u/Every-Pen-551

Hi! im 17 and am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend of a year, ever since we’ve been together i’ve identified as a trans guy, but recently i’ve gone through a lot of realisation that i am be gender fluid instead. my girlfriend has mentioned in the past about how she does not like girls romantically and it’s made me really worried on how she’ll take it. A lot of the time shes joked about the what ifs of me detransitioning and stuff and i’ve only ever laughed it off so i’m really unsure and nervous on what to do. i’m just looking for any helpful advice, thank you! :)