tetris helped me get my life back on track 🫂

I played hours of tetris before going to bed yesterday and woke up feeling determined to make something of my day for the first time in weeks. Ik tetris is good for mental health in specific situations but I wonder if it helps you get back on track after being down as well? Finally left my room and was productive for the first time in a while!!

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 days ago

Stylist chopped half my hair off…

and she was right in doing so. Prior to the chop my hair was bra strap length but very tangled at the roots. I had uneven splits and breakage everywhere. I spent years growing it out but i only started taking care of my hair this year. It was too late. I am putting my hair in jail (mini braids for the rest of the year. I was planning to do a silk press at the end of the year to celebrate but it will have to wait till next year.

My plan is to wash weekly, and redo the braids monthly. I will take them down with african pride pre poo or homemade flax seed gel.

I will be deep conditioning with a heated cap weekly and ayurvedic hair oiling every two weeks.

I plan to get trims/dustings 8 weeks.

I plan to take mary ruths, and use rosemary and minoxidil.

Hopefully by next year I will have reached my previous length, ive heard these mini braids work wonders for length retention.

Remind me to check in a couple of months!!

u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 9 days ago

25F- What’s the cutest thing you’ve ever seen?

Was feeling down and saw an adorable kitty image and now i feel a little better. So now im curious, what cute or unexpected uplifting things have you seen? Or what are non expected things that have made u laugh or smile when you felt much the opposite prior?

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 26 days ago

I get all my inspiration at night…

Suddenly I feel like I can write a million poems about him, about me. Journal about what I want in life, talk to moon about my dreams. When really I should be sleeping and not thinking about the bruises on my heart. What soothes you all in these moments? For me I need to connect with others. Or look at cute cat pictures. Like most people I would rather not the inspirational quote. I’m too insecure rn to scroll on social media too delicate to listen a YouTube guru. I have an early morning tmr. I should get some sleep.

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 26 days ago

25 F - How do you deal with mood swings? Emotional stability, etc

I am like this with my family all the time. I am pretty irritable. But never with friends. I am seeing this dude currently and I am starting to see it manifest there. Feeling up and down irritated or annoyed pretty easily. How do I control my emotional responses? I don’t want to be so easily shaken. EDIT: I never express it to him or in front of him. I just try to let it pass and stay in the moment. Its still early days.

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 1 month ago

25F I’m scared im getting too attached to a dude i just met 🥹

we went on 1 date last week and have been texting since. I really really like him. I’m scared bc in my head I love him but the way i use love is more casually. But just the thought of that made me panic because I don’t want to fall in love. I want to get to know him better. I like him. I guess im open to a situationship but i really don’t want to commit. 😪

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 1 month ago
▲ 7 r/bored+1 crossposts

end of day regrets…

in hindsight maybe i should not have indulged in retail therapy now im down $300 😔

the stuff i bought is so cute and gonna bring so much joy though i think. I finally went to the gym today and bought a waist trainer. Tmr im gonna watch a movie and pick up one of the things i ordered and get a pedicure. This is turning out to be one expensive week lol. On friday im gonna go out with my friend but im need to remember the cut. I love talking about health wellness and fashion honestly

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago

What are essential questions to ask someone you are dating?

I know how many siblings, age, and i think kost of the basic stuff but i think im missing a few things. What do you think are other things I should know while dating?

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago

25F any hairstylists here? i think i messed up my new hair style

Erm send help i truly feel like i have done something wrong, but idk how to fix or if i should leave it or go back to my old style 🥹

Age and Gender before PM or I wont respond.

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago

25F - Does anyone watch love island? Or want to yap about any of these topics (below)?

Dating, Discipline, Motivation, Studying, Routine, Manifestation 💖

Age and gender or no PM.

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago

Mind Movies (premade?)

Does anyone know where to find premade mind movies or have one they want to share? I found one for money on yt but honestly I want one to help me build a disciplined work and study life.

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago

hi my date was nice can someone interrogate me to see if ive caught feelings??

if u like to psychoanalyze study psychology or are big brained PM. age and gender with pm or i wont respond (25F)

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u/Fancy-Fisherman6161 — 2 months ago