Hi when will my time get better,
Everything has fallen apart.
Debt not clearing no matter how much money I make.
The guy I thought I ll end up marrying, ended the relationship.
Extremely bitter relationships with mom
I wanna know when everything will get better. Money wise, marriage and relationships at home.
I am at the absolute lowest point of my life. My mind and body are paralyzed by crippling anxiety, to the point where I can barely move, let alone work. Everything has gone down the drain at once:
The Breakup: The man I thought was my future just left. Not because the love ended, but because he gave in to his family’s pressure to marry someone they chose. The grief is blinding. The worst pain I’m feeling and it’s hopeless. Physically feeling crippled.
Family: I have zero support system. I am on terrible terms with my family, especially my mother. I am completely on my own. Nobody to check on me.
Career & Money: Because of the emotional wreckage, my productivity is dead. My career and finances are completely ruined.
I have no love, no money, no career, and no family backing. I am suffocating.
Has anyone else been in a hole this deep and dark and actually managed to turn their life around? How did you survive the first few weeks when you couldn't even get out of bed? Please tell me it’s possible.
Note until this year starting I was extremely happy and content !
So this isn’t how it was all the time.
All hell has broken loose
I need some guidance from those who have successfully navigated major "3D" obstacles using self-concept and the law of assumption.
My specific situation involves a deeply loved person who is facing massive cultural and religious pressure from his family. They are extremely adamant and have fixed an arranged marriage for him. Because of this deadlock, we haven't seen each other in 2 months, and it has been over 3 weeks of total radio silence. I’ve been holding the line, not chasing, and focusing heavily on my self-concept and affirmations.
Today, a sudden shift happened on social media: he manually removed me from his followers list, but he is still actively following me. He blocked my window into his life but kept his window into mine wide open.
My goal is the end result: marriage with him. I know that according to the law, I shouldn’t react to the 3D, and that circumstances don't matter. But tonight, the panic is trying to creep back in, and my brain is trying to tell me this digital move means the wedding prep is moving forward.
How do I completely starve this old story of my attention? For those who have manifested a specific person against heavy cultural/family odds, how did you successfully stabilize your self-concept and fully embody the "acting as if" state when the physical world felt this heavy? How do I properly utilize the state of lucidity when waking up to consciously direct my thoughts toward the end result instead of the panic?
I need some guidance from those who have successfully navigated major "3D" obstacles using self-concept and the law of assumption.
My specific situation involves a deeply loved person who is facing massive cultural and religious pressure from his family. They are extremely adamant and have fixed an arranged marriage for him. Because of this deadlock, we haven't seen each other in 2 months, and it has been over 3 weeks of total radio silence. I’ve been holding the line, not chasing, and focusing heavily on my self-concept and affirmations.
Today, a sudden shift happened on social media: he manually removed me from his followers list, but he is still actively following me. He blocked my window into his life but kept his window into mine wide open.
My goal is the end result: marriage with him. I know that according to the law, I shouldn’t react to the 3D, and that circumstances don't matter. But tonight, the panic is trying to creep back in, and my brain is trying to tell me this digital move means the wedding prep is moving forward.
How do I completely starve this old story of my attention? For those who have manifested a specific person against heavy cultural/family odds, how did you successfully stabilize your self-concept and fully embody the "acting as if" state when the physical world felt this heavy? How do I properly utilize the state of lucidity when waking up to consciously direct my thoughts toward the end result instead of the panic?
Hi same thing, had the best love and compatibility,
Unbelievable love. Other universe signs in place. There are many reasons for me to think universe brought us together coz we deserved this kind of love.
Now we had to leave coz his parents are being extremely adamant. We are from different religion.
That’s the only reason.