people are reading too much into BTS turning down coachella

people are reading too much into BTS turning down coachella

a lot of people are having very visceral reactions to this news. i’ve seen many people say that BTS are now lazy, they’re just not as hungry as they were for fame, they’re egos are too high, they think they’re too old, etc. now we, of course, don’t know the true reason why they turned down the offer, unless they speak out themselves, but i think automatically assuming anything i listed above is immature and illogical.

them turning down coachella is most likely due to their tour ending in Australia on february 21st and coachella taking place the weekends of april 9 - 11th and then april 16 - 18th. giving them less than 40 days to prepare for the stage with some relaxing after the grueling tour and traveling in mind. BTS, as headline performers, would need longer than that to prepare for their stage, as headliners typically prepare their stages months in advance. i’d expect an intense stage from performers like BTS, something that would gain a lot of attention, praise, and be visually stunning. maybe something like their 2019 mma performance, obviously not the exact same, but something as impactful and stunning as those stages. this would put immense pressure on them fresh out of their again, very long and physically demanding, world tour. i simply don’t think this news should instill any fear into fans of them disbanding or not wanting to perform on big stages anymore.

it’s just not realistic for them to headline coachella with their schedule this year. but i also think fans celebrating and saying “yeah, they’re too big for coachella anyways” is also harmful. no artist is too big for coachella, especially as a headliner. famous artists like beyoncé, justin beiber, sabrina carpenter, madonna, zara larsson etc have performed. it would be an amazing opportunity for them to perform at one of the biggest, if not biggest, music festivals in america. i’d love for them to and maybe it’ll be in their future! unfortunately, it’s most likely that the timing just didn’t work out this time and that’s okay!

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 8 days ago

any ao3 fic recs with fwb bkdk?

i don’t want to be toooo picky, but i would preferably like to read a fic where bkdk definitely have some tension between them and are a little toxic, but also are friends with benefits and it gets messy because one of them catches feelings before the other realizes they also like the other. bonus points for internalized homophobia.

also pls pls pls don’t comment dkbk (🙏🏽), as i am a fixed bkdk reader. thank you in advance!

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u/Far_Literature_9924 — 1 month ago

jimin’s vocals are severely underrated

i hate that i constantly see jimin in “kpop idols that can’t sing” categories. i feel like antis recycle the same 5 clips of his voice cracking, him on an off day, him sick, him nervous, or him experiencing in ear issues to label him as a bad singer. he is a fantastic vocalist with a very unique, beautiful voice. hearing him live was mesmerizing! i’m shocked he hasn’t went more viral with his vocals. his voice is so impressive that other idols struggle to cover bts songs or can’t even cover his solo songs because his voice is so hard to replicate. i feel like people forget that jimin’s voice was (and still is ofc) crucial to bts and hybe. jimin was constantly in the back hitting difficult notes as adlibs or just hitting high notes the others couldn’t. some songs i think his voice stands out in are let me know, rain, danger, i need u, home, bs&t, outro: do you think it makes sense, love maze, don’t leave me.. just to name a few. i don’t think it’s fair to label him as a bad singer when his talents greatly outweigh his faults. faults that every vocalist has mind you. jimin deserves more praise!

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 2 months ago

jimin’s long blonde hair is his best hair style by FAR

he’s such a natural blonde and the long locks really fit him so much! you can also tell how comfortable he is with this hair and how much fun he has playing around with different styles. he’s so confident with this hair. i love this for him so much

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 2 months ago

what do you think would be the best way to approach the CB situation?

at this point, the company, hobi, or namjoon will probably not acknowledge any criticisms, but let’s say they did.. what do you think would be the best approach? i know a lot of people are saying that if they do choose to speak out, now they are publicly bashing CB, therefore creating celebrity drama and a rivalry. but after CB called an army a “hoe” on a tiktok comment (now deleted), it would be nice to see bts side with their fandom over a literal criminal. i feel like army’s do a whole lot of defending bts from antis online, that bts should also defend us at times. i have no idea what the right way to approach it would be. lmk your thoughts

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u/Far_Literature_9924 — 2 months ago

bts’s nationality is not an excuse for all of their contraversies

anytime a controversy happens it’s “oh, well they’re from korea. they don’t know.” i find this quote only valid for how, back in their very early days, they were taking inspiration from black american hip-hop and rap and ignorantly appropriating the culture along the way. other than that, it is literally the big year of 2026 and bts aren’t just your average korean citizen, who honestly probably isn’t in the loop with chris brown’s crimes, they are in the music industry. they’ve been in the music industry for over a decade now, they are major public figures. not some nugu group, this is the biggest boy group in the world right now. i honestly hope namjoon and hobi see the criticisms and apologize. and not only apologize, but take this opportunity as a learning moment to be more aware of what’s going on. i’m also glad i barely see any army’s defending them, but i still have and it’s always the same excuse. “they’re korean” that doesn’t matter!! going to the concert of a woman abuser is not a good look. they also need to realize that, yes, this was just two members, but they also represent the entire group. when i first woke up and saw the news, i thought the entire group went because of how people word their think pieces. “bts seen at chris brown concert”, even though it was just two members. they probably owe the entire group an apology as well! i’m honestly a bit doubtful we will get a response, but at the same time, i wouldn’t be surprised if namjoon came on a live and apologized. we shall see.

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u/Far_Literature_9924 — 2 months ago

saw BTS at metlife day 1 and 2. here are my thoughts

i had such a blast! the boys put on such a wonderful performance, despite obviously being tired from the heat and humidity. a few critiques i have are that i don’t think they are dressed the best for the weather. i don’t know who their stylists are, but all the boys wear long sleeves, layers, long pants, jackets, hats, etc. i think hobi and tae at one point had a tank top on, and maybe namjoon, but i feel like they should all wear short sleeves!! it was extremely hot, especially on day 2! jimin was very exhausted and kept having to rest on the floor during the performance, or during small breaks in between songs. it broke my heart. he even said that the heat was a lot in his speech, but he still was amazing, like always. as someone who is jimin biased, i did notice that sometimes when jimin is singing, he is not shown on the big screen and that was something that irked me throughout the show. i don’t know who the camera director is, but they kinda suck. they should have an idea of which member sings which part and show them when they are singing! or if a member is dancing, show that! i’m also not sure if there are fans near the stage or not. i know twice had fans for them because their hair was constantly blowing, but i didn’t notice anything to cool the members down while they’re on stage. maybe that’s just how metlife is, not sure. i also think the concert felt short!! but again, with how tiring the performances are, i understand why it’s only 2 hours. i just wish they would’ve added a solo song for each of the members, this way members can rest when it’s not their turn and there could be probably another 30 min or so added. one last critique i have, which is just me being picky, is i wish they calmed down with the camera effects. sometimes i just wanted to see the boys and i couldn’t because there was so much going on on the screen while they were performing certain songs. had no issues with the boys at all. they did absolutely amazing and i loved the setlist so much. they danced, sung, and rapped their hearts out. the main thing i love about bts is how passionate they are. and i could really tell they love what they do this past weekend. metlife was also SPOILED with amazing surprise songs. ugh i wish i could go back in time and watch the concert again!!

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u/Far_Literature_9924 — 2 months ago
▲ 474 r/ATLA

adult aang was not wrong for saying this

just saw a tiktok with 40k likes hating on aang for telling katara and his friends they’ll never understand how he feels. what he said is NOT wrong. his friends all lost something due to the war. katara and sokka lost their mother, their father had to leave them to fight in the war, and the benders of their nation were round up and killed off. zuko lost his mom and his connection to his people because he was too kind hearted for them. these are all horrible, but aang lost everything. the only thing he had left of his culture and people were appa, momo, and some air temples. every single person he knew was killed. he was the only air bender left. the last monk. so no, aang was not in the wrong when he told his friends that they can never understand him. they can only understand aang to a certain extent, but they’ll never be able to fully grasp the concept of being the last of your kind. i have no idea how that had so many likes and people agreeing in the comments.

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 3 months ago
▲ 490 r/ATLA

was there ever any hope for azula?

i haven’t read the comics and they probably explore azula’s character more in depth, but was there truly any hope for her to end up like zuko? in zuko alone, we get many flashbacks of zuko’s childhood, which obviously includes his sister azula. and here we can see that at a very young age she showed signs of being a psychopath. she has zero empathy for others. when she learns that her uncle iroh’s own son died, instead of feeling sad for him or mourning the loss of her cousin, she mocks iroh for not continuing the attacks on ba sing sae. she also listens in on the conversation between azulon and her father, where ozai agrees to kill zuko, and rather than feel sad and anxious by this new information, she instead taunts zuko. even saying that maybe a nice earth kingdom family can adopt him. not to mention the fact that she hurts small animals and often enough for the animals to fear her very presence. i feel like only so much of these behaviors can be her father’s influence. was she truly just born with a bit of screws loose? or is this truly all ozai’s doing and a lack of support from her mother? we all know that zuko was forced to gravitate towards his mother and as a result, had more guidance and good life lessons to learn. additionally to this, zuko also had iroh’s presence during his banishment. i’m not sure.. what do you think?

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 3 months ago

if lori didn’t exist, do you think shane would’ve been able to survive with the group for long?

i always ask myself if his obsession over lori was the sole reason he went crazy and acted the way he acted? or if even without lori he’d still be an impulsive, hot head who doesn’t work well with others? i’m never too sure.. lmk what you think.

my personal take is that even if lori wasn’t involved, he still would’ve wanted to be the only person making calls and would feel threatened by rick’s natural leadership role. he wouldn’t like that the group favored rick over him and rick’s calls over his own and would probably still go crazy and want to kill rick. ultimately, leading to his death. i also think that, yes, shane did make some correct, tougher calls which were the norm for the later seasons, but killing otis took a huge toll on his psyche. sort of proving he couldn’t last long, especially wnen killing people becomes extremely normalized. but i could also see him lasting til negan times, if he could be rick’s right hand man, but again, could shane’s personality handle that? not sure.

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 3 months ago

jungkook needs to be more careful

i want to preface this by saying i am by no means victim blaming him in any way, nor am i defending stalker behavior. but i don’t understand how jungkook is still so trusting, i would say is the right word, this far into his career. army’s are probably the biggest fanbase in the world, meaning there are many freaks and weirdos in the fandom. in my opinion, he over shares with fans. again, the fandom is huge, therefore BTS should always be extremely cautious with what they post and say on the internet, for their own safety. i feel like the other members do this just fine. im not saying they also don’t have their fair share of freak fans who follow them around, but jungkook is always saying how people are constantly outside of his own home. this is terrifying!! but anyways.. just to be less broad, today he posts videos of him working out (now i’m not from korea, but i am sure koreans can easily figure out where he is), saying what time he is leaving to go out.. so of course people showed up around his house because they know he’s leaving and they can catch him outside. someone even said they’ll go to the han river to meet him (im guessing that’s where he was running and working out. he posts a video politely telling them to “fuck off” afterwards, but this could’ve all been avoided if he was just more cautious and let’s say played those videos in a week from now when he is not currently at the han river, or currently leaving his house. i seriously hope the company begins to sue and throw these freaks in jail, but i seriously want jungkook to also be more careful!! when these people already know where he lives, sharing that you are going out to run around and work out and providing videos of the surrounding area is not smart! there are ways to interact with fans safely. this is coming from a place of worry and care, not hate btw. i just don’t want to see him get hurt

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago
▲ 187 r/bakudeku

any bkdk fics with this trope?

obviously with katsuki being the delinquent and izuku as the oblivious nerd

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago

ozai is perfectly written

i disagree with the part of the fandom that complains about how ozai was handled or written. i think he was the perfect overarching villain for a show set up like atla, where the main conflict is a 100 year war. and who is leading and fueling the very war? ozai. no, we did not need to see more of him. no, we did not need a face reveal sooner. no, we don’t need a backstory. no, we do not need a day in his life or more depth to his character. all of this is unecessary when we, the audience, see his destruction every time the gaang travels someplace new and runs into people like jet and the freedom fighters. children so hurt by war they are willing to kill innocents (or maybe it was just jet, i can’t remember). haru, who is forbidden to earth bend because fire nation soldiers will imprison him, just like they did to his father. refugees so hurt by the war they are burned and scarred, like song. refugees who are barley getting by in the serpent’s pass episode. katara and sokka’s mother who was killed and left without a father because he must go fight in the war. zuko’s scar is a constant reminder of what a horrible, selfish, piece of shit ozai is. to burn his own son so terribly, mind you for showing compassion for their own soldiers, leaving a permanent “lesson” on his face, while deforming his eye and ear is simply irredeemable. for turning azula, a 14 year old girl, into a child soldier to do his bidding. ozai is simply the big bad who needs to be stopped. he lacks depth because he doesn’t need depth. any depth added would feel unecessary when we see how horrible he is throughout the show, through other characters and their experiences with the war. we learn, very early on, that he is a tyrannical world leader that simply needs to go down and that works perfectly for atla.

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago

can someone pls give me fic recs

this is going to sound oddly specific, but i think it’s quite a popular-ish trope, so there should be fics out there <//3 i basically want fics where bkdk are fwb and they both believe the love is unrequited, but it’s truly not, so their dumbasses just don’t communicate, but continue to get jealous over one another. smth along those lines ^_^ pls pls pls thank u in advance

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u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago

justice for appa

sokka was really going to hijack appa in the dead of night to take him to a fire nation prison surrounded by boiling hot water 😭 and then aang never really gave katara permission to take appa on a trip for who knows how long doing who knows what, and she even admits in the scene she was going to take him anyways. appa is NOT just a means of transportation, people!! so rude 🥲 #JusticeForAppa

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago

what’s your favorite zuko field trip?

ever since i was a kid, i’ve always enjoyed the boiling rock episodes the best. sokka and zuko are a great duo and the pay off at the end of ty lee and mai betraying azula makes this one the best to me.

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago

do you consider suki apart of team avatar or a loyal ally?

i really like suki’s character and i think she proves to be very useful throughout the course of the show. for example, she knocked some sense into sexist sokka and shaped who he is now, she helped the gaang cross the serpents’s pass (even saving toph from drowning), she found and healed appa, she was the MVP during the boiling rock episodes, and she saved sokka and toph’s lives in the final battle. i personally like when she’s considered apart of the group. “fan and sword” as sokka said </3

on the other hand, i understand when people say that suki has her own group, the kyoshi warriors, and duties to tend to, so they view her more as a very useful ally to the gaang, but i was wondering what this subreddits take would be on this!

u/Far_Literature_9924 — 5 months ago