Why do I attract obsessive people?

I think I've healed a lot from my toxic tendencies, as time went by, along with therapy. Yet, even as I let go when things feel weird, dragged along, or unideal, I'm always being obsessed over. What could it be?

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u/Emotional-Monk4281 — 22 hours ago

Gemini talk

Has anyone experienced (talked to, friends with, related to) someone with a sun in Gemini, moon in Gemini, and rising in Cancer? And if so, how would you describe them? Let me know your big 3, too!

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u/Emotional-Monk4281 — 23 hours ago

Yearning

I always grew up to be more of an unaffectionate person, simply because hugs and kisses weren't something widely done in my household. However, I definitely grew up to enjoying physical touch as my love language. That all being said, I have never been good at being expresssive with words and I have gotten better, given many love experiences, but in my past relationship, which was now over a year ago, it has been very hard for me to want anything more than something casual and sexual. Sometimes I even rather having friendships, rather than relationships, out of avoidance I thought, but I always go back to realizing it's because I still want my ex-partner. Since tne day we broke up, we haven't talked, and though it was mostly my fault, I think of him often, and I subconsciously try to better myself. I've always been a lover girl at heart, but externally I find it easier to spend less time proving that I am. I wonder, could I become even better? I feel like no matter how 'put-together' I am, its hard to move past him. I've done what feels like everything. I've went to therapy, journaled, work out, go on runs, read, have a rigorous STEM schedule, and inclusively away from home. I've went out, met a lot of guys, but I've about broke everything off, even when things were good. What do you guys think I should do?

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u/Emotional-Monk4281 — 1 day ago

Why is it so hard to be vulnerable?

I am a young adult, and I have yet for my frontal lobe to develop, but I feel like I've experienced many situations others don't until later in their life, and so I've looked within and realized I have a very hard time being vulnerable. Just me? I always feel uncomfortable expressing myself that way. I am a very extroverted, talkative person, but talking about my weaknesses feels very weird.

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u/Emotional-Monk4281 — 4 days ago