u/Elzar_Stormborne

Hey there, I wanted a person's take on this dream type I have been having lately.

It's usually something crazy like cuddling with a girl or being called "sweet" by a girl who is supposed to be a romantic partner or us having a baby between us while asleep. [Note: I have never dated or had a partner ever. Or any romantic experience]

What do the dreams mean? As these types are happening frequently.

After waking up, I feel drained of my energy and depressed as the reality in normal days is the opposite of the one in the dreams. And a little wonder if such things in the dream will ever happen for me

Respected Misters,

I've been wondering about my social standing and what certain social cues mean.

For about four years as a teenager, girls haven't approached me even for casual conversation or any conversations. When I try speaking to them, they sometimes seem serious or hesitant, while they're relaxed and smiley with other boys. I also have a serious resting face.

Recently, some female classmates have started smiling when saying my name. Male friends have also randomly complimented my looks, saying things like "You look cute" or "I bet you have a girlfriend." Yet I've never had a girlfriend or knowingly been flirted with. I have only two female friends, and very few people seem to initiate friendships with me.

Interestingly, older women are often very kind and helpful toward me. Older male teachers, some of whom are normally harsh with students, are also unusually kind. One even told me, "I know you are isolated, sweetie. One day, a very special girl will want you because you are the type people marry." I actually cried hearing that after blushing.

At the same time, I have very little social status among my peers and am often ignored unless I become assertive. I also don't really understand flirting and tend to be very formal with strangers because I don't want to disrespect them, as I feel I would never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner if I were in their place. [That's why I developed a rule of not assuming interest unless spoken exclusively in words as I dont want to overstep my boundaries or overstay my welcome without knowing if stuff is acceptable or not.]

I've watched other boys flirt, date, and receive obvious attention from girls, while I seem to receive almost none. I'm tall (around 6'2"), lean, and fit, and people tell me I look good, so I'm confused.

Is there something wrong with me, or could my looks, personality, or social behaviour explain this? And should I believe that someone might eventually genuinely choose me as I am getting worried if it will ever happen, and feel a bit scared over it?

As girls normally treat me as I am some ghost in the place and do not acknowledge my existence. Like there are moments when I see my teammates flirt and be playful while I stand behind a table working, and hoping my teammates will notice me and include me.

Anyways, thank you for reading this out and have a nice day. And will deeply appreciate it, if I could get your take on this sirs.

Hey there I have been transferred around a few countries, and wanted a review over my English clarity, and was wondering if you could guess where you all think it's from, as I have been getting curious lately due to me wondering if I picked something up from each place or anything.

And if you could also honestly review my voice and describe it's qualities.

And if you have any tips to improve my speech and clarity. How good is it?

Thank you for reading this out, and will gladly appreciate a take on this. Have a great time in the meantime then.🍻

[Please note: I am trying to read as calmly and slowly as I can for effective judgement over this. My buddy asked me to read slowly or calmly and post this for a proper review. Hopefully it's not too slow. Normally I talk much faster.]

Recently I have been noticing that I have been attached to my screen a bit more than usual.

Normally my screen time in the past used to be 1 hour a day as a sophomore. But today 2 years later, I noticed my screen time has been around 2 hours a day on weekdays and 3 hours maybe 4 hours a day on weekends for music or tv or chatting. And in daily life it affects energy levels like leaving my drained.

[Please note: I don't use social media like insta, meta etc. Though I use YouTube and think it's similar in effect.]

And I am beginning to feel like I want to reduce it, or better yet want to remove screen for a couple of days of a week to get my head straight.

Does anyone have any recommendations? Or any tips I could follow to help me control this pattern, so I can focus on things that matter to me.

Thank you for reading this post and have a great time in the meantime.🍻I will gladly appreciate a reply on this matter.

I need advice on cues please. 18M here, talking about 17F. Would you be kind enough to help me figure out what's going on?

I have known this girl since we were 6 years old in person. We used to be so young commuting together everyday for over 9 years casually as friends. She is my hero, and made sure she heard I said it, as she earned it. Words cannot express how thankful I am for her.

Back when I was a younger and had lost my closest companions who were my grandfathers, and separated from my father for 6 years, I was overwhelmed, and became intense and focused only on my work. I got so focused on it that somedays I used to be bullied, and it was her who saved me, like scare the other boys who picked on me, far away.

Until our separation last year as I didnt possess a phone. But now I saw her at my school, and immediately asked for her number as I missed her. And we have been talking for the past 2 months. And discussed many intimate things and all, like her getting played in romance, and getting her heart broken, and her comforting me over my inexperience in romance.

There has been teasing, venting, and joke sharing and hobby sharing, and memory sharing, sharing of childhood photos, then people we used to like, aspirations, stress, book title sharing, tv content sharing, and the family we lost. And I am enjoying every moment of it.

She said she found it very sweet that I asked for her number from her brother after losing it, after being clumsy with it.

But recently, in the past three times we texted she has been using the red heart emoji like while signing off or to show affection when I would say something touching. Or after a joke.

In person, I noticed her bestie giggling and covering her face while looking at me when I would walk past. While she herself keeps a stern, serious expression nowadays on her face as if she is intimidated, when I am around. To be clear I have a serious resting face when neutral.

I seriously don't know what's going on. Is the red heart friendly or something more? Is my inexperience, and desire for romance in life clouding my judgement over how things really are between us?

As I feel I don't know much, and don't want to lead her on incase I am. I do care about her, which is why I want to know what's going on. I dont know of the difference between someone being friendly, and the someone being romantic. I don't want to a bad boy to her, or anyone. Incase I am being one, I don't know, and would appreciate if one could tell me. My mum always told me to respect girls. I would appreciate if I could know if I am playing her or something. Because I don't know.

The reason I am having a hard time choosing between friendly ,and romantic meaning of the red heart is because she said something when we first started talking, about her being played in romance, and keeping away from it.

And I don't want to embarass myself over misinterpreting what that heart means, as I care about losing the friendship, and imagine it would be a massive blow to my heart having someone who has known you for so long leave you.

Should I wait until I should go for another girl, when I get a house, job and some money so I can get her dresses and jewels, and do things right? Is that something other kids my age do in relationships? I really don't know what to do. I have always wanted a family of my own, and kids. Hopefully a sweet daughter. And have had no desire for anything other than one serious kind woman, I can always give my heart and life to.

And if it doesn't happen then maybe I would sign up for surrogacy or adopt orphans to give my affection.

Anyways, anyone who is reading this, by taking their time, thank you very much good sir/madame, and wish you a nice day.

I have known this girl since we were 6 years old in person. We used to be so young commuting together everyday for over 9 years casually as friends. She is my hero, and made sure she heard I said it, as she earned it. Words cannot express how thankful I am for her.

Back when I was a younger and had lost my closest companions who were my grandfathers, and separated from my father for 6 years, I was overwhelmed, and became intense and focused only on my work. I got so focused on it that somedays I used to be bullied, and it was her who saved me, like scare the other boys who picked on me, far away.

Until our separation last year as I didnt possess a phone. But now I saw her at my school, and immediately asked for her number as I missed her. And we have been talking for the past 2 months. And discussed many intimate things and all, like her getting played in romance, and getting her heart broken, and her comforting me over my inexperience in romance.

There has been teasing, venting, and joke sharing and hobby sharing, and memory sharing, sharing of childhood photos, then people we used to like, aspirations, stress, book title sharing, tv content sharing, and the family we lost. And I am enjoying every moment of it.

She said she found it very sweet that I asked for her number from her brother after losing it, after being clumsy with it.

But recently, in the past three times we texted she has been using the red heart emoji like while signing off or to show affection when I would say something touching. Or after a joke.

In person, I noticed her bestie blushing and giggling at me when I would walk past. While she herself keeps a stern, serious expression nowadays on her face as if she is intimidated, when I am around. To be clear I have a serious resting face when neutral.

I seriously don't know what's going on. Is the red heart friendly or something more? Is my inexperience, and desire for romance in life clouding my judgement over how things really are between us?

As I feel I don't know much, and don't want to lead her on incase I am. I do care about her, which is why I want to know what's going on. I dont know of the difference between someone being friendly, and the someone being romantic. I don't want to a bad boy to her, or anyone. Incase I am being one, I don't know, and would appreciate if one could tell me. My mum always told me to respect girls. I would appreciate if I could know if I am playing her or something. Because I don't know.

The reason I am having a hard time choosing between friendly ,and romantic meaning of the red heart is because she said something when we first started talking, about her being played in romance, and keeping away from it.

And I don't want to embarass myself over misinterpreting what that heart means, as I care about losing the friendship, and imagine it would be a massive blow to my heart having someone who has known you for so long leave you.

Should I wait until I should go for another girl, when I get a house, job and some money so I can get her dresses and jewels, and do things right? Is that something other kids my age do in relationships? I really don't know what to do.

Anyways, anyone who is reading this, by taking their time, thank you very much good sir/madame, and wish you a nice day.