73 + 13.14 + 8.78 = 94.92, so where did the extra $7 come from? Seems like the person posted ai ragebait, especially since the handwritten text portion (“101.92”) looks like AI. But then again could just be human error? Thoughts?
I (f25) just went on a really nice dinner date with a guy (m29) who sent me a DM last week, and I had an incredible time. The conversation flowed so smoothly, he was such a gentleman, intelligent, thoughtful, and he seemed genuinely curious about me. He was so fun to talk with. It’s a 40 minute walk from the restaurant to my place, and initially he offered to get me an Uber. I said that I would love to walk, and he walked me all the way home, giving me his jacket when he noticed that I was cold. He was enthusiastic, and was clearly extremely into me. We’re going on a second date in a couple days, and I’m genuinely excited.
However, for some reason, my brain keeps hyper-fixating on superficial things that really don’t matter; specifically, his physique. He’s tall (187 cm ish?), not overweight at all, and does sports; however, I don’t think he has a particularly fit physique.
He is well-dressed and decent looking; not drop dead gorgeous but not unattractive. However, I’ve only ever dated men that I’m extremely physically attracted to (usually athletes). Don’t get me wrong; throughout the date, I found him more and more attractive, and I’m really looking forward to seeing him again. However, I don’t think he has the physique that I’m really attracted to, and part of me struggles to see how I could date someone that I’m not incredibly physically attracted to.
I’m hoping that with time I care about it less, but does anyone have advice for how to stop fixating on things like physique that don’t matter in a long term relationship? Or does it matter more than I think?
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This is from a guy I’ve been casually seeing for about a year now. We mostly just hang out when we’re not seeing anyone else. Essentially a friend with benefits situation. We both have acknowledged that we don’t want to date eachother, but enjoy eachother’s company, so we see eachother every week unless we meet someone who we see real potential with. So several months ago I paused things with him because I was really interested in dating someone new, but after a couple months it didn’t end up working out and we started hanging out again.
We were going to hang out tonight, but he cancelled last minute. After this text, he explained that he went on a date right before we were going to hang out that went really well, and he wants to stop seeing eachother to focus on her. I’ve never actually wanted to date him, so why does this hurt so much? I feel like everything in my life has been crashing down, and this is the cherry on top.
I haven’t drank alcohol in over 4 years, but suddenly I feel such a strong urge to drink. I just want to get drunk. I just don’t want to feel this pain in my chest. I’m not suicidal at all, but how do I cope with this feeling of a gaping hole in my chest?
The actors don’t really have the stereotypical AI faces, but the acting is so bad and the plot makes so little sense that I’m struggling to believe it could be real.