u/Economy-Performer970

I thought I would be able to hold out until uni, but recent events have just pushed me to insanity. I need out. So I talked to them about it and my father agrees to provide financial assistance, but my mother just did exactly what she has done my entire life, which is going on about the "your father did this to me" self-victimizing talk. If not that, she starts bringing up ongoing family issues I've been pulled into and blaming me for them.

For those that were able to leave home while still remaining dependent on their guardians, at least for the next 2-3 yrs, how did you convince a parent that refuses to even possibly lend an ear, forget about listening to ration?

note: I am aware emancipation exists and would have filed but they've made sure I'm fully financially dependent on them all my life.

tl;dr: How do you convince a guardian who is beyond all ration and refuses to even listen to leave home if you are still going to be financially dependent for the next 2-3 yrs?

I thought I would be able to hold out until uni, but recent events have just pushed me to insanity. I need out. So I talked to them about it and my father agrees to provide financial assistance, but my mother just did exactly what she has done my entire life, which is going on about the "your father did this to me" self-victimizing talk. If not that, she starts bringing up ongoing family issues I've been pulled into and blaming me for them.

For those that were able to leave home while still remaining dependent on their guardians, at least for the next 2-3 yrs, how did you convince a parent that refuses to even possibly lend an ear, forget about listening to ration?

note: I am aware emancipation exists and would have filed but they've made sure I'm fully financially dependent on them all my life.

tl;dr: How do you convince a guardian who is beyond all ration and refuses to even listen to leave home if you are still going to be financially dependent for the next 2-3 yrs?

I thought I would be able to hold out until uni, but recent events have just pushed me to insanity. I need out. So I talked to them about it and my father agrees to provide financial assistance, but my mother just did exactly what she has done my entire life, which is going on about the "your father did this to me" self-victimizing talk. If not that, she starts bringing up ongoing family issues I've been pulled into and blaming me for them.

For those that were able to leave home while still remaining dependent on their guardians, at least for the next 2-3 yrs, how did you convince a parent that refuses to even possibly lend an ear, forget about listening to ration?

note: I am aware emancipation exists and would have filed but they've made sure I'm fully financially dependent on them all my life.

tl;dr: How do you convince a guardian who is beyond all ration and refuses to even listen to leave home if you are still going to be financially dependent for the next 2-3 yrs?

I thought I would be able to hold out until uni, but recent events have just pushed me to insanity. I need out. So I talked to them about it and my father agrees to provide financial assistance, but my mother just did exactly what she has done my entire life, which is going on about the "your father did this to me" self-victimizing talk. If not that, she starts bringing up ongoing family issues I've been pulled into and blaming me for them.

For those that were able to leave home while still remaining dependent on their guardians, at least for the next 2-3 yrs, how did you convince a parent that refuses to even possibly lend an ear, forget about listening to ration?

note: I am aware emancipation exists and would have filed but they've made sure I'm fully financially dependent on them all my life.

tl;dr: How do you convince a guardian who is beyond all ration and refuses to even listen to leave home if you are still going to be financially dependent for the next 2-3 yrs?