u/Emotional-Tomato1466

I’ve realized I’m usually picky on dating apps like hinge. Like most the guys I find attractive don’t have good pictures and if I saw them on hinge I’d swipe left. But I only match with attractive guys (sometimes I match with semi attractive photos of people because of my realization) sometimes I feel like this makes me a shallow person. But I feel like maybe I shouldn’t be as harsh on swiping left because most guys I find attractive in real life usually look bad in photos. Not to say they’re unattractive but I’m always like. If I saw them on hinge I’d tap x. And sometimes it makes me wonder if I am missing out on guys I could have been attracted to. Or is it ok for me to be pickier on a dating app? Especially since I went through my matches and once people started responding it said I have 38 matches 😭😂. I always seem to do this to myself. It’s like a loophole to bypass the 8 matches lol. I gotta narrow this down anyways or else imma get overwhelmed and leave the app again for a month or 3 weeks lol. Any tips for me? Also I’ve given up tinder because of obvious reasons so that’s why I’m only using hinge.

I’ve realized I’m usually picky on dating apps like hinge. Like most the guys I find attractive don’t have good pictures and if I saw them on hinge I’d swipe left. But I only match with attractive guys (sometimes I match with semi attractive photos of people because of my realization) sometimes I feel like this makes me a shallow person. But I feel like maybe I shouldn’t be as harsh on swiping left because most guys I find attractive in real life usually look bad in photos. Not to say they’re unattractive but I’m always like. If I saw them on hinge I’d tap x. And sometimes it makes me wonder if I am missing out on guys I could have been attracted to. Or is it ok for me to be pickier on a dating app? Especially since I went through my matches and once people started responding it said I have 38 matches 😭😂. I always seem to do this to myself. It’s like a loophole to bypass the 8 matches lol. I gotta narrow this down anyways or else imma get overwhelmed and leave the app again for a month or 3 weeks lol. Any tips for me? Also I’ve given up tinder because of obvious reasons so that’s why I’m only using hinge.

I’ve realized I’m usually picky on dating apps like hinge. Like most the guys I find attractive don’t have good pictures and if I saw them on hinge I’d swipe left. But I only match with attractive guys (sometimes I match with semi attractive photos of people because of my realization) sometimes I feel like this makes me a shallow person. But I feel like maybe I shouldn’t be as harsh on swiping left because most guys I find attractive in real life usually look bad in photos. Not to say they’re unattractive but I’m always like. If I saw them on hinge I’d tap x. And sometimes it makes me wonder if I am missing out on guys I could have been attracted to. Or is it ok for me to be pickier on a dating app? Especially since I went through my matches and once people started responding it said I have 38 matches 😭😂. I always seem to do this to myself. It’s like a loophole to bypass the 8 matches lol. I gotta narrow this down anyways or else imma get overwhelmed and leave the app again for a month or 3 weeks lol. Any tips for me? Also I’ve given up tinder because of obvious reasons so that’s why I’m only using hinge.

I grew up being able to see ghosts, not all the time. But I think mostly the ones that wanted to be seen. And it’s not like it was in my head, I realized that when I got confirmation of ghosts that I saw. Like for example touring an old prison and touring and old mine. During the tour of the mine I saw a guy at the bar with his head down and I asked if someone died here and the tour guide said “actually someone died from alcohol poisoning here once”. And the tour of the old prison, I went into a cell and a flash of a guy hanging over me appeared. I asked if someone died and they said “a prisoner hung himself in the cell” there was a plaque outside the cell and when I looked it said the prisoner that hung himself. Now I didn’t just have experiences like seeing the ghost and how they died, although it happened a few times. But I did encounter ghosts that would interact with me. But those are too long of a story lol. Anyways when I was 13 I noticed I stopped seeing ghosts. And I always wondered what happened, and why it stopped. Because 13 seems really late to lose the ability to see ghosts.

I grew up being able to see ghosts, not all the time. But I think mostly the ones that wanted to be seen. And it’s not like it was in my head, I realized that when I got confirmation of ghosts that I saw. Like for example touring an old prison and touring and old mine. During the tour of the mine I saw a guy at the bar with his head down and I asked if someone died here and the tour guide said “actually someone died from alcohol poisoning here once”. And the tour of the old prison, I went into a cell and a flash of a guy hanging over me appeared. I asked if someone died and they said “a prisoner hung himself in the cell” there was a plaque outside the cell and when I looked it said the prisoner that hung himself. Now I didn’t just have experiences like seeing the ghost and how they died, although it happened a few times. But I did encounter ghosts that would interact with me. But those are too long of a story lol. Anyways when I was 13 I noticed I stopped seeing ghosts. And I always wondered what happened, and why it stopped. Because 13 seems really late to lose the ability to see ghosts.

I don’t usually complain but wtf 😭 I had 1010 birds I practically used all of them (I was left with 10 lol) rolling at 40 which is x2. I ended up getting only 4720 points. Landed on no partners and no grim. Back to 20 it is

Even when I’m not restricting and I binge, if something I’m holding is heavy it will turn me off completely and I’ll start to feel sick. Like for example: today my nacho fries from Taco Bell, I usually love. But they overfilled my fries. (You would think this would be a good thing) but when I grabbed them i instantly felt sick. And i genuinely didn’t want to eat anymore. This predominately happens with burritos. If a burrito is heavy i genuinely wouldn’t be able to eat it because it makes me feel sick. (I wasted money on the grilled cheese burrito, which I thew away because I couldn’t get myself to even try it, the heaviness of it turned me off) now the reason why I’m conflicted on if it’s an ed thing is because I could binge a bunch of tiny burritos but big heavy burritos make me sick. Also I tried a thing of cutting a burrito in half (if it feels heavy) and sometimes it works. Although sometimes my brain just gets scared with overloaded burritos. I also rip things into tiny pieces like with cookies,muffins, brownies,rice crispy treat and other similar things. Those aren’t heavy but I do genuinely think it makes the food taste better. And I Ngl get disgusted if I don’t rip those foods into bite size pieces. I could eat like 10 brownies and I would still do that. I’m just so conflicted because I do the same thing even if I’m binging.