please Get Tested Regularly and Learn About PrEP & PEP
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Please Get Tested Regularly and Learn About PrEP & PEP

People please educate yourselves about Prep and PEP.

As a queer man who used to live in Bengaluru, I spent a fair amount of time on Grindr and other dating apps. From my personal experience, a very large proportion of profiles I encountered (easily 70% or more) identified as bisexual, married to women, had girlfriends, were in heterosexual relationships, or described themselves as bi-curious. This is purely my personal observation and not scientific data.

More importantly, many people in India still don't know about:

PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis)

A medication that can significantly reduce the risk of acquiring HIV when taken as prescribed.

PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis)

An emergency treatment that should be started as soon as possible, ideally within 72 hours after a potential HIV exposure.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 day ago
▲ 164 r/Bengaluru

Bengaluru: Please Learn About PrEP and PEP, It Could Protect You from HIV

I'm posting this after reading a recent article about the rise in HIV cases in Karnataka.

As a gay man who used to live in Bengaluru, I spent quite a bit of time on dating apps such as Grindr. From my personal experience, a large proportion of the profiles I came across (easily 70% or more) identified themselves as bisexual, married, in relationships with women, had girlfriends, or described themselves as "bi-curious." This isn't scientific data, just my observation from using the app.

One thing this taught me is that you often don't know someone's complete sexual history, regardless of whether they're straight, gay, bisexual, married, single, male, or female. Because of that, it's important not to make assumptions and to take responsibility for your own sexual health.

The main reason I'm posting this is to spread awareness about PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) and PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis).

PrEP is a medication that can greatly reduce the risk of HIV infection when taken as prescribed before exposure.

PEP is an emergency medication that should be started as soon as possible, ideally within 72 hours of a potential HIV exposure.

These options are available regardless of gender or sexual orientation and can be life-changing tools for HIV prevention.

Please get tested regularly, practice safer sex, and educate yourself about PrEP and PEP. Many people in India still aren't aware that these options exist.

u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 day ago

Bengaluru: Please Learn About PrEP and PEP, It Could Protect You from HIV

I'm posting this after reading a recent article about the rise in HIV cases in Karnataka.

As a gay man who used to live in Bengaluru, I spent quite a bit of time on dating apps such as Grindr. From my personal experience, a large proportion of the profiles I came across (easily 70% or more) identified themselves as bisexual, married, in relationships with women, had girlfriends, or described themselves as "bi-curious." This isn't scientific data, just my observation from using the app.

The point of this post is not to judge anyone's identity or circumstances. Many people in India are forced to hide their sexuality due to family and societal pressure.

The main reason I'm posting this is to spread awareness about PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) and PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis).

PrEP is a medication that can greatly reduce the risk of HIV infection when taken as prescribed before exposure.

PEP is an emergency medication that should be started as soon as possible, ideally within 72 hours of a potential HIV exposure.

These options are available regardless of gender or sexual orientation and can be life-changing tools for HIV prevention.

Please get tested regularly, practice safer sex, and educate yourself about PrEP and PEP. Many people in India still aren't aware that these options exist.

u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 day ago

Looking for a Consumer Court Lawyer in Karnataka( BLR or Mdy)

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for recommendations for a lawyer in Karnataka (preferably Mandya) who has experience with consumer law, banking disputes, or education loan matters.

I come from an economically weaker family and had an education loan with Indian Bank. The dispute relates to the Central Sector Interest Subsidy (CSIS) Scheme.

In short:

* The Govt pays interest subsidies to EWS people for education loan, I repeatedly requested the bank to process my CSIS claim every year.

* Branch officials assured me that they would do it.

* The bank failed to apply for the subsidy for multiple years.

* After I filed an RBI Ombudsman complaint, the bank credited more than ₹1.13 lakh in subsidy and ₹20,000 compensation. The case is closed under a non appealable clause.

* However, one year's subsidy (around ₹30,000) is still being denied.

The problem is that I don't have any legal connections, can anyone recommend a good consumer court lawyer in Karnataka (preferably Mandya/ Mysuru/ Bengaluru)?

Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 7 days ago

Looking for a Consumer Court Lawyer in Karnataka

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Hi everyone,

I'm trying to understand the practical process of pursuing a consumer dispute against a bank in Karnataka.

The matter involves an education loan and a Central Sector Interest Subsidy (CSIS) dispute. After RBI Ombudsman intervention, the bank credited over ₹1.13 lakh in subsidy and compensation, but a part of the dispute still remains unresolved.

I'm particularly interested in hearing from:

* Anyone who has handled a consumer case against a bank in Karnataka.

* People who have appeared before the Consumer Commission as Party-in-Person.

* Anyone who can recommend advocates experienced in consumer law or banking disputes in Karnataka.

Since I don't have legal connections, I'm trying to understand the process and available options before deciding how to proceed.

Any experiences or suggestions would be helpful.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 7 days ago

Looking for a Consumer Court / Banking Lawyer in Karnataka

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for recommendations for a lawyer in Karnataka (preferably Mandya) who has experience with consumer law, banking disputes, or education loan matters.

I come from a BPL/economically weaker family and had an education loan with Indian Bank. The dispute relates to the Central Sector Interest Subsidy (CSIS) Scheme.

In short:

* The govt pays interest subsidies to EWS people for education loan, I repeatedly requested the bank to process my CSIS claim every year.

* Branch officials assured me that they would do it.

* The bank failed to apply for the subsidy for multiple years.

* After I filed an RBI Ombudsman complaint, the bank credited more than ₹1.13 lakh in subsidy and ₹20,000 compensation. The case is closed under a non appealable clause.

* However, one year's subsidy (around ₹30,000) is still being denied.

The problem is that I don't have any legal connections, can anyone recommend a good consumer court lawyer in Karnataka (preferably Mandya/ Mysuru)?

Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 7 days ago

IISc 2026 MTech Placements Highlights.

Can anyone share insights about the placement scenario for MTech AI and MTech CDS and any other ECE Depts as well?

Also, I heard that Microsoft and Amazon visited this time. Can anyone please confirm whether they hired students from the AI and CDS departments too?

Would really appreciate any details regarding:

  • companies visiting
  • roles offered
  • CTC range
  • internship conversions
  • branch-wise eligibility/preferences
  • overall placement experience
u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 22 days ago
▲ 22 r/IISc

IISc 2026 MTech Placements Highlights.

Can anyone share insights about the placement scenario for MTech AI and MTech CDS and any other ECE Depts as well?

Also, I heard that Microsoft and Amazon visited this time. Can anyone please confirm whether they hired students from the AI and CDS departments too?

Would really appreciate any details regarding:

  • companies visiting
  • roles offered
  • CTC range
  • internship conversions
  • branch-wise eligibility/preferences
  • overall placement experience
u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 22 days ago

Would you date someone less academically/career-qualified than you?

I recently met a guy. He’s genuinely kind, has a good personality, and we’ve been vibing really well over the past few days. I honestly enjoy talking to him.

But I’m a bit confused about the long-term practicality of things.

I’m an engineer and planning to pursue a master’s in the future, and eventually I want to move into research and become a scientist. I’m ambitious academically and professionally, and I value intellectual curiosity and compatibility a lot in a partner too.

He, on the other hand, has a diploma in pharmacy. Where we live, the earning potential and career growth with that qualification are comparatively limited unless he plans to pursue further studies, which currently he doesn’t seem interested in.

Meanwhile, I may end up earning significantly more in the future, and I sometimes wonder whether differences in ambition, intellectual compatibility, lifestyle goals, and long-term growth mindset can eventually create emotional distance between two people.

At the same time, I know relationships are much more than degrees, money, or status. Emotional compatibility, kindness, maturity, emotional safety, and values matter deeply to me too.

Another thing is that he got out of a relationship a few months ago, and I genuinely don’t want to unintentionally hurt him while I’m still figuring out my own thoughts.

So I wanted honest advice: How do you navigate situations like more about long-term compatibility in terms of ambition, intellectual connection, lifestyle goals, and the kind of future both people envision for themselves. Since I date with long-term intentions, those practical aspects do matter to me alongside emotional compatibility.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 22 days ago

Loan approved using income certificate, but subsidy denied saying it was never submitted. RBI Ombudsman closed complaint after bank's statement.

I personally received my subsidy only after raising a complaint with the RBI Ombudsman against SBI.

Now a few of my friends are facing the same issue with SBI and Bank of Baroda. The banks are claiming that the income certificate was never submitted, even though it had been submitted every year.

What makes this more confusing is that the CSIS scheme guidelines themselves clearly state:

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So if the responsibility to process and claim subsidy lies with the bank, how can students be punished years later because the bank’s internal system allegedly shows “income certificate not submitted”?

The loan itself would not even have been sanctioned under the subsidy scheme without income proof eligibility verification.

One complaint was already closed by the RBI Ombudsman after accepting the bank’s response, even though the borrower claims the documents were submitted.

We are now trying to understand:

  • Can the bank legally deny subsidy based only on internal records?
  • Does the CSIS guideline strengthen the student’s case?
  • Can this be challenged before Consumer Court for deficiency of service/negligence?
  • Has anyone successfully fought a similar case against SBI/Bank of Baroda/other banks?

Would really appreciate advice from anyone with legal or banking experience.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 29 days ago

Loan approved using income certificate, but subsidy denied saying it was never submitted. RBI Ombudsman closed complaint after bank's stated this.

I personally got my subsidy only after raising a complaint with the RBI Ombudsman against Indian Bank in Dec 2025.

Now a few of my friends are facing the exact same issue with SBI and Bank of Baroda. The banks are claiming that the income certificate was never submitted, even though it had been submitted every year.

What makes this more frustrating is that these loans would not even have been sanctioned under the scheme without the income certificate in the first place. But now the banks are saying their internal system shows “income certificate not submitted” and using that reason to deny subsidy benefits.

One of the complaints was already closed by the Ombudsman after accepting the bank’s response.

It honestly feels like banks have found a loophole where they can later deny records internally and reject subsidy claims.

We are completely clueless about what to do next.

Has anyone else faced this issue?
What proof can actually help in such cases?
Can this still be challenged legally or escalated further?

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 29 days ago
▲ 105 r/gay

The Loneliness Epidemic Hits Queer People Differently.

I was watching a TED Talk by Robert Waldinger about loneliness, human connection, and the Harvard Study of Adult Development, one of the longest studies ever conducted on human happiness and health(75+ yrs and still ongoing).

##One line stayed with me:

the people who stay connected, who have people they can rely on, tend to live healthier and longer lives.

Loneliness is not just “feeling sad.” It slowly eats away at people.

Research has linked chronic loneliness and social isolation to cardiovascular disease, weakened immune systems, cognitive decline, sleep disruption, Type 2 diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, anxiety, depression, and even earlier death. Some researchers have compared the health impact of chronic loneliness to smoking.

And honestly, I think queer people understand this pain in a very specific way.

A lot of us grow up feeling emotionally unsafe long before adulthood. Hiding ourselves. Filtering every word. Feeling different in our own homes. Wanting love while also being terrified of rejection.

Some of us lose family after coming out. We have parents who emotionally disappear even if they physically stay. Many move cities and rebuild life from zero and spend years only being “partially known” by the people around them.

Then adulthood comes and suddenly everything becomes hyper individualistic.

Dating apps, Hookup culture, Surface-level conversations, People constantly replacing each other, Everyone exhausted and lonely also pretending they are okay.

Maybe we have focused so much on finding partners that we forgot how important community is.

I genuinely think queer people need stronger friendships, stronger chosen families, stronger social circles.

People to eat with.
Travel with.
Call during panic attacks.
Celebrate festivals with.
Grow old together even if romance never happens.

Because many of us were not given unconditional belonging growing up. And I don’t think we can survive this loneliness completely alone.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 month ago
▲ 136 r/Bengaluru

Disappointed with the poor Kannada typography on Amazon gift box for Mother's Day

I ordered an Agaro massage gun for Mother’s Day and selected the gift box option on Amazon. I had even provided the Kannada text myself properly, yet the final print on the gift box turned out looking like this.

The Kannada typography/font rendering looks almost like it was auto-processed without any proper review. For a company as large as Amazon, I genuinely expected much better, especially for something meant to be gifted.

Edit 1:

This is actually the correct text that was supposed to be printed on the gift card:

“ತಾಯಂದಿರ ದಿನದ ಶುಭಾಶಯಗಳು ಅಮ್ಮ. ಯಾವತ್ತೂ ಆರೋಗ್ಯವಾಗಿಯೂ ಸಂತೋಷವಾಗಿಯೂ ಇರಿ ಅಮ್ಮ. ನಿಮ್ಮ ಮಕ್ಕಳ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಸದಾ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಜೊತೆ ಇರುತ್ತದೆ.”

u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 month ago

The Loneliness Epidemic Hits Queer People Differently.

I was watching a TED Talk by Robert Waldinger about loneliness, human connection, and the Harvard Study of Adult Development, one of the longest studies ever conducted on human happiness and health(75+ yrs and still ongoing).

##One line stayed with me:
the people who stay connected, who have people they can rely on, tend to live healthier and longer lives.

Loneliness is not just “feeling sad.”
It slowly eats away at people.

Research has linked chronic loneliness and social isolation to cardiovascular disease, weakened immune systems, cognitive decline, sleep disruption, Type 2 diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, anxiety, depression, and even earlier death. Some researchers have compared the health impact of chronic loneliness to smoking.

And honestly, I think queer people understand this pain in a very specific way.

A lot of us grow up feeling emotionally unsafe long before adulthood. Hiding ourselves. Filtering every word. Feeling different in our own homes. Wanting love while also being terrified of rejection.

Some of us lose family after coming out. We have parents who emotionally disappear even if they physically stay. Many move cities and rebuild life from zero and spend years only being “partially known” by the people around them.

Then adulthood comes and suddenly everything becomes hyper individualistic.
Dating apps, Hookup culture, Surface-level conversations, People constantly replacing each other, Everyone exhausted and lonely also pretending they are okay.

Maybe we have focused so much on finding partners that we forgot how important community is.

I genuinely think queer people need stronger friendships, stronger chosen families, stronger social circles.

People to eat with.
Travel with.
Call during panic attacks.
Celebrate festivals with.
Take care of each other’s parents.
Grow old together even if romance never happens.

Because many of us were not given unconditional belonging growing up. And I don’t think we can survive this loneliness completely alone.

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u/Eccentric_Explorer_ — 1 month ago