He knows I want to get married and always says he’ll do it “after” some sort of milestone: such as “making enough money” “after I graduate grad school” “after I finish rehab” (he had a brief drug issue last year).
I have been waiting for a proposal since last Spring, but he’s flaked.
He just keeps flaking.
We’ve lived together for 6 years… I love him. He gets all the benefits of marriage except no commitment. I almost feel like I don’t want to get married to him anymore because of how many times I’ve seen him promise to marry me on X date and then flake.
Please help.
I feel like a fool because I am so hopelessly in love with this man who just keeps kicking the can down the road
u/Equivalent-Age-7801 — 21 days ago