u/Effective-Lead-2922

While I have many issues with the show I still like it but I can never talk about or show my affection for the show.

It’s especially annoying when people make it their whole online persona to shit talk the show, I wanna be able to just have a vox or Charlie pfp without somebody commenting “HABZIN FAN OPINION REJECTED” constantly.

I wanna be able to wear the merch that Ive bought without people being annoying. It’s gotten to a point where I don’t even feel comfortable showing my interest in the show at convention.

Like example; I was waiting in line to meet someone from the HH crew a while ago, they were on break so it wasn’t that many people there. A cosplayer walked by and said “OF COURSE NOBODY IS AT THE HAZBIN BOOTH” oh my god shut up your dressed as a anime loli 😭

I hate how normalized it is in fandom/weird kid spaces to see hazbin as this HORRIBLE THING and that every other cringy fandom is 100% better than it(honestly I’ve started to hate weird kid spaces but that’s for another sub lol)Speaking of the fandom I don’t even think it’s that bad, you have weirdos yea, just like you do in every other fandom. But people wanna act like it’s just hazbin that’s like this.

Lmk if this was the wrong sub to post this in I jsut have no idea where else I can discuss this without immediately being dunked on.

Reasons:

1. I’ve never had an actual crush, like I just picked a friend I found attractive and said “yup that’s the one” and I think I purely did this because I love the being in love aesthetic, like making playlist about them thinking about having cute matching outfits etc.

2. I loose all attraction the minute I enter a relationship, not sexual attraction but romantic attraction. It gets annoying having to call constantly and having to buy them gifts for holidays and shit.

3. I would not able to raise kids or do stuff finically while married, like I wanna adopt in the future and I have a very specific way I wanna raise my kids and I’m not sure if I could co parent with somebody.

4. It feels like I wanna be in a relationship purely because it’s what’s expected of me, like everybody else gonna be married so I should too.

It just feels like I wanna have a friend that I occasionally sleep with and cuddle with. Im sure about my identity 😭

I’m writing about a gay man and a lesbian being in a relationship together without knowing they’re both actually queer and I wanted to have a scene that shows their struggle with intimacy towards each other. My issue is I found out I was gay at a young age so I never really got with women sexually and I never hear other queer people talk about their sex lives before they found out their actually sexuality.

Like did you still get aroused? How did you react physically? Etc.

And thanks to anyone that’ll answer :)

I’ve(17m) been friends with this guy(16m) for a while now and I’m starting to think that I like him.

-I like calling him everyday
-I think about him constantly
-I get sad when we don’t call
-I like hearing his voice
-he’s the only person I can talk to for hours
-I think he’s decently attractive
-I like it when he’s mean to me

I can never tell if I have a crush on someone or not but these are all of my signs maybe I just like him as a friend idk 😭

(Sorry if the title is awkward, i was having trouble wording it and lmk if this is the wrong place to ask for advice.)

So i(17m)really like this friend of mine(16m) he’s autistic and I don’t think he understands what I mean sometimes(actually a lot of the time) like if I’m upset he usually can’t tell unless I tell him. If I’m sad he can’t tell unless I’m bawling my eyes out.

And I’ve flirted with him slightly before tho I don’t think he took it as flirting. I just wanna know how everyone here thinks I should try flirting with him, like how can I be more direct with him and stuff.