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What was that flying by?

Airplane flanked by two smaller planes just buzzed over me near BiMart on 18th, any ideas?

Terrible photo

u/Educational_Tear5939 — 4 days ago
▲ 34 r/transit

How old where you when you first started traveling alone by public transport? Would you encourage your children to at the same age?

I was traveling alone by bus and underground in London by around 10 yo in the mid 70s. My Dad lived in Central London, my Mum was still in South London at the family home, and my school was in North London, where we were moving, so I was with Dad during the week, commuting to school, and then went to Mum's at the weekend until we moved.

By the time I was in secondary school most of my school friends took the bus and/or underground to school in North London.

I took my daughter on public transport in London from birth in the mid 2000s so she knew her way around, but I didn't really expect her to travel alone before she was a teenager because none of her friends did.

Sorry if this isn't the place, but I'm just kind of curious, I guess it comes under 'safety'?

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 4 days ago

Is there anything my ex could do if my daughter cashed child support checks received since she left education? We're in Oregon.

What’s my daughter’s situation regarding child support checks received but not cashed?

Under the terms of my divorce Child Support was payable directly to my now 20 yo daughter, after her 18th birthday, and until her 21st birthday while she remained in education.  

She is not currently in education.  Since leaving school, she has not cashed any checks that have arrived. She did not inform the child support agency.

We recently received letters from the child support agency notifying us that child support has been suspended as she is not attending school.

As far as the child support agency is concerned the payments cannot be refunded because they're already billed.

So, what happens if she cashes the checks?

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 7 days ago

What’s my daughter’s situation regarding child support checks received but not cashed?

Under the terms of my divorce Child Support was payable directly to my now 20 yo daughter, after her 18th birthday, and until her 21st birthday while she remained in education.  

She is not currently in education.  Since leaving school, she has not cashed any checks that have arrived. She did not inform the child support agency.

We recently received letters from the child support agency notifying us that child support has been suspended as she is not attending school.

What’s her situation regarding checks received but not cashed?

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 7 days ago

What obligation do I have to keep my 20 yo daughter’s estranged father updated on her life?

We separated 5 years ago and divorced 4 years ago. He has had virtually no contact with our daughter since I left the family home with her.

He was paying child support, but she dropped out of school and he’s just received a letter informing him that child support is no longer required and he’s mad as hell and wants to know what’s going on.

Do I have any obligation to him?

UPDATE: Thanks to all of you. It’s what I thought but I wanted confirmation. Much appreciated!

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 9 days ago

10 Members of the Global Sumud Land Convoy have been detained in Libya. Where’s the outrage?

https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/news/2026/06/libya-release-humanitarian-activists-detained-for-seeking-to-deliver-aid-to-gaza/

“The Libyan Arab Armed Forces (LAAF) must ensure the immediate release of 10 members of the Global Sumud Land Convoy who have been arbitrarily detained for over two weeks in eastern Libya solely for attempting to deliver aid to Gaza amid Israel’s ongoing genocide, Amnesty International said today. 

On 24 May 2026, an armed group affiliated with the self-proclaimed LAAF, the de facto authorities in eastern and southern Libya, arbitrarily arrested the 10 humanitarian activists from eight different countries. The four men and six women were arrested while en route to Sirte to negotiate with local authorities the convoy’s passage.  

Following periods of enforced disappearance ranging from two to nine days, prosecutors interrogated them before ordering their pretrial detention pending investigations into charges of “assembly without authorization.” If convicted, they face up to six months in prison and/or a fine.”

Where’s the outrage?

u/Educational_Tear5939 — 14 days ago

How could I find the truth behind a family story?

My great grandmother got pregnant out of wedlock and the story is that the father is a renowned author who lived nearby at the time. I’m not aware that the writer had any other children. This would have been in 1905. My grandmother’s birth certificate is blank for father.

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 26 days ago

Protest against Hamas planned in Gaza for June 26

I'm seeing posts on Twitter about a protest against Hamas planned in Gaza for June 26, can the protestors expect to be seen and heard by world media? Why don't these protests get much coverage or support from around the world, surely everyone would wish peace and freedom for the people of Gaza which they can never achieve under the vice grip of Hamas.

Why aren't the people waving placards to Free Palestine excited to free them from Hamas's grip?

Thoughts?

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 26 days ago

What are you proud of accomplishing today?

I’ve been putting off changing the cat litter since Friday. 2 litter boxes for 3 indoor cats. I clean out clumps regularly, but changing out for fresh litter is an operation!! What did you get to that you’ve been putting off?

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u/Educational_Tear5939 — 1 month ago

Trying baking soda and sugar to get rid of ants…

… think I’m just at feeding them!!

EDITED TO ADD: okay, okay, I’ll get the Terro traps!!

I had powdered/confectioners sugar and baking soda on hand so I thought it was worth a go.

u/Educational_Tear5939 — 1 month ago

I’d like to move some around and add some, but can’t figure out how to make a big enough hole for a pot without the pebbles falling back in as I work…

It seems like they had a double pot system but I can’t get the inner one out!

2 different pots.

u/Educational_Tear5939 — 2 months ago